hating to be criticised

I used to hate being criticised, but i realised i was being too defensive. Therefore i actually listened to them and realised how useful they were, and now i thank them for it.
My best friend is a virgo, funnily enough since i changed i've been making friends who are capricorns and scorpios. I'm such a bag of nerves though, are there any gems out there like that? honestly i wish i could calm my nerves somehow.

i understand, everyone doesnt like to be criticized at eh? it just lowers your self esteem but i guess its your choice whether to let that comment get to you--altho its hard to do that but it is possible, i worry a lot too but not what other ppl think of me, but hey--alteast im trying to relate to you as much as possible ya? lol ya. Anyway, if those comments helped you, then good i guess. But maybe those comments arent necessarily true. So maybe you should just not pay attention to them and let everything go. Eh, durno, just trying to help ^_____^LuZ