Geminis women,I need advice..

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Hello peeps,

I need some advice i will try to make this short.So i've met my gemini friend 4years ago and i liked her since we' first met but th problem was she had a boyfriend..so i couldn't ask her out ,so i was just talking to her as friend..Almost daily becuz sometimes she answeres me a weeks later..and i was proud and grateful of having her as friend..even deep down inside i wanted more;

She have broke up with boyfriend three years ago..soo i started flirting with her and texting her more and more,nd it was cool and fun.she even said she appreciates me a lot and she likes me so after getting a good postives vibes i said i can give it try..but never was sure so i was taking it slow trying to figure her out..but i couldn't know where this relationship is going..

So one day while we were eating together i asked her a lot of qustions then she started saying :why,and i just answered cuz i''m just curious..and she keep it insiting so i told her i want to marry you ( jokingly) she got confused then she giggled.

I don't know why but she said she hate marriage, and we shouldn't talk about this..

So due to studies and work i stoped contacting her fo a few months cuz i was busy..

So this summer i said i'm going to give it a shot and try to ask her out ..so sunday we decided to meet and evreything was fine until i said..me and u we are going out..she replied :okay,.. ummm let me think about it .. ..what do u mean

I said: ..u know wut i mean..she told me she can't cuz she is an open relationship and she is dating other guys..so i said it's cool we can try but she keep it saying that i deserve more than this and that she dosen't want to toy with me like others guy and that she loves me and appreciates me a lot..

So i told her we can give it i try Cuz i didn't mind at all and if things didn't work out we can stop but she keep it saying that she is a polyamorus,and she fears serious conversation and serious relationship and she had a bad relationship with boyfriend..and that she have no feeelings for me or for anyone at all and we can be just friends..Me being hurt..and heart broken told her i disagree with u...and we are done and that i have to go...she said i didn't know that you will get hurt..we can be friends..don't leave until i make u feeel better..and she got really senstive and that made me feel bad.. but i couldn't and i left...

Now i really feel bad cuz i told her to block me in social media and to erase me from her head..now i decided to ignore her...but i' regret it...

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@BlackPhase Thanks for reply,

yeah she said she isn't ready so i said i can wait,I didn't ask for a serious relationship i don't know why she thinks that .It's cool to try new things sometimes but she is free to decide..the way she was flirting with me gave me the wrong vibes i guess..too bad.

Yeah i will move on!

I don't want to be her friend cuz she will flirt again and that will confuse me again ...
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Posted by Instantkarma
How long have you been in love with her?

First thing.

She must respect you a lot. And she probably isn't at a good place to get into any sort of relationship with you.

Did you say you are OK being her fwb or you want it all? .

Accept that she is not at a place to have anything more than good friendship with you. The fact that she disagreed to have anything like an fan with you could mean she respect you a lot and values your friendship.

In a way its good you walked away. Don't be a doormat. Let her think about this. Give her some time.

Who knows, if she feels she has feelings for you or starts yo miss you and see you in a different perspective, she will chase you!

What's your sun sign?

Yeah I just wanted to know if she is not interessted in me or if she is not interessted in any relationship..

I said yes for being her fwb cuz i didn't want anything serious too and cuz she fears serious relationship !,but she said she dosen't give a fuck about all the guys she is dating..and that she is dating a lot guys..and that she dosen't want to play with my feeling..

but i can"t belive this lies....
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Posted by Instantkarma
How long have you been in love with her?

First thing.

She must respect you a lot. And she probably isn't at a good place to get into any sort of relationship with you.

Did you say you are OK being her fwb or you want it all? .

Accept that she is not at a place to have anything more than good friendship with you. The fact that she disagreed to have anything like an fan with you could mean she respect you a lot and values your friendship.

In a way its good you walked away. Don't be a doormat. Let her think about this. Give her some time.

Who knows, if she feels she has feelings for you or starts yo miss you and see you in a different perspective, she will chase you!

What's your sun sign?

Yeah I just wanted to know if she is not interessted in me or if she is not interessted in any relationship..

I said yes for being her fwb cuz i didn't want anything serious too and cuz she fears serious relationship !,but she said she dosen't give a fuck about all the guys she is dating..and that she is dating a lot guys..and that she dosen't want to play with my feeling..

but i can"t belive this lies....

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She respects you and doesn't want to mess up your friendship.

In this situation, i would cut off all contacts and let her decide. And you settling for an fwb would have made you look indecisive in her eyes.

But if you were to wait around for her to suddenly fall in love with you, it will happen if you were to walk away from this mess and she starts to realise your worth.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
So you led her on for four years with a fake friendship all the while bidding your time to get into her pants...
Isn't that how everything goes? 🙂

And what is wrong with him waiting for her?

He was honestly waiting without breaking her relationships.

I say he is a very noble young man. And yes, if she liked him he

had deserved his place in her pants! Unfortunaly she is blind.

He deserves to have a true love.
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I admit, I am too old so please, someone explain it to me how do you have relationships with more than one men/woman?

You go on dates with different people? Do you have sex with those people? Does it make you feel...what?

Do you have an appointment book?

I said I am too old from old world. We were usually get our face smashed if caught in playing man.

Seems like it had changed drastically. thanks for your time🙂
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Posted by Instantkarma
How long have you been in love with her?

First thing.

She must respect you a lot. And she probably isn't at a good place to get into any sort of relationship with you.

