Gemini Sun, Aries Rising and Moon

Am I doomed in the relationship department? I have the airy sign, but that's a lot of fire in my rising and Moon. Venus is in Taurus. I was seeing a Sag guy, which emphasized he doesn't want to be in a relationship and apparently I don't listen. Some thoughts would be helpful. Thanks!

lauren89: I didn't research the saggi traits before I started seeing him. I wasn't ready to date anyone (I was just divorced for 6 months before seeing him). He knew my situation as we have friends in common. He pursued me aggressively and it took me about 2 months to finally agree to a dinner date. While we were seeing each other/friends he did say he wasn't ready for a relationship and I was okay with it. But those darn saggi's are charming, he initiated phone calls/texts, asking me to come over, made me feel special (just what a gal needs). I couldn't help but to fall for him. The treetrunking (is that the term?) was amazing, practically the best lover I ever had. Downside was he sure was moody. I noticed a pattern where he would blow up after hanging out together for 3-4 days in a row (which he initiated the hang outs). We had 4 serious blow outs where he was yelling out of nowhere. Each time he would initiate the contact after weeks of not talking. I think I'm done with him now. As the last bout was me making a point of reference about a past event and he flipped out saying he doesn't want to be in a relationship with him and this time I yelled back that I don't to be in a relationship with him either. I usually take his yelling/outburst and quickly leave, this time I was going to make sure I was going to stand up to him, but he gave me little room to talk cause he kept on dominating the fight. Ugh, so frustrating!!! I just found out he his rising is in Pisces and Moon in Sag. I think this time it's done cause since our last blowout, something changed, he appeared not interested anymore, just interested in the treetrunking. So, I'm just a going to cool it, I blocked him from Facebook (for the 4th time), removed all contact and text info from my phone. I doubt I'll hear from him again. I should've did my research...thanks for the reply!!

@lauren89: I think I learned my lesson with this sag guy...thanks!

lol he'll def b calling again. i had the same pattern wit a sag for years. but this 1 has a sag moon! double whammy...but ur aries moon should kno how 2 handle that. if u cant take ur emotions out of it u'll b fine. if nt its betta 2 leave it alone. damn sags...every1 says their such commitment phobez but there r plenty n relationships. i dnt kno what those people did right

im sry. meant 2 say if u can take emotions away ull b fine

So, it wasn't months till I heard from him, it was a weeks (approx 3 weeks) which is the average time it takes to hear from him from one of our heated arguments/blowouts. I seriously didn't think I would hear from him. He texted, "Can we be friends yet?" I didn't respond. I translated that text as saying, "Can we treetrunk yet?" LOL! I wanted to text that back to him and didn't. Figured I take my time. Actually, I'm not quite sure how to respond.