Gemini - smothering?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by taurusgoddess on Tuesday, January 17, 2017 and has 4 replies.

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

I thought I was the touchy cuddly needy lovely one...until I met Mr. Gem. He's got moon and Venus in taurus though, but he wants to be together every day, every meal every sleep. I LOVE the time spent together but c'mon that much time together isn't that healthy. I fear I'll lose myself as I got my own world of things to do.

Is this typical Gem or just my situation?

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Oh dear! OK well if that's the case I'll just have to learn to love it! lol I love my gem friends and this guy too much. I guess the key is making sure they know it's just personal when you need space. I fear I'll resent him if I don't take it and I don't want to go there. Everything is great, I'm just too damn used to my space and this bull can't change overnight!

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@WallFlower422
10 YearsTaurus

Indeed, I think people underestimate how much of a "bug-a-boo" they can be with people they like or care very much about. I love my Gem friends and would love to hang out with them all the time, but I also treasure my solitude and freedom. They get pretty pouty when I express that side of myself, and it's annoying. But I deal with it because I love them

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@WallFlower422
10 YearsTaurus

OP, can I ask how you and your Gem guy met, and how you solidified a relationship with him? From my own experience, the Taurus-Gemini relationship works fairly well when the Taurus is male and the Gemini is female; but with the roles reversed the compatibility really flounders. I've never encountered a Taurus female/ Gemini male pairing.

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@Mered1th
9 Years

Posted by WallFlower422
OP, can I ask how you and your Gem guy met, and how you solidified a relationship with him? From my own experience, the Taurus-Gemini relationship works fairly well when the Taurus is male and the Gemini is female; but with the roles reversed the compatibility really flounders. I've never encountered a Taurus female/ Gemini male pairing.

Some type of Taurus female/ Gemini male pairing relationships 🙂 :

Elizabeth II/Prince Philip, Coco Chanel/Igor Stravinsky, Salvador Dali/Federico Garcia Lorca

Oh yeah... and Donald Trump/Melania Trump 😢(((((