How fast do Gemini recover from a break up?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by GemGurl on Thursday, September 20, 2007 and has 17 replies.

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@GemGurl
18 Years

just needed some opinion. I recover quite fast but when i was in the 'mourning-mode' i don't eat, sleep and really cry a lot (not a good phase and please don't laugh) and i hate people trying to point out right or wrong, i just needed my closest girlfriends to cheer me up and just listen to me instead of offering solutions.

what about you?

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@Tet
18 Years

if you know what is next on your agenda pretty fast. Still there are times you might be not prepared. But first sentence is the KEY!

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@Tet
18 Years

u see - if and break up times - you usually there are hints, in your self 2 - we need to watch out. It cant' be that you are taken by surprise. Thats why we people have brains...

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@1_fine_gem
19 Years

Nearest room to play crossword puzzle? Haha. I'll send u a love letter. Player! Ciao now. Gotta go meet the 4 boys.

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@GemGurl
18 Years

hahahahah...of course u wanna get thru the phase quickly so u can move on with your life, best thing is when you have a great new haircut, joined the gym and somehow have killer body, smells nice and guys are going ga-ga over you, he'll start thinking why in the first place did he let you go?!?!?! serves him RIGHT!!!

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@Tet
18 Years

i think the best thing while you are dating or having a love affair. You dont' give up things when you were not dating nore had a love affair. This way you make sure you can walk alone when something happens. I think looking back there is nothing more stupid to grave about somebody who dont' like or what ever...

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@DreamWalker
18 YearsGemini

Yes I don't like to greive as well. With me though is for a day or so I might be depressed, then iv learned an off switch that...If I don't wanan greive I just aint goanna. (Dunno if this is healthy for me lol). Sometimes, like a month or months later ill cry again.

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@Tet
18 Years

i remember one love affair of mine "was a summer crush" and we had to separete after summer - we cried together this was good but never went back. Funny enough i met her 20 years later and we were together for few month but things had changed and we let it go.

Life goes on....be healtyh (nr 1. priorty)

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@GemGurl
18 Years

i have never taken back any of my exes. I just don't believe it can work the second time, besides I'm already aware of the issue that made us break up, and unless they are willing to change (I am of course always able to adapt according to people) then there's no way it's gonna work..

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@gemmforever
18 YearsGemini

DreamWalker --

That's how I am too. I just delete his number, listen to sad songs, and walk around the house with no makeup and sweats for a few days. Then I buy myself some fabulous clothes and hit the hottest and newest clubs with my girlfriends and find myself another mate.

But, at times, just before I go to sleep or if I'm just running things through my mind, I'll think of him and curse and cry. And the cycle just keeps going. Fairly usual routine.