aquariver
@aquariver
12 Years
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Posted by misslissaEveryone says that this is the perfect scenario that I always gush about, but I'd never indulge in. I don't know why exactly...it just doesn't FEEL passionate and emotional. It seems friendly to me lol.
You are an aqua, right?
If you do not want anything more... just tell him calmly and logically. If he gets upset, let him be a bit. If the friendship is strong... he'll come around.
If you are an aqua.... isn't this how relationships NORMALLY start out with aqua and gem? It's all I read about. It's how it happened for me and my aqua hubby!
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Posted by aquariverDefinitely! 🙂Posted by misslissaEveryone says that this is the perfect scenario that I always gush about, but I'd never indulge in. I don't know why exactly...it just doesn't FEEL passionate and emotional. It seems friendly to me lol.
You are an aqua, right?
If you do not want anything more... just tell him calmly and logically. If he gets upset, let him be a bit. If the friendship is strong... he'll come around.
If you are an aqua.... isn't this how relationships NORMALLY start out with aqua and gem? It's all I read about. It's how it happened for me and my aqua hubby!
🙂
Were there any sparks for you and your husband as friends?click to expand
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The background story: He dated a girl I was slightly friends + went to university with (same circle just not as close as the others girls and I). She is a leo. Before they met, my bff saw her at a party back home (we're all from the same area) and he wanted me to assist him in dating her. They begun as friends with benefits b/c she lived out of state for school. They finally started to date a year later. During their 4 year relationship, there were rumors of her cheating but I never said anything as i did not have solid evidence. By year 4 I found out she had been sleeping with our good friend at out university since she began dating my brother. I held this information for nearly 7 months as I didn't want to ruin their relationship. I've been told my truth telling can be seen as budding in so I tried to change that.
Nonetheless I told him after we graduated. She went on a personal trip with the guy she was having an affair with and purposefully took no pictures/video...neither did her other man. After that I couldn't hold it in. She was traveling with this guy all while convincing my best friend to move to LA with her. After I told, he was so depressed and I helped him throughout by hanging out everyday, running every morning, replacing bad memories with great friendly ones.
The problem is she always assumed he wanted me. She even asked him to stop being friends with me when he moved to the east coast for her (for only a few months) and he sort of did.
Moving forward to today he now tells me I'm so beautiful/fine/looking good, etc, he's blown me kisses thinking I didn't notice, he's even declared that he wanted me to have his children because "I don't trust any other girl like you. I can't get over on you. You know me too well"
As a gemini, how would you react to such a rejection? I do love him and find him attractive but I could never risk a meaningful friendship for a relationship.
I just want to handle this without hurting him because he is truly my right hand man.