@GeminiGuy76
9 Years
HELP!!! (Time Sensitive!) What Is Going On With My Scorpio Woman—
Understanding Scorpio Women's Reactions to Apologies
Scorpio women are emotionally intense and value sincerity. An apology that acknowledges their feelings and shows genuine remorse can help rebuild trust after a mistake. Patience and honest communication are key to resolving misunderstandings and maintaining the connection.
Posted by notsosure
And "hurtful"—?? Is she 12— You guys don´t even know each other, how can her feelings be hurt? How can she have feelings involved in this?Women - why do you date us—?
Woman really needs to laugh it off and get over it. Hope she will meet you and laugh at this with you tonight, ´cause that is what should happen 🙂
I know, right— Granted, anyone, man or woman, would feel thrown off. But seriously, if she is this unforgiving about something like this, I can only imagine what a serious relationship with her would be like!!!
Guess I'm just used to the Aries "silent treatment", which lasts for about 10 minutes and then its like "I'm good!!! : )"
Posted by Impulsv
It's a major turn off granted she doesn't know it's a mistake but yes can be deal breaker this early in the gane
Of course it is. But why not engage in a productive discussion about it in order to clear up misunderstandings? Seriously, if what she expects is for me to grovel at her feet with endless apologies ("please please please give me a chance, etc'), that's not going to happen. That would set a terrible precedent for a new relationship.
I know, right— Granted, anyone, man or woman, would feel thrown off. But seriously, if she is this unforgiving about something like this, I can only imagine what a serious relationship with her would be like!!!
Posted by Impulsv
Because you mean nothing to me and things are really new there really is no reason for me to engage or clear anything up. It's new it's easy to give up nothing to lose.But why would you expect her to clear this up if you didn't do anything. But if you were to clear it up I might be just an observation mode if I'm that interested.
I've explained to her in detail the situation and apologized. I'm not sure what more she would want. I just hope she has the courtesy to tell me at some point today that the date is off, instead of playing some mind game. Sorry, but I'm used to meeting women that are quicker to forgive and more willing to engage in discussion about a situation.
Ok, show of hands: How many here think I should show her the sonogram pic that my sister sent?
Posted by Geminigal123
And you don't wanna ditch the dinner date? ROFLIf this works out, just imagine going through something like this on a weekly basis.
Exactly!!! Fuck that!!! I've got 99 problems, and that's not going to be one of them!!
Lets look at this way: say that "Heather" WAS another girl I was interested in. What's wrong with that— I have not even MET this Scorpio woman! Granted, it would be a turn off to me too, but I'm certain I'm not the only guy she is currently chatting with. I guess I'm just not a jealous or possessive person; i'm very quick to forgive, and I go to great extents to make amends with people in my life I love and care for. Guess it's naive for me to assume everyone else is the same.
Posted by GeminiGuy76
Lets look at this way: say that "Heather" WAS another girl I was interested in. What's wrong with that— I have not even MET this Scorpio woman! Granted, it would be a turn off to me too, but I'm certain I'm not the only guy she is currently chatting with. I guess I'm just not a jealous or possessive person; i'm very quick to forgive, and I go to great extents to make amends with people in my life I love and care for. Guess it's naive for me to assume everyone else is the same.A simple wrong window should have sufficed. You guys aren't exclusive. Nor are you dating or anything. Ffs, you guys haven't even MET!!
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Thank you!!! You sound like a voice of reason to me! Sigh, I guess this is why they always say a Gemini-Scorpio relationship will not be an easy one.
NEWS FLASH: After about two hours, she just sent me a new text saying "Sorry, I've been moving everything around and fixing things." Is this her way of acknowledging that she has gotten over it, or is this continuation of a mind game—
Posted by GeminiGuy76
Lets look at this way: say that "Heather" WAS another girl I was interested in. What's wrong with that— I have not even MET this Scorpio woman! Granted, it would be a turn off to me too, but I'm certain I'm not the only guy she is currently chatting with. I guess I'm just not a jealous or possessive person; i'm very quick to forgive, and I go to great extents to make amends with people in my life I love and care for. Guess it's naive for me to assume everyone else is the same.A simple wrong window should have sufficed. You guys aren't exclusive. Nor are you dating or anything. Ffs, you guys haven't even MET!!
Thank you!!! You sound like a voice of reason to me! Sigh, I guess this is why they always say a Gemini-Scorpio relationship will not be an easy one.
I was in an ltr with a Scorp guy. It never worked out in the long run but when it was good it was beautiful.
Imagine convincing someone you weren't flirting nor cheating on a regular basis? Your's got off to a bad start.
Do you wanna meet her?
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Absolutely! I always give someone I'm interested a chance (i.e., an actual date, as opposed to writing someone off immediately because of a misunderstanding over text)
Posted by GeminiGuy76
Lets look at this way: say that "Heather" WAS another girl I was interested in. What's wrong with that— I have not even MET this Scorpio woman! Granted, it would be a turn off to me too, but I'm certain I'm not the only guy she is currently chatting with. I guess I'm just not a jealous or possessive person; i'm very quick to forgive, and I go to great extents to make amends with people in my life I love and care for. Guess it's naive for me to assume everyone else is the same.A simple wrong window should have sufficed. You guys aren't exclusive. Nor are you dating or anything. Ffs, you guys haven't even MET!!
