WendyDarling
@WendyDarling
15 Years
Comments: 0 · Posts: 75 · Topics: 15
Did I mess it up with my Gem?
I think ccdarling said it best. If you do nothing but tell him you're willing to listen to him if he needs you then he'll realize you care and get over it quickly. I've never met a gemini that could hold a grudge for too long. Even things that seriously hurt us eventually becomes just a thing of the past.
The thing he is dealing with is the exact same situation that I came out of a year ago. It was very painful which is why I froze up on him.
He's a little disappointed in me right now or at how I handled it, but I think in time when I have the opportunity to explain myself I know he
will understand. I feel like I'm suppossed to help him out of this situation and just be there for him to give him support. Right now he's stuck but, I don't know how much longer I can take seeing him on this rollercoaster he's on...sigh.
I didn't mean to laugh at him, it wasn't like that. I was trying to get his mind off of it and at the same time I really didn't know how to respond. I was concerned that I might say the wrong thing. He's very sensitive. ( His moon is in cancer.)
He's a little disappointed in me right now or at how I handled it, but I think in time when I have the opportunity to explain myself I know he
will understand. I feel like I'm suppossed to help him out of this situation and just be there for him to give him support. Right now he's stuck but, I don't know how much longer I can take seeing him on this rollercoaster he's on...sigh.
I didn't mean to laugh at him, it wasn't like that. I was trying to get his mind off of it and at the same time I really didn't know how to respond. I was concerned that I might say the wrong thing. He's very sensitive. ( His moon is in cancer.)
if anything just talk to him & let him know that you're listening & then give ya thoughts on da subject. let him know how u feel bout da situation
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Earlier this month I went on a date with a GemGirl who I had met online. We spent a couple of hours chatting and got on
Aries doesn't have time for foreplay. Taurus keeps going and going and going... Gemini wants a menage a trois.
Ok yall know I don't talk much about me and my Gem, yes I am still with him. Best of friends worst of enemies. Any way h
I have question, inwhich needs some honest feedback. I have been dating a Gemini for about 7 and half months now, and we
I want you but you need me...? need vs want sounds like more jedi mind tricks..but it is making me go mmmh!
A new gem here just saying HI :) and we're so awesome ;)
you are crazy! Is that good or bad? :D
le for less when you can have everything?? Think about it, what do you say??
Posted on Virgo board too, I thought I should see what you Gem's can relate too, is it me? my age? or common among all?
whoever... bf, gf, friend, celebrity, dxp user, historical person, humanitarian, writer, artist, singer, musician, poli
I think my Gem was trying to open up to me about a personal situation and I froze. Simply because, I was totally not ready or expecting him to open up like that. There was silence between us for a few minutes
then I broke it by bringing up something hilarious He had done on New Years Eve. He laughed...I laughed and that was the end of that. Since then he has been running from hot/warm/cold. I don't know how to react or even if I'm supposed to. I noticed his twin has been out in full "In your face" the last few days and I know it's due to his current personal situation. He is very tired. When he starts pacing and restless I simply give him his space.
Am I handling him wrong?
Should I give him space or try to get him to talk to me about it whats going on in that mind of his?