Hate....

I'm curious, do you truly ever HATE another human?

I have sat and thought about this, I do not hating anyone in this world. I have hated things they have done, I have been hurt enough to mask it with hate but deep down, I do not hate a single soul.



There are people I should but I just don't, if anything I will always care about them but never let them in my life.

Now, that's not to say if something terrible happened to someone close to me, that would require a lot of internal work to overcome such feelings.

Do you feel you can "hate" someone truly?

Don't you feel the negativity in your soul when you feel that hate, though?

Posted by nanobot

Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.

Girl, I would love to see your chart.

Have you taken the Meyers briggs? If so, what was your result?

Posted by nanobot

Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.

btw Red looks great on you.. So pretty.

Posted by JanMayMarry

Nope, I don't. Hate is a burden to my heart so I chose not to keep hatred inside me.

Like you, I do have some people that did things which hurt me bad but I just cut them off and never let them in again. But to hate them is a no. I just let things go and forgive the both of us for whatever that has happened.

So yeah, no. I do not hate anyone at all. Never will I.

Are you by any chance an INFP?

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Nope, I don't. Hate is a burden to my heart so I chose not to keep hatred inside me.

Like you, I do have some people that did things which hurt me bad but I just cut them off and never let them in again. But to hate them is a no. I just let things go and forgive the both of us for whatever that has happened.

So yeah, no. I do not hate anyone at all. Never will I.

Are you by any chance an INFP?

Nope but near. I'm an ENFP.

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Mines INFP, my 17yr old is ENFP. I get her so well, except that Extroversion part, she makes me cringe at times. LOL

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Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.

Girl, I would love to see your chart.

Have you taken the Meyers briggs? If so, what was your result?

Yea, I am an INTP. And I have my chart here:

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Look at your 11th house. ❤️ You are a loyal friend, I bet. Would you describe yourself as warm and affectionate?

Nano, how do you feel Mars in Cancer in the 12th house affects you?

Also, I can see where the T vs F plays out here, I think they are so good for feelers, and vice versa. LOL Even if sometimes it's like speaking two different languages. I admire my ex for that, but he is ISTJ.

You really help the ones who are emotionally irrational at times. ❤️

Posted by ScorpioTruth

I hated my sisters ex husband who was abusive toward my sister and my nephew. I genuinely hated him. I wanted him to die. She divorced him and he practically disowned my nephew so we don’t have to deal with him much anymore... but yes I hated him.

I could see feeling this way for a while but it never passed? How does your sister feel about him?

What are your placements?

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Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.

Girl, I would love to see your chart.

Have you taken the Meyers briggs? If so, what was your result?

Yea, I am an INTP. And I have my chart here:

Look at your 11th house. ❤️ You are a loyal friend, I bet. Would you describe yourself as warm and affectionate?

I know! I am basically an aquarius myself and I am surrounded by them my whole life... 29 years! I think that I am a loyal friend, when I decide to invest myself into a friendship, which for me takes time. So that doesn't apply to acquantainces or other people I don't feel a strong connection or trust with. Because I am willing to bend over backward for those who I consider close friends, I have the same expectations of them in return and that is often too much to ask. I really don't have many friends in my life, strangely enough. I don't think I would consider myself warm and affectionate in general... I definitely can be though if I like you. Especially when I am drunk LOL

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LOL You're for real full of Saturn energy. 😛 Super smart, though.

Honestly, you sound like my old Aqua bff, she had very few friends, didn't take the time to invest in most of the friends she did have. However, for those she LOVES, she is very loyal (for the most part, hence, ex bff). I was her one and only true best friend. 26yrs of friendship and I let her go. LOL I'm not sure if that is my Gem side or Scorpio..

I bet you're super friendly when drunk, I am, too!! LOL thats when I can just let loose. 🙂

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I hated my sisters ex husband who was abusive toward my sister and my nephew. I genuinely hated him. I wanted him to die. She divorced him and he practically disowned my nephew so we don’t have to deal with him much anymore... but yes I hated him.

I could see feeling this way for a while but it never passed? How does your sister feel about him?

What are your placements?

Oh yeah, it has passed now that I never see or hear from him anymore. He has a new girlfriend and he’s abusive to her as well. I’m glad my sister got out.. I used to have nightmares of him killing her. I’m a Scorpio sun with cancer moon

My sister is a cancer and her ex was an Aries

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So you don't feel hatred now when you think of him?

That's really scary, I'm glad your sister and nephew are far away from him. I feel sad for the gf, I pray she will leave too.

I love CANCER moon, especially with Scorpios. ❤️ I feel they are so wonderful, not everyone can handle that Cancer moon.

