Hey guys. I'm a Gemini male. I tend to find myself most attracted to Libras. Though, the ones I've met in the past have been rather aloof. Has anyone else noticed this? We will share deeply intimate moments, and then later, (usually when messaging online- though ESPECIALLY when texting) it's like I'm a total stranger. I get one word replies, getting any sort of additional detail is like pulling teeth. They seem completely stand-offish. I don't really experience this with any other sign. Is this just me?
Gemini having communication issues with Libras
I don't care about the frequency of the messages/amount of messages. I'm not talking about them replying right away or taking a long time to reply.
I don't know if it's a Gemini thing, but when someone starts acting uninterested or whatever I go my own way. They might not even be uninterested/distracted, but I'm not interested in playing the mind game of trying to figure it out. I don't get desperate and blow someone's phone up. They will text me back when they feel like it. That's fine. I just mean, WHEN they DO text back, it's like they do the bare minimum to communicate.
I don't know if it's a Gemini thing, but when someone starts acting uninterested or whatever I go my own way. They might not even be uninterested/distracted, but I'm not interested in playing the mind game of trying to figure it out. I don't get desperate and blow someone's phone up. They will text me back when they feel like it. That's fine. I just mean, WHEN they DO text back, it's like they do the bare minimum to communicate.

So funny, reminds me of a gemini man I once knew...a very long time ago. Maybe you should teach her a lesson, like the way she's doing to you...You wouldn't have never put those comments out there for everyone to see if you didn't like the chase, why else would you keep running back to a Libra. Always & forever a Jekyll and Hyde...Or maybe you just met a libra you couldn't get off your mind, so you go and find another...and another...and another...just to see if she's the one...
Im not a Libra, but the common complaint amongst many women I know is that Gemini males spend tooo much time texting, chatting and emailing and not enough face to face time or even time on the phone. You guys go thru texts like squirrels go thru nuts which can be exhausting even for another air sign especially when you do the disappearing act for 3 weeks then text out of the blue expecting to explode my phone again with text chat. Their is no substitute for face to face, so stop trying to make all the lovely libras your text buddies, if you are interested ask her out already, if you wait too long you'll lose her interest and that's when the one word texts start coming in (hours later).
Venus is about connection not constant e-communication.
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