A little more Detail into my Gem Head

Posted by Geminivixenn
*Speechless* I think you should do what your heart tells you.

ugh that does not help..do you have any insight to this at all? postive or negative ill take anything

He sounds like a nut job to me.

He rebounded with you.

What stands out to me is "he doesn't want to lead me on" "ima move on before he gets a chance with me and the next man will be lucky" "all of a sudden he changed become distant became secretiv"

Doesn't seem like this guy is into you enough to commit to anything with you.

I'm not sure why you've wasted so much time on a guy like him especially when there is a man out there that won't sell you short, give you mixed signals nor abandon you when it's convenient for him.

Think about your girls...Are those you're adorable girls in the photo? Kids mimic their parents. Would you want your girls to be with a guy like the one you're dealing with? Probably not.

Can't explain crazy, least I can't.

Posted by tiki33
He sounds like a nut job to me.

He rebounded with you.

What stands out to me is "he doesn't want to lead me on" "ima move on before he gets a chance with me and the next man will be lucky" "all of a sudden he changed become distant became secretiv"

Doesn't seem like this guy is into you enough to commit to anything with you.

I'm not sure why you've wasted so much time on a guy like him especially when there is a man out there that won't sell you short, give you mixed signals nor abandon you when it's convenient for him.

Think about your girls...Are those you're adorable girls in the photo? Kids mimic their parents. Would you want your girls to be with a guy like the one you're dealing with? Probably not.

Can't explain crazy, least I can't.

Your right..I think I should just cut him off completely friends or not..I am much better then he treats me...and he says that not me he doesn't want to lead me on" "ima move on before he gets a chance with me and the next man will be lucky" "all of a sudden he changed become distant became secretiv"...lol..anyway friends or not..I am better then that..🙂

Well put. Then again.. If YOU feel he is making a change to make things better towards you then go for it, if not. Kick him to the curb.

If i stop talking to him what are my consequences, based on his sign? gotta weigh all my options

If the next man will be lucky then I suggest you stay with this guy coz 'lucky' is one helluva bastard and this guy is reallll sweet compared to lucky.

^^What....—??

Anyway.... I think you should find someone who wants to treat you better.... That guy seems like he doesn't know what he wants...

I wish you well. 🙂

@Virgom

What is it that you really want? Because I don't think you can have everything you need from this guy right now if ever.

You should decide what you want and be realistic about what he is capable of giving you. Give him an ultimatum once you have decided and don't back down. Gems can handle that and if he disappears, he'll be back if he really wants to be with you and isn't messed up (though he sounds like he is).

Stop going down the garden path with him and take the lead especially since you have children ....