Dear Gems ... do you find ....

Do you find that people fall for you quickly and quite easily??

I met a gem last summer and fell fast for him. he joked about how highly addictive he was.
but im wondering do most ppl fall fast for you? im wondering now if he hears this quite often
as i didnt realize my feelings for him until recently its been 6 months since i last saw him
(left the country back to europe for work). he said he's honored n had no idea i had felt like that
about him. o.O

PS... i didnt tell him i had fallen for him just that i missed him annnd brought up memories that i enjoyed

Yes! Much to our chagrin.

sooooo uncool -__- lol
in that case .... how quickly do you guys fall? o.O
it was strange. im usually not one to trip that quickly

You're asking a Gemini about time frames? HaHaHa!! There's no set science Virgo. *smh*

yes thats true. (try reading love is a decision - great book explains it!)
I use to take off (as my gem was doing) when i started feeling something
wasnt good with "feelings" orrr didnt wanna get burned as i usually put in 100%
Im better with it now though. ive stopped blocking people out lol.

we are addictive 🙂
It's ok, we are not spiteful and you will never get hurt on purpose or out of our vanity.
Just have fun and don't suffocate and all will be fine.

I don't get the fall pretty easy, I get the to good to be true when meeting guys until they realize I'm true to my nature of being free spirited, independent and carefree. Then I find it hard to shake'em. I've have this virgo that has chased me literally for the last 15 or so years..I find that very odd even though we both have married and moved on. Same with a Leo and Pisces *shrugs*.

gems may fall quickly but they get bored quickly

oh i misunderstood the question

that's ok - we do both I think sometimes.

Posted by dward417
oh i misunderstood the question

DWard, do you know that I love you?

~GM

i can be very patient =]
I didnt tell him i loved him. I just told him I missed him. caring for him? yeah i care if he's happy or gets hurt.
though would me telling him i miss him be accidently translated into something else?
he did say he was honored to read my letter and had no idea i felt that way. (I hide things quite well - though i did tell him i liked him shortly after we met. he didnt say anything until we had a heated discussion, in which he told me he came to see me a second time because he felt a spark).though then again you cant know you miss someone until they're not around as much. I notice i get bored easily too o.O ... never with him though. i do know i was the only one who knew about other girls he was dating at the time. and he knew of ones i was into. he did run when they wanted to tie him down. but he'd always come chill with me. for me once i get them im more of a "oh that was too easyyy ... NEXT!"
but this one as soon as i'd think i'd have him and id loose interest ... he'd slip away, so it was fun. either that or i found out something new about him that kept my interest. though i've met other gems and one was ok, two wanted me but i didnt want them. but this is the only one who's really been able to keep me on my toes and make me laugh with his bratty remarks. hehehe.

yes we are addictive, if you are weak we will take that weakness and make it our own you will feel like you in another world. gimini can exist in anyones mind as pure pleasure so much so that they become addictive. all i have to do to get a girl is say hi she migh not like me but if she gives me a day or two she will fall. unless she is the carefull type and is going to jodge me as a flirt. but if you are free caring well we go well together and you will get so much pleasure you will fall in 3 months tops. we are our own enemies we forget people live in the real world sometimes lol

lol im both depending on my state of mind at the time. right now im in my free spirited mood. when i met him i had just ended an 8 yr relationship n was a mess so i was careful - he'd always calm me down though. he'd tell me i caused my own headaches by thinking on the issue too much ... n seconds after id stop thinking about wat ever i was dealing with and sure enough headache went away lol.

Yes. We inspire.


🙂

They don't say gemini girls are the most desired out of the entire zodiac for no reason.... :p

I've experienced so many pursuits in my life. I believe that I've only approached 2 or 3 people in my life ever. Outside of that, there was/is always someone coming out of the woodwork. I think it's the child-like charm. we help people to dream dreams. Our love is simple, and when we love, we love. Also, I believe it's the semi-emotional detachment that keeps people drawn to us. We always keep you guessing.

yeah, people i date seem to really like me, i had one date with this guy and he kept in contact with me for a year, and i dated this guy for 3 months and its been almost 10 years and he still brings stuff up.... i think it's also me, i'm pretty loveable. lol