How to stop my Gemini from angry thoughts?

Yep, just apologize .. bend over ..

Alright, you want advice .. I'll give you how I would handle this situation ... and have, since I was married to a Gemini.


So long as you entertain this misery, it will continue. You said that you try to talk, or defend yourself .. and this is your mistake. Gemini's can get "stuck" in emotions when they are unbalanced in energies, and this is what is happening here. If you respond, or acknowledge in any way that this mood of his is present, then it will only allow him to continue wallowing in it because he has a support system (you) who is acknowledging his mood = validating it.


What you have to do is completely ignore it. Make fun in your life outside of him ... so somewhere pleasant, have a great time, and then tell him about how wonderful this was. Project onto him how you won't allow yourself to wallow in his misery with him by not even being aware that it exists, and that you are off having a life that entails happiness.

This will make him become envious of what you have because in a Gemini's natural state of being, they also want to have happy. Once he sees how happy and alive you are ... this will aid him in being able to "let go" the chains of misery that binds him.

Morningdew,
Don't feel like it's just your gemini who behaves like this because it's not. I agree 100% with P-Angel. I am currently in a relationship with a Gemini and he does this same thing at times. It's hard to ignore, but she's right, you HAVE to ignore this behavior and be happy because then he'll get over himself.... until the next episode.