Did you say you are OK being her fwb or you want it all? .

Accept that she is not at a place to have anything more than good friendship with you. The fact that she disagreed to have anything like an fan with you could mean she respect you a lot and values your friendship.

In a way its good you walked away. Don't be a doormat. Let her think about this. Give her some time.

Who knows, if she feels she has feelings for you or starts yo miss you and see you in a different perspective, she will chase you!

What's your sun sign?

Yeah I just wanted to know if she is not interessted in me or if she is not interessted in any relationship..

I said yes for being her fwb cuz i didn't want anything serious too and cuz she fears serious relationship !,but she said she dosen't give a fuck about all the guys she is dating..and that she is dating a lot guys..and that she dosen't want to play with my feeling..

but i can"t belive this lies....



She respects you and doesn't want to mess up your friendship.

In this situation, i would cut off all contacts and let her decide. And you settling for an fwb would have made you look indecisive in her eyes.

But if you were to wait around for her to suddenly fall in love with you, it will happen if you were to walk away from this mess and she starts to realise your worth.

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Thanks canttrip for ur feedback and for ur advise

Well today she texted me :"hey where are u? how are u doing ?"and she brought up an old subject which lead to an other argument...telling me that i don t trust her and stuff...

Im not indecisive i told her what i want but i don t know how she feels towards me..she keeps coming and going...
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So you led her on for four years with a fake friendship all the while bidding your time to get into her pants...
Nop
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Don't deny it and you had all the rights after such a long patient and passionate waiting.

You have nothing to be ashamed of! You didn't court her to shake hands!

See, I told man once that 'we need to talk' will lead into sex and I was surprised when he

honestly said 'ofcourse it is'...I was sold! LOL

You had done nothing wrong. Honesty in men turn women on. Brutal honesty when she

knows you will try to wiesel your way out but you hit her over the head with truth and she

falls to your feet! Try it! 🙂 Best of luck!
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Pisces? And you couldn't get Gemini woman? Un-BE-liavable.

She must be dense!

Though one Pisces once told me that our union will end with some

of us killing each other. This union is beautiful disaster if 2 are smart

people. Passion is crazy but it is a huge challenge. She must be

some wrong Gem to not to fall for you. Or too young. No. Stupid.

Move on and find yourself some ONE!
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I admit, I am too old so please, someone explain it to me how do you have relationships with more than one men/woman?

You go on dates with different people? Do you have sex with those people? Does it make you feel...what?

Do you have an appointment book?

I said I am too old from old world. We were usually get our face smashed if caught in playing man.

Seems like it had changed drastically. thanks for your time🙂

Thanks gemitati ,we were flirtin together and i even told her that i liked her but the mixed signal confused me.... nvm ,i don know how old arw u but ur help is appreciated,yeah our generation ia fked up haha
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Posted by LadyNeptune
So you led her on for four years with a fake friendship all the while bidding your time to get into her pants...
Isn't that how everything goes? 🙂

And what is wrong with him waiting for her?

He was honestly waiting without breaking her relationships.

I say he is a very noble young man. And yes, if she liked him he

had deserved his place in her pants! Unfortunaly she is blind.

He deserves to have a true love.
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Yes very noble of him to pretend a friendship in order to have access to her and get close enough to make his move. Smh.



"Isn't that how everything goes?"

Yes there are liars all around us. If I find out people are operating under false pretenses then they are gone. Finished. Cut out of my life instantly.

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Posted by Gemitati
I admit, I am too old so please, someone explain it to me how do you have relationships with more than one men/woman?

You go on dates with different people? Do you have sex with those people? Does it make you feel...what?

Do you have an appointment book?

I said I am too old from old world. We were usually get our face smashed if caught in playing man.

Seems like it had changed drastically. thanks for your time🙂

Thanks gemitati ,we were flirtin together and i even told her that i liked her but the mixed signal confused me.... nvm ,i don know how old arw u but ur help is appreciated,yeah our generation ia fked up haha

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I am glad for HAHA. It means you aren't dying from broken heart.

You are a good man! I am 50 and I knew Pisces and I am a Gemini.

If she is in multiply relationships you don't want her.

50 or 20 - if you are dating few people at the time it spells trouble.

At ANY century. Hugs and keep being wonderful! Good luck!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
So you led her on for four years with a fake friendship all the while bidding your time to get into her pants...
Isn't that how everything goes? 🙂

And what is wrong with him waiting for her?

He was honestly waiting without breaking her relationships.

I say he is a very noble young man. And yes, if she liked him he

had deserved his place in her pants! Unfortunaly she is blind.

He deserves to have a true love.
Yes very noble of him to pretend a friendship in order to have access to her and get close enough to make his move. Smh.



"Isn't that how everything goes?"

Yes there are liars all around us. If I find out people are operating under false pretenses then they are gone. Finished. Cut out of my life instantly.



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Lady! Relax!

He liked her so much so he was her friend waiting for her.

There is no false friendship!

There are tons of people who are being in love with their friends

spouses and entering homes for Holidays as friends just to see

their loved once a few times per year and sometimes those loved

onse had no idea!

He isn't a home wrecker! He gives her living her life and when she became

available he made a move. It is so noble and innocent. He wasn't 'operating'.

He was in love and wasted years of his life on this dumb woman!

Get a grip! You are not thinking straight.