Blood Red Romance

So I talked to my precious Gem at work tonight, and basically she is really scared of me. Like, she said so her self, that she pretty much thinks I am the devil incarnate. It was kind of embarrassing because towards the end of the night when I got a hold of her, she confronted me with such a whirl wind of sentimental passion that I couldn't help blushing. And that is strange coming from a gemini. Anyways, I do think she will eventually calm down. Fortunately my Neptune in Capricorn is coming to the surface and making me see things a bit calmer than I was a couple nights ago. I'm just gonna smoke a bowl, read this new Shirley Jackson story I just bought, and relax.

That's why I asked if she was new to acid. When you get some experience, you learn that every little thought that enters your head on it doesn't have to be the absolute truth, even though it might feel like it at the time.

I'm not trying to offend you, but I have to ask: WERE you being manipulative? WAS what she saw correct? I'm asking that because one of my dearest loves was a Pisces, and he was incredibly manipulative...especially to lovers and potential lovers. That doesn't mean YOU are, so that's why I'm asking.

Yea she is new to acid and pretty much all drugs. I mean, maybe I was being manipulative to her I don't know, it depends on how you look at it. What some people think is manipulative other people see as romantic. I cut my left arm open for a girl one time, to me that was romantic, to her that was creepy.

Dangerously Romantic.

I get what you were going for, Tornadoday. You were just trying to share your world with her. I think the mistake was made when you tried to make a move into the bedroom. She was already on a downward spiral from the video games, so what should have happened next was some major chilling and some fun, not the pressure to get physical. But I guess hindsight doesn't help much now.

Pisces and Gemini are a bad combo, it seems. Introducing her to a hard drug like that was a bad move on your part bro. I think you've added a new demon to the one's she was already battling.

Unfortunately for her now that she's gotten a taste, that monkey is going to be next to impossible to shake.

I really hope it doesn't ruin her life.

Posted by duchessedenemours
You have a looooot of Pisces and water thoug XY. I can see you getting along better.

For Gems that don't have that Pisces brings out the worst.

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True!

Posted by duchessedenemours
You have a looooot of Pisces and water thoug XY. I can see you getting along better.

For Gems that don't have that Pisces brings out the worst.

Hmmm...I wonder what his love interest has in the rest of her chart.

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Posted by duchessedenemours
You have a looooot of Pisces and water thoug XY. I can see you getting along better.

For Gems that don't have that Pisces brings out the worst.

Hmmm...I wonder what his love interest has in the rest of her chart.

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I do too. I hope she has a lot of earth because it's going to take a lot of will power to purge the urge to do a hard drug like that.

I have tons of water, too. And a Pisces moon. I felt like I understood my Pisces lover on a soul level. The day-to-day logistics of our relationship were just too difficult, though, and I had to tear myself away from him.

Okay so I see a lot of you are rushing to conclusions about me, but listen. A lot of you probably have never done acid so you don't know what it is like. It is a very mind opening drug, and I don't think she is going to be worse off for feeling the things she has felt. Obviously I care about her so I am not going to hurt her and in a month or two she probably wont see me in such an evil light any more. By then she will have incorporated what she has learned and be better for it.

She needs to learn about the beauty of darkness.

Thank you xcake. Im sorry that so many of y'all's idea of romance is restricted to that of a 'romantic comedy', but don't dare tell me that my love is not warm. And Whimsy, it was about half way through the trip and she was freaked out so I figured that making out would make her feel better. She just thought it was all going a little fast and so I backed off, okay. But she was working fine today and I am sure she will want to do it again.

^^^^Judgmental^^^

I am very attracted to the innocent quality of Gems but I must say I don't think this drama would have happened with a Scorpio girl.

^^^Already are.

Yeah, you don't have to introduce Scorps to the darkness- they were born there!

Gems: we fly high; we don't swim deep (not because we can't, but because it's oppressive). If you're going to try this experience again, make sure the environment is uplifting! Gems go into the deepest parts of themselves by soaring, not by diving.

Ahh, the lovely fish DO fly in water!

I guess I was trying to get across that sometimes people feel that the only way to go deep within yourself is to go down, down, down, into the depths of your internal emotions. For me, it's the other way around: the more elated and integrated into my EXTERNAL reality I feel, the more I'm free to be in touch with whatever is deep inside and needing my attention.

I'm not sure if I'm included in what you just said.

I'm not encouraging anything. But since I don't see anything wrong with 2 adults deciding to do what they're doing, I'm just trying to answer his questions in the best way I can.

Posted by xcake
The gem chick made her choice, she wasn't pressured into doing aanything. Also, I don't think this Pisces mean any harm.

Why take it to another level?

This.

@Geminivixxen
I think you have acid, as in LSD, confused with acid, as in battery acid or hydrochloric acid. LSD is non toxic and taken in very small amounts. It has no effects at all on the body (good or bad). It just releases A LOT of serotonin.

