@scorpio1108
9 Years
Gem man likes to ignore but doesn't like being ignored...
Understanding Geminis and Their Communication Style
Gemini individuals often enjoy independence and may take breaks from communication. They value personal space but also seek connection. It's common for them to go days without contact yet respond eagerly when approached. This behavior reflects their need for variety and mental stimulation, not necessarily disinterest.
Been dating my Gem man(Cancer Venus) for over a year now. In the beginning of relationship I used to always initiate convo which annoyed me since I was so used to my bfs hitting me up first then told him to take initiative so he did lol. We the most we have gone without talking is 2 days which is fine with me. Haven't had the chance to see what would happen if I ignore him, but I have noticed if I don't reply within 10mins or so, he would add another message hoping "Im doing ok" or something like that. So I'm going to go with "yes" on that one lol. If they care about you, they will be blunt about things. I assumed he does that once in a while because he's so used to me replying back fast. Never seen him act clingy with me. I certainly behave a tad clingy with him & he said he doesn't mind at all (assuming he likes the attention/affection anyways -__- )
Gemini men are extremely clingy and will act like they aren’t. Don’t be fooled
This is so true for me. I am also possessive and jealous in relationships and try so hard not to show it.
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Yeah he seems to flip flop a lot... says he doesn't care that I'm hanging out with my BFF (who happens to be a guy), but then is all up in my grill about it for days after making sure he tries to take up ALL my time hahaha.
I am dying slow death without communication. Simple text will do and make me breathe...silence hurts though it’s much better now than it was 3 years ago...still...
But I insist on men Gem being totally different from women Gems. Totally!
No communication sounds amazing, finally some peace and quiet. Its better than empty promises, guessing games and grey areas. Show facts, tangible proof. Gimme clarity and follow through and I'll love you forever. Dont wanna be part of anything else
The talk is about on and off communications. Not a break up!
Just let him know it’s important you hear from him you like the good mornings, send a funny meme or something... make it interesting.
Ad a female gemini I have to have communication but the gemini man I'm interested in doesnt :/ . This behaviour confuses me but after reading a few replies it seems this is normal? I'm always the one initiating the conversations when were not in person, maybe just tell him you want him to message more?
I don't mind if we don't talk all the time, the time we do spend together is always fun. I dropped him off at the airport, he's heading back overseas to work for another month or two now anyways. It's hard for us to stay in constant contact when he is gone but he always makes the effort to at least text once a day when he's gone(time change etc). I just found it funny that it was kinda one sided lol.
@gemalit I rarely initiate contact he usually contacts me first. Once in awhile I'll call when he's home or shoot a text but it's usually him getting a hold of me first.
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I'm all about space myself as is my Gem guy I've been dating for about 3 months. He will go a couple days without talking to me or texting... but if I miss his phone call or text holy man look out world hahaha
Is this normal behavior?