cognitive dissonance

I've been struggling with the separation between certain actions...usually based on my opinion of the situation. But on the other hand, the indifference is excruciating for me. How many of you go through this dissonance on a day to day bases? I'd like to focus on females for my own particular curiosity, but gentlemen, be my guest to chime.

Basically, I want to hear your experiences with this. How often are you torn between rationalities and emotional connects in decision making?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

I know I've been struggling with it for about 2 years now.

Posted by AbstractRay
I've been struggling with the separation between certain actions...usually based on my opinion of the situation. But on the other hand, the indifference is excruciating for me. How many of you go through this dissonance on a day to day bases? I'd like to focus on females for my own particular curiosity, but gentlemen, be my guest to chime.

Basically, I want to hear your experiences with this. How often are you torn between rationalities and emotional connects in decision making?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

I know I've been struggling with it for about 2 years now.

Might I add this this also applies to sudden changes in our environments. Such as new co workers, lovers, psuedoparental figures, new school/state/country. all of the intermingling that comes along with these changes.