CAN ANYONE HELP !!!! PLEASE I NEED ADVICE

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Unregistered on Monday, May 13, 2002 and has 8 replies.

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Well here goes. I have recenlty just started seeing this guy (He's a Virgo and I'm a Gemini) and every thing was going fine cause I like him but as soon as I met his friend I started to have feelings for him (He's a Saggitareous)and I know that he has feelings for me too, we cant stop looking at one another and catching one another's eye all the time, we laugh at the same things and generally we are totally alike. His friend (the one I'm seeing) isent really the same as me, has not ambition or drive unlike his friend, and is always skint !!! and is a bit of a bum (although money is not an issue ave got my own) but he is so kind and generous. The virgo is cathing on at us staring at each other and stuff and I thinks he knows we like one another but is afraid to ask or even let on. He is also very argumentative and we had our first argument (over nothing - on his part) we were walking home from pub and he stormed off in a bad mood and let me walk on my own for 10 minutes and it was all for nothing (which made me realise how much I like his friend) I am total mess I dont know what to do as I want him so much but I dont want to tear a friendship apart (as I'm not a selfish person)and I know I should go for what I want to make me happy and I know he feels the same way as I do. What will I do any advice help !!!!!!!!!!! xx

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Listen babe.........it is your ONLY LIFE ON EARTH. Don't waste precious time with someone who is "number 2". Shoot for #1. Our time here is uncertain. GO FOR WHAT REALLY MAKES YOU HAPPY. Dump tha virgo. The sag is what rings your bell baby. Go for it!!!!!!!

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You should go with the guy who makes you happiest, but keep in mind that Gemini and Sagittarius have a strong attraction at first, but they are Zodiak opposites so it will be really hard to keep the relationship going strong.

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Very true. I am a Sagi and I attract Gem males like bees to honey. They are a lot of fun to be with BTW. The only problem for me is that Gem males turn out to be the "playboys" of the zodiac for me. I usually keep them as friends cuz I don't want to be part of their "harem" if you know what I mean!