@BadSag12
15 Years
How do you Gems act when you 1st meet someone
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This Gem flirts with me non stop, i ask him about the things he likes to do and goes on and on and I dont mind that but I want him to do the same, he usually just adds on to my topic.
I want to be friends but when we 1st started talking he oversteped that friends line about asking about my sexual side I told him do you just want to eff me because all your doing is talking about. He said we were just on the topic and he does want to get to know me.
I made it clear as day that I'm not talking to him if hes gonna play games and he swore up and down he wasnt trying to use me in that way thats hes 20 and done with that kid stuff.
I just dont like how he doesnt ask questions to get to know me even tho he does in a way but its not intentional it just happens. But I'm the one who intentionally has to ask.
One of these days I'm suppose to go watch him skateboard, I dont want it to be weird or anything but he was all for it.
I told him I dont want to be tied down and he agreed I just want a good friend to talk to and if things get serious then thats a different story.
He just flirts non stop I dont mind play flirting but I keep wondering if he just wants sonething out of me even tho he says he doesnt. I'm not looking for a friends with benefits thing.