You might think that your intentions make it ok but the devil always has the truest of intentions.I'm not calling you evil or the devil, but I am saying that a Pisces is NOT a Gemini. What's ok for you or any one else isn't ok for her. Gemini's come into the world like children in a candy store.

Our curiosity is all we need to get high, the wonders of this world is all the darkness a Gemini cares to expose itself to. Our child like happiness, joy and the potential beauty of our universe are enough to send a Gemini on a mental trip.

The darkness might help you see the light but a Gemini usually is that light barer. I don't know too much about LSD so I hope we're overreacting. However, I have witness a lot of really talented individuals lose themselves to hard drugs. It's really sad.

Posted by Tornadoday16
@Geminivixxen
I think you have acid, as in LSD, confused with acid, as in battery acid or hydrochloric acid. LSD is non toxic and taken in very small amounts. It has no effects at all on the body (good or bad). It just releases A LOT of serotonin.

That's news to me too

I'm having trouble deciding if some of the Gems are being serious or sarcastic. Did you really not know what acid is?

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You might think that your intentions make it ok but the devil always has the truest of intentions.I'm not calling you evil or the devil, but I am saying that a Pisces is NOT a Gemini. What's ok for you or any one else isn't ok for her. Gemini's come into the world like children in a candy store.

Our curiosity is all we need to get high, the wonders of this world is all the darkness a Gemini cares to expose itself to. Our child like happiness, joy and the potential beauty of our universe are enough to send a Gemini on a mental trip.

The darkness might help you see the light but a Gemini usually is that light barer. I don't know too much about LSD so I hope we're overreacting. However, I have witness a lot of really talented individuals lose themselves to hard drugs. It's really sad.

And not every gemini is the same.

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YOU GOT THAT RIGHT!!!

hmmm personally I have never been with a guy that wanted to introduce me any sort of drugs but I will say though that everybody is different so it not that you are wrong or right. If your both happy and in control with it its your life. You should be very careful though with her as you saying shes new to it. That much care should be there.

Nobody is arguing how harmless something is. Heck, medicine will kill you if you take too much of it. People die from water poisoning all the time. Too much oxygen in the brain can cause real damage to your cognitive faculties.

Catch my drift? It's the dosage that makes the poison. I just don't like the fact that he introduced her to it. Now she's got a taste of it.

By the way y'all are making it sound it would be better for a Gem to do acid outdoors than inside? I'm going to suggest this to her.

So that she can externalize herself instead of internalize it I mean?

Okay y'all, I understand what you mean about Pisces and Gemini being an unstable pair, but what y'all need to realize is that life is unstable. This is the lesson that I am trying to teach this girl and all y'all and none of y'all seem to be getting it through y'alls heads. We are all on a crash and burn course and there is nothing we can do to get off of it. The reason why Pisces and Gemini can be one of the most sexual pairings is because of the tension created by the instability. The thrill of connecting with someone so different is worth living for. Its a rebellion against the way things ought to be, which is exactly what life is in the first place. So what if the relationship is eventually going to fall apart? the few months I'm in it will be better than five years in a boring ass Pisces-Cancer relationship where nothing crazy happens. What are y'all? A bunch of Taurans?

If your going to do things by the book all the time then why live at all? Life is about making new possibilities.

Hey Rabbit, I don't need any drug to help me get in a girls pants. If anything giving her acid made it harder to get in her pants.

Fuckin' Scorpio hijacked the thread...

A Scorp may have hijacked the thread, but they didn't/ don't capture all the gems!.. I find trying to talk to a Scorp is like pulling teeth!.. They seem so guarded in not wanting to show weakness in talking about their emotions...at least that's what I get from my Scorp daughter and nephew. Maybe because of my gem/cancer cusp and moon I feel more emotional connection with Pisces than Scorps...like Xcake stated each gem is different..

Scorps take everything so seriously its honestly pretty funny. I live with a Scorp and the littlest thing gets her worked into such a moody passion its ridiculous. We Pisces let our emotions go and put them up for public display and debate, thats why we can associate with air signs.

^^^^^^^this...

my pisces wears his emotions on his sleeve, whereas my daughter wants you to delve to extract hers..
why I feel she stings and keeps stinging when her love is not received or returned, because she allowed
herself to be open and vulnerable..both are passionate loving people, just go about it differently..

Why is anyone surprised about this? Seeing a Pisces all into drugs. What a concept. Every single one lives in this typical dream world trying to escape reality. I have never met a Pisces that wasn't some kind of addict. Whether it be food, money, sex, drugs, alcohol the list goes on. Pisces and Gemini will never work. Ive tried dating maybe 2 and that was enough for me. One of them was completely off the reservation (and had a drug problem), the other was an alcoholic (found that out LATER). Nope.

Ill say this right now. No offense Tornado but youre a terrible influence and way too sappy, overbearing and I think youre more in love with the idea/nostalgia (dream world) of being in love than actually what it is. I dont think youre in love I think youre addicted to something you can't have. You are way too watery (cancer placements) and she's telling you to back off.

