Observation vs judgement

Has any other geminis been told they are judgemental? I was told i was too judgemental however i never passed judgement on to the woman i dated. However if I notice something off thats concerning i would speak on it. I only ever saw it as observations.

Positive=observation

Negative=judgement

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To observe is to judge.

Your perception of something will always be colored by perspective.

I dont know my moon sign for sure. But when i speak on something its only because I know that person. I dont just speak on everything to everyone. It was this scorp i dated 2 times and she tends to say things but never do anything about it. She was super indecisive with her life which at 42 to me was kind concerning. Especially if u are with someone. She was just someone who wanted to doing but never followed thru. Im all about action. So if its something she wanted to do i would try to help get the ball rolling however she would be like dont worry ill start when im ready. Anyhoo i broke up with her because i felt her to be shady. Saw her on both a friendship side and a lover. I couldnt trust she was committed. But when i questioned while in the relationship what about me do u feel i am being judgemental? She told me not to worry its not a biggie.

Sounds like to me.... you struck a nerve and she reacted defensively. Sounds like you weren't judgmental at all.

I wasnt lol she always felt like because im not praising her or stroking her ego and telling her how amazing she is that its judgement. I cant be unrealistic with someone i really love and care for. My mom is worse where shes so raw with her honesty. Lol im built with thick skin.

Posted by EDENTHEHERO
Has any other geminis been told they are judgemental? I was told i was too judgemental however i never passed judgement on to the woman i dated. However if I notice something off thats concerning i would speak on it. I only ever saw it as observations.

Those who accuse us of being "judgemental" are the ones who we "observed" or caught doing something not quite right and don't like when we are direct and call them out on it. I personally don't care. I don't appreciate games.