Double Trouble! How do you calm your twins?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by GemsRaGalsBestPal on Thursday, November 4, 2010 and has 4 replies.

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Hello fellow Gems! Listen, I do it. My bestie Gem does it. You've probably done it.

Your mind gets fixated on something (typical a romantic relationship, but it can be other things) and you just can't let it go. Going back and forth, fighting your impulsive nature to take action, gritting your teeth, sweating bullets, wound into a frenzy over something that to your friends seems so simple.....

So Gems, what do you do to distract yourselves?
Sex? Drugs? Rock and Roll?

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@Kleo
16 YearsGemini

Take action, gracefully. Theres a time and place for certain things, however. Sweating bullets ain't really my thing...My mind can get fixated on lots of things. I determine whether or not it is detrimental and if it is, i try to let go. If i want something I go for it! Holding myself back has seldom been beneficial to me.

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@nats
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i agree with wineaux, I obsess BIG TIME over it and over analyze every small situation, converstion etc etc, my mind is FILLED with all sorts of thoughts of them (romantic relationship sense) plus 100 other things!! I stress out big time lol. I just tell myself to stop thinking about it and keep telling myself I dont care, I dont care and try and relax.

Usually smoke a cig.

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by wineaux

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Hello fellow Gems! Listen, I do it. My bestie Gem does it. You've probably done it.

Your mind gets fixated on something (typical a romantic relationship, but it can be other things) and you just can't let it go. Going back and forth, fighting your impulsive nature to take action, gritting your teeth, sweating bullets, wound into a frenzy over something that to your friends seems so simple.....

So Gems, what do you do to distract yourselves?
Sex? Drugs? Rock and Roll?

stress out, obsess, overanalyze & call you 16 times a day to talk about it? only to wake up the next day and act like...what? wanna do lunch?

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Hahahaha..... this is SO what we do!!! But you forget texting inbetween the calls and Im'ing inbetween the texts. Smoke signals work too. Basically overanalyze!