I need help!!!!

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preciousGEM
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18 Years

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I had a "male friend" for a period of time, it was kind of awkward because sometimes we would speak and everything would be fine, but then there would be times where we would not speak at all. At one point everything seemed good, that we were heading for a positive road, but then all of as sudden I had encountered problems with his sister.(Me and his sister had problems way before me and her brother started talking). I had sent my friend a "sexy" text message, but then his sister (who hates me) decides to call me and tell me I should stop sending messages to him. So from then on, I decided not to talk to this guy because of the drama surrounding me and his sister. Then months go by, and I finally speak to him again, I invite him on a group date because it seems like we could start "talking" again. He decides to bring some other girl with him. I did not understand why he would do that.Anyway, fast forward a few months- I had moved, but everytime I am in his neighborhood, he calls me randomly, and wants to spend time with me (rolls eyes), what is this guy's problem? One minute he tries to make me jealous by bringing another girl around me, but then he calls me because he wants to see me— HELP—
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~mystic_fish
@~mystic_fish
19 Years1,000+ Posts

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When and if he grows up, he'll stop with the mind games, and face his real heart like a man. Question is, will you still be around, and how long will that take.. 'Don't get caught up in the mind-game trap. If he still means alot to you, then ask him alone, directly, face to face what his (true) intentions and feelings are for you, either he's in or he's out.' Honest communication is vital. Either way, he sounds indecisive; don't be held hostage for too long, you deserve better...
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preciousGEM
@preciousGEM
18 Years

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he's a Scorpio i don't know what his sister sign is.I'm a Gemini. in the beginning we were both playing games so it was kind of iffy. I'm really taking everything that everyone has said to the heart. But the problem is i don't wear my heart on my sleeves. I'm not good at expressing myself when it comes 2 a guy. i think it's a pride thing and also just me being scared. i don't want 2 give them that advantage over me. I've seen it happen with my friend when the guy feels like they already have u figured out. they tend 2 use it against u. At the same time i do wanna say something.... idk