Help me understand my Gemini man !?

Hi everyone ,I need help! For the first time in my life I think I've met my match! I lovvvvvveeee geminis ! I have had to learn the hard way through 12 years and a divorce that libras and cancers just don't mesh well. So I'll get to the point..after my split I started dating again .I was out one night in hermosa beach with my bff(a Gemini girl) and I was just about to leave ..when I was approached by the most dreamiest awesome man I've ever laid my eyes on.I'm sooo picky and I rarely give any men a second look,but all it took was a few charming words and I was totally interested.he picked me up ,twirled me in a circle and I couldn't resist giving him my number.immediately we started talking like evday it was great.he lives 2 hours away ,and we got off to a rough start,this was our first fight..we made plans for him to drive out one day ..but he didn't actually confirm it (like a simple yes or no ) he just said ok so mabye Thursday I'll be out ,well I made plans to wrk( I'm a hairdresser )and he drove all the way out and was PISSED that I couldn't hang out !! He texted me a kinda mean message saying I PROMISE this will never happen again. PEACE! I tried to tell him I was sorry and he never called back .4 months later he called me finally.one year later I'm in love . He has been very sweet .sent me flowers on V-day,and just all around wonderful.the thing that I can't understand is one week before he deployed (he is a navy seal) we were talking on the phone and he finally brought up the subject. He made a comment to me that really hurt my feelings!! He said ,well the reason u don't nag me is because your not my girl ,I said ..then what am I?? He said ,,your just Angie (that's my name) I could have died right there .all along I thought I was his girl!! He told me that I wasn't to receive any calls from any other guys ??!! WTF . So basically our phones got disconnected and he never called me back .he was supposed to come over that night ,but didn't even call me .the next day I was supposed to drive down to S.D with him .out of the blue at like 4 :00pm I get a text ,it said ..hey u still coming to s.d ? I'm leaving soon..I was so hurt from his weirdness the day before I told him no.and that he hurt my feelings ,I wanted to be left alone. A few weeks later I tried to contact him saying ..please don't leave without saying goodbye! But no reply.I am so sad.do you think he will ever contact me again?Should I just move on? Should I call ? Please help! Thanks guys.

awww thanks so much for taking the time to answer,yes definitly we both have walls up,and thats where the games come in,i think your right.i will call him when i think he is back ,and totally just be chill.and act like i dont remember the issue.im pretty sure it is impossible for a gemini to dwell on something so unimportant,they tend to move on fast!like....super fast!!lol.thanks darlin!!