I met this guy almost a year ago and we spoke once. We established that their was a ten year age difference between the two of us, and that was the end of the conversation. So recently i get a random phone and it's him. I didn't take him seriously, but he sent me a text and we started talking from there. He called me later that night and we talked but i really wasn't feeling it ( it was very awkward on my part).I ended the conversation on the note that we would talk later. He reminded me that i had his # and could use it too. It's been about 2 weeks and i had some time 2 think. Some part of me wants to talk 2 him so i gave him a call. He didn't answer and didn't call me back, nor did i leave a message. Now what——?? do i call him again? should i 4get it? by the way we are 10 years apart lol and he's a cancer. please help!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Age is irrelevant, as is race and gender ..... if two hearts are bound to each other then that's all that matters.

lol, well I meant ADULTS ... thanks for the clarification Em.
I'm 20 turning 21 he's 30 turning 31
i think you should wait another week and try calling him. There is nothing wrong with going with someone 10years older. Many times these relationships turn out well.
i think you should wait another week and try calling him. There is nothing wrong with going with someone 10years older. Many times these relationships turn out well.
my last relationship was with a 30 year old, and trust me he wasn't your typical 30 year old...
He was kinda immature with certain things, but besides that the relationship was aight...
by the way he was a capricorn...
He was kinda immature with certain things, but besides that the relationship was aight...
by the way he was a capricorn...

Age is just a number when you are old enough to know better.
I am dating a cap man 12 years older then me. I am 24 he is 36. We are pretty much at the same pace now in life. I have more experience in the relationship field and maybe even life experience but he is book smart so we teach eachother. He does not play games and I can expect whatever I want from him. We are comfortable with eachother.
The only thing that I am and you might have a problem with is bringing him home to meet the parents. His parents want to meet me. Mine however dred the thought of me going to his house.... If they could just see past the age.
And you know what CMGS is probably right in this case we will miss out on some happiness because of the age....
One sexy gem. Arent caps fun. I figured out the way to get them and hold on to them. If you read the cap board they all say its hard but its really not you just have to be intellegent enough to figure them out quickly.... I guess that would be the gemini in me coming out.😛 LOL
But ya P if you like him go get him. Don't play games you will only steer him away. If the age thing doesnt bother either of you then why not. Or you can lean back and wait for him to call you again. I say call him once more to show you are interested then wait for him.
My 36 year old doesnt call me he waits for me to call him because he doesnt want to interupt what Im doing. So I call him. It works.... Quite well actually....
Happiness is in the eye of the beholder. Not the eyes of others.
Good luck
I am dating a cap man 12 years older then me. I am 24 he is 36. We are pretty much at the same pace now in life. I have more experience in the relationship field and maybe even life experience but he is book smart so we teach eachother. He does not play games and I can expect whatever I want from him. We are comfortable with eachother.
The only thing that I am and you might have a problem with is bringing him home to meet the parents. His parents want to meet me. Mine however dred the thought of me going to his house.... If they could just see past the age.
And you know what CMGS is probably right in this case we will miss out on some happiness because of the age....
One sexy gem. Arent caps fun. I figured out the way to get them and hold on to them. If you read the cap board they all say its hard but its really not you just have to be intellegent enough to figure them out quickly.... I guess that would be the gemini in me coming out.😛 LOL
But ya P if you like him go get him. Don't play games you will only steer him away. If the age thing doesnt bother either of you then why not. Or you can lean back and wait for him to call you again. I say call him once more to show you are interested then wait for him.
My 36 year old doesnt call me he waits for me to call him because he doesnt want to interupt what Im doing. So I call him. It works.... Quite well actually....
Happiness is in the eye of the beholder. Not the eyes of others.
Good luck
That sound good, but the only thing is he is a cancer not a capricorn
lol he doesn't have to be a cap for it to work out 🙂
gem82, he was the only boyfriend I had who likes to get out and do stuff...
It was fun while it lasted, we had some ups and downs, but what relationship doesn't?
My mom had a problem with that too but at the end of the day, its my life...
*sighs*
too bad he had to go to jail, cuz i'm not the one to do the bid thing...lol
gem82, he was the only boyfriend I had who likes to get out and do stuff...
It was fun while it lasted, we had some ups and downs, but what relationship doesn't?
My mom had a problem with that too but at the end of the day, its my life...
*sighs*
too bad he had to go to jail, cuz i'm not the one to do the bid thing...lol
In light, don't call him again... they will chase you down if they want you.
You hit the nail on the head =)
I know it is painful , even if that true statement didn't work in your favor but do know men are hunters... A phone call after sometime isn't that big of a deal & shouldn't be unless it's a game, But after that you have to see you tried & thats all you can do. Be strong.
You hit the nail on the head =)
I know it is painful , even if that true statement didn't work in your favor but do know men are hunters... A phone call after sometime isn't that big of a deal & shouldn't be unless it's a game, But after that you have to see you tried & thats all you can do. Be strong.
You don't have to make a big deal about the age issue unless you are 18.
you don't have to worry its just a minor complex that you have that's it.
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