Hi, i'm attracted to a gem, although i'm already in a relationship, i'm not fully sure if the gem i like, likes me too, there are very subtle hints every now and then, do you guys reckon that a gem has the guts to try and approach someone they might like if that person is in a relationship already?
Gems - are they relationship breakers?
I doubt that a gemini would want to 'steal' a partner; it is just not like them..!
However if the attraction is strong and mutual, things may change slightly,and they may wait.
Geminis, although flirtatious, and think it 'greener' on the other side, have a sense of obligation, and think they deserve better than going after anyone else's g/friend, or b/friend.
Although they may come on strong, in the beginning, they tend to cool off in no time, and start looking elsewhere, unles you 'trigger' their intelligence, and curiousity. So the key is to overly positive, creative, play or be non-chalant and let them feel like KINGS.
They are also jealous, although they don't show it.
However if the attraction is strong and mutual, things may change slightly,and they may wait.
Geminis, although flirtatious, and think it 'greener' on the other side, have a sense of obligation, and think they deserve better than going after anyone else's g/friend, or b/friend.
Although they may come on strong, in the beginning, they tend to cool off in no time, and start looking elsewhere, unles you 'trigger' their intelligence, and curiousity. So the key is to overly positive, creative, play or be non-chalant and let them feel like KINGS.
They are also jealous, although they don't show it.
Gems are very slow in realtionships because they rather think than feel. If a Gem likes someone chances are they won't tell you , but they will show you by flirting with you. Gems have this magnetic vibe that attracts so many people to them I GUESS because they are so charming in the way they speak.
If you are in a realtionship 9 times out of 10 A gem won't proceed you, because they respect people who are with someone else. Gems like to play hard to get it keeps them interested in you.
The big key word with Gems is communcation, if you can talk to your Gemini with deep conversation you have won a true and honest person...
If you are in a realtionship 9 times out of 10 A gem won't proceed you, because they respect people who are with someone else. Gems like to play hard to get it keeps them interested in you.
The big key word with Gems is communcation, if you can talk to your Gemini with deep conversation you have won a true and honest person...
Thanks people !!
This is exactly what i've thought of my situation, I just wasn't sure...
I suppose it's up to me to stay good friends with this person, because they've been a really great friend in recent months....
I would like to eventually tell my Gem friend that I am/was attracted to them, what do you think they're likely response is...? would they turn away and get bored of even the friendship eventually? (mind you, if this happens, then stuff them..!)
This is exactly what i've thought of my situation, I just wasn't sure...
I suppose it's up to me to stay good friends with this person, because they've been a really great friend in recent months....
I would like to eventually tell my Gem friend that I am/was attracted to them, what do you think they're likely response is...? would they turn away and get bored of even the friendship eventually? (mind you, if this happens, then stuff them..!)
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