That's how I feel too. I would rather let this one go then set a terrible precedent of sending her the message that I will do ANYTHING to keep her with me, no matter how unreasonable it is.
Thank you!!! You sound like a voice of reason to me! Sigh, I guess this is why they always say a Gemini-Scorpio relationship will not be an easy one.
I was in an ltr with a Scorp guy. It never worked out in the long run but when it was good it was beautiful.
Imagine convincing someone you weren't flirting nor cheating on a regular basis? Your's got off to a bad start.
Do you wanna meet her?
Absolutely! I always give someone I'm interested a chance (i.e., an actual date, as opposed to writing someone off immediately because of a misunderstanding over text)
Geminis are easy going.... Don't let other's abuse that trait though. Js
If you want to meet her, then you have only one option- share the ultrasound pic. Sucks!
Do that she may not have much respect for you in the future.
Smdh
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Posted by GeminiGuy76
Lets look at this way: say that "Heather" WAS another girl I was interested in. What's wrong with that— I have not even MET this Scorpio woman! Granted, it would be a turn off to me too, but I'm certain I'm not the only guy she is currently chatting with. I guess I'm just not a jealous or possessive person; i'm very quick to forgive, and I go to great extents to make amends with people in my life I love and care for. Guess it's naive for me to assume everyone else is the same.A simple wrong window should have sufficed. You guys aren't exclusive. Nor are you dating or anything. Ffs, you guys haven't even MET!!
That's how I feel too. I would rather let this one go then set a terrible precedent of sending her the message that I will do ANYTHING to keep her with me, no matter how unreasonable it is.
Thank you!!! You sound like a voice of reason to me! Sigh, I guess this is why they always say a Gemini-Scorpio relationship will not be an easy one.
I was in an ltr with a Scorp guy. It never worked out in the long run but when it was good it was beautiful.
Imagine convincing someone you weren't flirting nor cheating on a regular basis? Your's got off to a bad start.
Do you wanna meet her?
Absolutely! I always give someone I'm interested a chance (i.e., an actual date, as opposed to writing someone off immediately because of a misunderstanding over text)
Geminis are easy going.... Don't let other's abuse that trait though. Js
If you want to meet her, then you have only one option- share the ultrasound pic. Sucks!
Do that she may not have much respect for you in the future.
Smdh
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That's how I feel. I would rather let this one go than set a terrible precedent for the future by sending her a message that I will do literally ANYTHING to keep her, no matter how unreasonable it is
evil scorpio women
UPDATE: so far, it seems like she's at the "I might forgive you" stage. We have been chatting for the past 10 minutes. I'll keep you all posted : )
Posted by Geminigal123
She will meet you. Keep your text simple and finalise the T &P of the meet.All the best.
So it seems my backing off for a while actually paid off. I'll let you know how tonight goes. One way or another, it should be interesting! lol
UPDATE: The dinner date is..............ON. Stay tuned for more. Things could get interesting, ha ha!
Posted by GeminiGuy76
UPDATE: so far, it seems like she's at the "I might forgive you" stage. We have been chatting for the past 10 minutes. I'll keep you all posted : )
How generous of her... what an incentive, a free meal and look at all the enthusiasm...perfect, just wait for the sting. The games have begun and she will try to lure you in and then you will see the crazy come out once you are hooked. Works all the time and you'll probably hear the "you made me do it" all the time whenever she is angry and destructive...forever and ever. LOL
You should be putting on your running shoes....
UPDATE: We had our dinner date, and it was a success! The awkward moment from this morning never came up, and she definitely wants to see me again very soon. By the way, I got enough info from her (DOB and birth location) to calculate her planets; interestingly enough, outside of her sun, there is no Scorpio in her charts; but there is a LOT of Libra; her Venus, Mars, Uranus and Pluto are all in that sign.
Posted by GeminiGuy76
I've been getting the same silence from my Capricorn woman; it kinda pisses me off when someone tells you they are really into but then shuts down the communication for a while.
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Posted by GeminiGuy76
I've been getting the same silence from my Capricorn woman; it kinda pisses me off when someone tells you they are really into but then shuts down the communication for a while.http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=6764486
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My "Capricorn Woman" is a reference to someone I had a date with about a week ago; great date, she seemed very interested in a repeat, but then told me about how lately there has been an investigation into her department at work, she doesn't think this week will work out, etc. She's probably blowing me off. The ball is in her court now.
UPDATE: Well, this Scorpio woman is definitely interested in moving quickly...I will leave it at that.
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So here's what happened: Late last night I started chatting with a Scorpio woman that I met on a dating site. Absolutely amazing conversation, we talked until about 2am. We even set up a dinner date for TONIGHT. And then I made a terrible mistake this morning. When I woke up, I had two text messages: one from her and one from my sister. My sister sent me an ultrasound pic of her baby, so I started chatting with her first. When I responded to my Scorpio's "Good morning" message, I accidentally said "Good morning Heather" (my sister's first name) AHHHHH!!! Of all signs to make this mistake with. I have spent all morning trying to apologize; she has only sent me a couple of short responses ("yes, it was very hurtful" etc.). I'm backing off at the moment, hoping she will come around later today and respond. At the very least, I need to know if our date is still on for tonight!