Geminis and Capricorn

We've done gemini and other sign topics, so how about geminis and Capricorn relationships?

I'm interested in getting to know a cap guy right now.

I generally don't have great luck in romance, usually I like the guys more than they like me, or I am not interested in a guy and friendzone him/shut it down before anything starts so usually I'm not being pursued.

In my experience, the only guys who have been like soo crazy in love with me while I was not interested and continued to chase me were all Capricorns. They were willing to change their lives for me and for some reason really like me, even though I didn't feel any romantic chemistry on my end. I always enjoyed their company and making them laugh, but they were always too willing to do anything for me that I didn't want them sexually. I like men that are more domineering and will just make moves on me and throw me on the bed. Caps (in my experience) cared too much about being nice to me that maybe it was boring or just not masculine to me.

What are your experiences? I have no idea what I did that made them like me to begin with.

in my experience, total opposites attract.

my SaggiCap is giving me grief. I dated Capraquarious too and both seem to be emotionally removed and well,, borderline abusive. If only they were not, they would make awesome man. Or maybe it's just a Cusper thing. I dated another Cap for a short time and he was more vain than anyone I ever met. I had a female friend Cap and her moods and depressive streaks were worrisome. Over all, I can pass on them pretty much.

I have a soft spot for Cappies. I get along well with them romantically and as friends. I love their dark and sardonic wit. The humor seems to come out of nowhere, hidden behind a reserved and gruff exterior (which makes them even funnier). We Gems seem to have a knack for getting them out of their comfort zones. Once the tie has been loosened, they are a lot of fun.
I consider the men to be extremely sexy. The ones I've known are quite masculine and dominant, but not controlling.
I love the conversations I've had with them. There's a lot of depth there. It feels like an exchange of experiences, beliefs, and knowledge, rather than ideas, if that makes sense.
Have you met a Cap you're interested in, or are you curious as to why they've been attracted to you? It sounds as though you haven't returned the affections of the Caps that have crushed on you.
IME, they like the contrast of personalities. As WS said, it can be a case of opposites attract. My Cappie husband and I were quite different, but complimentary.

I personally loveeeeeee Capricorn men! I find them to be so sexy, strong and masculine! Yum! Lol And I love how most of them are so serious and quiet yet have a side to them that is so funny and fun to be around. Cap boys make me feel safe. I know they will protect if need be. I am currently dating a cap female and she is amazing! Very true that they can be extremely cold but the men & women are extremely emotional they just don't let anyone see that.

Very reserved which I find sexy but at the same time frustrating. I think that's what keeps me with my cap gf. She always keeps me guessing. I think caps and geminis have a lot of similarities also. Both love to party (although from my experience with caps, they can go way over board with parting, drinking and drug use etc. Gems seem to know when they've had enough). They seem to have addictive personalities. They are well matched with us when it comes to being pensive, having long, deep conversations and needing "someone".

I know as a Gemini I love being single but I always feel a kind of "emptiness" and I feel like I'm on an eternal search for someone who is right for me. With the capricorns I've known (male & female), they are the same. They may be cold on the outside but they are lonely souls waiting for someone to come and give them a lot of love & affection. Geminis can see through capricorns tough shell and we can see they just need some affection and loving. Geminis seem to have a way to get caps out of their shells quickly and whilst making the cap feel safe.

Similar to a Gemini, once they fall in love, they fall BLINDLY in love & you can be guaranteed that they will stick by your side no matter what. If a Capricorn loves you, they will always come back to you. They are very loyal in that sense and I know when geminis are in love we are the same.

I could go on & on but overall I think this match is a good one. But you need to check personal planets. My gf has her Venus in aqua and she is loyal to a fault. I think her Venus in aqua helps us get along even better.

I personally think everyone should have a cap or 2 in their lives. A Capricorn will teach a Gemini a lot about themselves. It's a challenging match but definitely a rewarding one. Gems and caps always seem to be attracted to each other also.

One thing I despise about caps is that they can be VERY two faced. Ha! & they say gems are 2faced, trust me, we've got nothing on caps when it comes to that

Like someone else said, my cap & I are also very different but at the same time we are so extremely similar and think so a like sometimes I think we were picked from the same tree! My cap & I are so close we finish off each others sentences, we have an innate understanding of each other. I wouldn't change my cap for the world... Or anyone. Not even an aqua! (even though they are so sexy!). I think if a cap is interested in you, give them a go. You won't regret it!.. Arguments & fights can get really heated between gems and caps also I think.