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I hated my sisters ex husband who was abusive toward my sister and my nephew. I genuinely hated him. I wanted him to die. She divorced him and he practically disowned my nephew so we don’t have to deal with him much anymore... but yes I hated him.

I could see feeling this way for a while but it never passed? How does your sister feel about him?

What are your placements?

Oh yeah, it has passed now that I never see or hear from him anymore. He has a new girlfriend and he’s abusive to her as well. I’m glad my sister got out.. I used to have nightmares of him killing her. I’m a Scorpio sun with cancer moon

My sister is a cancer and her ex was an Aries

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That makes me sad that its an Aries man, my dad is an Aries, is he the sweetest. 😢 I have heard a lot of bad stuff with the temper of an Aries, which, I have experienced but I used to blame myself. (not now) He was a kid and a great guy at heart.

Nope. I don’t even know how to.

Waste of emotions!

I have always kept away from people who gave me bad vibes. Always avoided just in case...lol

We are a reflection of our actions. Certain actions, certain people demand my hate.

I do believe its a thin line...

Extreme dislike I would call? My ex and my father, can not stand their presence, feels like I'm unable to breath, like I'm suffocating and can't wait to get away

No I do not hate anyone... I just hope my boss dies when I argue with her. But it's the feeling of the moment I don't hate her lol

Posted by WateryGem

I'm curious, do you truly ever HATE another human?

I have sat and thought about this, I do not hating anyone in this world. I have hated things they have done, I have been hurt enough to mask it with hate but deep down, I do not hate a single soul.



There are people I should but I just don't, if anything I will always care about them but never let them in my life.

Now, that's not to say if something terrible happened to someone close to me, that would require a lot of internal work to overcome such feelings.

Do you feel you can "hate" someone truly?

Don't you feel the negativity in your soul when you feel that hate, though?

uhhh no...not that i can think of.

too much energy to put into. exhausting LOL

but i can hate to do certain things or go certain places...

and i hate alot of stuff, lol

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Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.

Girl, I would love to see your chart.

Have you taken the Meyers briggs? If so, what was your result?

Yea, I am an INTP. And I have my chart here:

Look at your 11th house. ❤️ You are a loyal friend, I bet. Would you describe yourself as warm and affectionate?

I know! I am basically an aquarius myself and I am surrounded by them my whole life... 29 years! I think that I am a loyal friend, when I decide to invest myself into a friendship, which for me takes time. So that doesn't apply to acquantainces or other people I don't feel a strong connection or trust with. Because I am willing to bend over backward for those who I consider close friends, I have the same expectations of them in return and that is often too much to ask. I really don't have many friends in my life, strangely enough. I don't think I would consider myself warm and affectionate in general... I definitely can be though if I like you. Especially when I am drunk LOL

LOL You're for real full of Saturn energy. 😛 Super smart, though.

Honestly, you sound like my old Aqua bff, she had very few friends, didn't take the time to invest in most of the friends she did have. However, for those she LOVES, she is very loyal (for the most part, hence, ex bff). I was her one and only true best friend. 26yrs of friendship and I let her go. LOL I'm not sure if that is my Gem side or Scorpio..

I bet you're super friendly when drunk, I am, too!! LOL thats when I can just let loose. 🙂

I am capricorn dominant and merc/saturn dominant, and earth dominant!

Why did that friendship end? My friendship with an aqua that lasted most of my life ended too. And we will never be friends like we were again. We stay acquantainces ish now. As in, we like each other's social media from time to time lol. She is even getting married in a couple months and didn't invite me, which is fine. I didn't have intention on inviting her to mine.

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the only one who stays in touch constantly is my Cancer sun/Pisces moon /leo venus/Cap mars girlfriend.

and a Taurus woman would have stayed in touch but we didnt after i moved far away, and she moved.

but Cancer girlfriend moved far away after marriage, but she and i decided to keep in touch via Whats app LOL

now we bug eachother every other day lol

sending photos of what we eat and sometimes I just dont want to talk for a couple of days...same with her..or even a week. I think we need to recharge or jsut get away... but we always end up together and if we make plans,

we will mentally PREPARE for it ..like if i go see her and if she comes to see me for a few days. cause that's constant togetherness Lmao

No. For me, if I ever loathe a person to that point, I feel as if they have power over me. Therefore, I don't hate anyone. I am, however, indifferent to certain people. Which I believe is worse than hate, simply because I cease to have any emotion towards them whatsoever. They cease to exist to me.

Having any emotional feelings towards a person, means (to me) that you still internally care on some level about that person.

No, I don't hate. I just let it go or forget, erase completely. Maybe that's my inner strengt. hate is such a poison to have inside, and senseless I think.