Feeding a girl you hardly know acid is fucking retarded. And you expected her to I don't know get some crazy idea about how much shes in love with you when she ate it? Going to skip through the flowers and profess your love for one another? What did you think was going to happen? I swear some of you water signs have ZERO logic.

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Posted by Tornadoday16
Okay y'all, I understand what you mean about Pisces and Gemini being an unstable pair, but what y'all need to realize is that life is unstable. This is the lesson that I am trying to teach this girl and all y'all and none of y'all seem to be getting it through y'alls heads. We are all on a crash and burn course and there is nothing we can do to get off of it. The reason why Pisces and Gemini can be one of the most sexual pairings is because of the tension created by the instability. The thrill of connecting with someone so different is worth living for. Its a rebellion against the way things ought to be, which is exactly what life is in the first place. So what if the relationship is eventually going to fall apart? the few months I'm in it will be better than five years in a boring ass Pisces-Cancer relationship where nothing crazy happens. What are y'all? A bunch of Taurans?

This is the gist of the whole situation.

You want her to experiment with drugs to make it easier for you to get in her pants for some kind of idealized psychedelic fuck fantasy.

She probably sees right through it.

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I love it when Scorpio's come here. They ooze brutal honesty and with that said +1

Posted by xcake
Umm the Pisces guy I know isnt into drugs. You cant put all of them in the same category. He's a responsible and reasonable individual.

Yeah whats that like .0001% ? You got lucky. Im sure he has some type of addiction you just don't know it yet. And if you READ my answer I didn't just SAY drugs I meant a myriad of addictions.

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Posted by Tornadoday16
She needs to learn about the beauty of darkness.

Yeah, fuck that. No one "needs" to learn anything except what they want to. They don't need some random dude from work coercing them into drug use to open their fucking mind.

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IKR. To me this sounds psychotic. Any other fellow Gemini's think this? If someone said that to me Id look at him like he was 1. crazy and then 2. laugh in his face. Darkness. What are you The Crow?

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Posted by xcake
Umm the Pisces guy I know isnt into drugs. You cant put all of them in the same category. He's a responsible and reasonable individual.

Yeah whats that like .0001% ? You got lucky. Im sure he has some type of addiction you just don't know it yet. And if you READ my answer I didn't just SAY drugs I meant a myriad of addictions.

Or he's just being a Pisces.

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Which is psychotic/emo/crazy bat shit

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And just an FYI. I see the grammatical error and no it wasn't me LOL! I know the diff between your and you're. LMAO!

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Posted by Tornadoday16
She needs to learn about the beauty of darkness.

Yeah, fuck that. No one "needs" to learn anything except what they want to. They don't need some random dude from work coercing them into drug use to open their fucking mind.

IKR. To me this sounds psychotic. Any other fellow Gemini's think this? If someone said that to me Id look at him like he was 1. crazy and then 2. laugh in his face. Darkness. What are you The Crow?

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Yeah, but I think this is a pretty normal Pisces guy thing. They act like they are the guardians of esoteric knowledge and that they need to impart their wisdom to the sleeping masses who aren't as intelligent or insightful as they.

Never mind if no one is asking to be taught. Never mind if the person has already thought of all of the same ideas and philosophies, but doesn't advertise that fact by endlessly spouting off at the mouth. Never mind if the Pisces is so busy forcing people to learn from him that he's missing extremely important lessons that others have to teach.

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Posted by Tornadoday16
She needs to learn about the beauty of darkness.

Yeah, fuck that. No one "needs" to learn anything except what they want to. They don't need some random dude from work coercing them into drug use to open their fucking mind.

IKR. To me this sounds psychotic. Any other fellow Gemini's think this? If someone said that to me Id look at him like he was 1. crazy and then 2. laugh in his face. Darkness. What are you The Crow?

Yeah, but I think this is a pretty normal Pisces guy thing. They act like they are the guardians of esoteric knowledge and that they need to impart their wisdom to the sleeping masses who aren't as intelligent or insightful as they.

Never mind if no one is asking to be taught. Never mind if the person has already thought of all of the same ideas and philosophies, but doesn't advertise that fact by endlessly spouting off at the mouth. Never mind if the Pisces is so busy forcing people to learn from him that he's missing extremely important lessons that others have to teach.

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Its such a turn off this type of behavior for me as Gemini. I also have a Libra rising so im sure she and I are probably thinking the same thing. Like HOLY SHIT.

Pisces after Gemini
Ew....

Xin, you crack me up

Posted by xcake
Umm the Pisces guy I know isnt into drugs. You cant put all of them in the same category. He's a responsible and reasonable individual.

+1...guess I'm a rare Gem!... lol

Posted by Xin
Pisces after Gemini
Ew....





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Why she didn't say no,Do you think gemini is innocent?