Can you fight back Geminis?if you decided not why?

I have a close gemini friend and i notice she is easily being taken advantage off. She has a friend that constantly letting her pay for her friend's meals when they hang out. I told her many times it is not her responsibility to pay for her just because her friend has no job. Also some friends borrow money from her and she is afraid to ask them to pay her or when she does some will just give a reason or two and she just let it go. I feel bad for her but i really am wondering why she still hangs out with these kinds of friends if she is just being used.

Another gemini girl I met, she is an au pair of this family..She says her host mother gives her so many work from 7 until 8-9pm.. and she even sometimes work on saturdays. Instead of giving her 5,200 kroner as an allowance last year and 5,400 this year, she was just given 4,000 each month. When her host family went on a vacation for 10 days.. they locked the house and she has no choice but stayed at her friends. I gave her a link to where she can report her host and so that they will be banned in getting an au pair in the future. She just ignored it and says she do not want conflict. I even scolded her even if i am not her friend.. told her she is being abused because she wants to be abused
.She did not even talked back at me, tell me i have no right or something. I feel so bad for her.. So glad i found her a new host family though but she will start on March which she will still be abused for couple of weeks.

I have another gemini cousin and she has her story too of being taken advantage by a guy, but not most gemini is like this.. right?

I also remember when we were young with my cousins.. when our parents scolded us.. even if it was not my cousin's (gemini) fault.. she will just keep her mouth shut.. letting herself be blamed.. but me and my older cousin which is her sister ( saguittarius) we will ayleast try to reason out if we know iy is not our fault. So our family really likes my gemini cousin because she is such an angel..:-)

It's their biggest flaw. Young gem girls tend to be like this. As for the reason, I have no idea why they do that. Sometimes they retort back hard but they tend to suck it up. it sucks when people close to them are not privvy to their thoughts. It prevents them from being understood imo. They hold their thoughts and feel it's staying strong.

No idea why I can't. I like to please person and hate to be nonconfrontional. I can never say no.

Posted by virgowithasoul
It's their biggest flaw. Young gem girls tend to be like this. As for the reason, I have no idea why they do that. Sometimes they retort back hard but they tend to suck it up. it sucks when people close to them are not privvy to their thoughts. It prevents them from being understood imo. They hold their thoughts and feel it's staying strong.

yeah, that is true..mostly females..i had not notice it with males since some of my gemini friends and cousin is a gemini. Like my friend, she just tells me she is having a hard time but not tell me the reason why.. she said she can handle it. I wish though she can be more open so she can release the tension inside her.

I wonder if most martyrs are Geminis.

Posted by Gemini74
No idea why I can't. I like to please person and hate to be nonconfrontional. I can never say no.

I am the same somehow, but trying my part to say no and i make sure i will set the bounderies from the start so one can't take advantage of me. I think it sounds selfish, but that is the only way i know how to deal with my 'people-pleaser' attitude.

Posted by TokerX
Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out.

Hmm.. that is good to know TokerX! :-)

I think that's because it's really really really hard to get us to react emotionally or violently, mainly because what most people think is a serious issue, we brush off easily. We rarely get too deep into situations, so we'll let a lot of things slide. Even in the case a Gem knows they should react, they'll remove themselves from the situation altogether before even getting to the point of reacting, cause we know once you do push us to the far far far point of reacting, you won't like it, and we won't like it either. So honestly, it's for the better.

@Missgemini,bgsc and GG, thanks for your time sharing here.. I really appreciate it and i am able to at least understand of your nature. 🙂 I love Geminis really.