I am a Gemini man married to a Scorpio female. I was happy for years being led by her, until I realized I was being led. Now I am very miserable and resentful and that the sex has worn out, so are we. Maybe this will help you.
isn't that the case when everyone pulls the curtain back? maybe you had just convinced yourself that the relationship was some sort of panacea (for a really long time)...Gems can do that...you just a did a bit longer than most.....LOL
"I was happy for years being led by her, until I realized I was being led."
Scorpio women are masters at this ... in fact, there are a couple Virgo men currently members of this site who are being dangled at this moment by Scorp females, and have no clue .. so don't feel alone in this.
Now, the awareness is present in your mind .. swim.
I'm still seeing rhe scorp and one thing i realized is he likes to lead. Even when he is unsure of something (eg directions to a place) he would rather find it himself than have me ask someone else for directions. He also made it clear that he wants my undivided attention when we are in a room full of people.it's cute for now but i'm not sure if these are things i'll get used to or just get fed up of.
Maybe its not the problem on Scorp, its the problem on Gem. 😄 Gem gets bored of Scorp after sometime? Sorry...have to say this. 😛
As a Scorp, we never gets bored, it will be like becoming more and more attach to the partner everyday. Then Gems start to feel this that they are being led or being controlled?
G-man, tell me more please. I also need to know what doesn't work so I might be able to avoid it with my Gem.
When the scorp feels like they are leading too much i would advise pulling back a little and let the gem do their thing. We gems don't like feeling suffocated in relationships. I'm still seeing my scorp and all i do is tell him when i don't like something he does or says.
I'm still with my scorp. today is my b-day and he came down to visit for a few days. I'm really happy with him. strange,,,because most sites out there say we are incompatible.
Strange that this conversation is here. A few months ago I had met a Gem man. Fell hard right away then nothing from him ever again. No answers to why he dropped off face of the earth. Then just last night he texts me wanting to meet to explain his absence. Back when he had "left" the earth I came here and found out Gems are air sign so they can be this way. Now I'm scared but also excited that maybe a relationship could work.
Are Gems and Scorps able to make it work. Generally I know they are not compatible.
Yes, it can work. Married to my Scorpio for 5 years now. But, I've been told by a DXPer gifted in astrology that our charts are very compatible despite our sun signs. In our case, it's taken lots of creativity, humor, and the will to stay postitive on my side, and the patience of a saint on his side.
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but what about Gem male with Female scorp—?
any opinions on this coombo—?