I need your Help, please ...

Posted by Tqura
Hello everyone!
I'm a Taurus girl & I'm concerned about my Gemini ex.
During later last year we had a bad fight on some issue & I stopped all contacts with him. It's because when he is angry he insults very bad, which I could not forget last time. He gave several hints on social media ( FB ) then that he still missed me, but out of hurt ego I did not get back.

This year in Jan I wanted to patch up with him again, I said sorry if I had hurt him & that I was never 'done' with him, just I kept quiet cause of his bad behavior last time. But he did not give me a proper chance to talk to him then, I was very disappointed & did not contact him again.
But I love this guy by heart, could not get over him mentally...

Later I find out he has got a new gf, whom he got committed too soon ( on 14th Feb), he kept posting on FB & instagram that how happy he is with her, going around, dinning out often etc. Though he knows I check these regularly & get hurt.

Finally last month, I talked to him again, tried to convince him about my love & how much I want him back, but he behaved too rude denying everything & said we were only good friends, he did not had any feelings for me, which I know is not true.
I know he is hurting me hard out of revenge may be, or may be he is selfish with that new girl

Please help, what to do now, I would like to try my best if anything can be done to save our relation ... before I had to move on

Thank you

He must feel he has the upper hand with you... Stop asking for him back!! Play his game harder and move on, for real. If he really wants to be with you he will come back to you once you stop giving him that ego boost of him being with someone else and you still wanting him. He is walking all over you and you are allowing it. Be firm!!

taurus girl, I think you should stop checking his fb and get around with your friends and play it cool and by that I mean forget he is even a part of your life and do your own thing. give it time, more often than not, this works.

if he was trying to make u jealous then he'll see it's a fail and stop all the BS or if he really is dating her he will still respect you for standing up for yourself. or maybe in time he'll even realise you are the right girl and be back to you,

in any case, don't let him trample all over your feelings. let him know that you are your most important person.

Thank you friends for this much needed support, I'm trying hard to be strong ... & not to think about him anymore
But still, it's very difficult, I wish my feelings for him were gone ...

Busyeyes88- It's so strange when I read these stories about Gem men b/c I am the exact opposite of this type of behavior. I struggled moving on and I don't get where people just pick up these quick gf and boyfriends. I'm so slow on liking someone I can't imagine having an instant boyfriend, that makes me feel anxious just thinking about it.

I would NEVER try to rub it in my ex-husbands face if I were dating someone. I get sick thinking of him with someone else and definitely someone around my children. I think that is a huge reason I'm still alone. I thought I found someone but he wasn't real but I couldn't nor wouldn't put it all over social media. That relationship won't last.

My Libra gf is going through this with her ex husband who is a Gemini as well. She started seeing him again and then decided she couldn't anymore. I think her stringing him along for over 2yrs got to him b/c he snapped. He is flaunting some new chick, begging her back, then verbally vomiting. I feel for him in some ways but he has lost his damn marbles.

Love can make us do some crazy stuff but he is really burying any chance of EVER having a reconciliation.

Posted by Tqura
Hello everyone!
I'm a Taurus girl & I'm concerned about my Gemini ex.
During later last year we had a bad fight on some issue & I stopped all contacts with him. It's because when he is angry he insults very bad, which I could not forget last time. He gave several hints on social media ( FB ) then that he still missed me, but out of hurt ego I did not get back.

This year in Jan I wanted to patch up with him again, I said sorry if I had hurt him & that I was never 'done' with him, just I kept quiet cause of his bad behavior last time. But he did not give me a proper chance to talk to him then, I was very disappointed & did not contact him again.
But I love this guy by heart, could not get over him mentally...

Later I find out he has got a new gf, whom he got committed too soon ( on 14th Feb), he kept posting on FB & instagram that how happy he is with her, going around, dinning out often etc. Though he knows I check these regularly & get hurt.

Finally last month, I talked to him again, tried to convince him about my love & how much I want him back, but he behaved too rude denying everything & said we were only good friends, he did not had any feelings for me, which I know is not true.
I know he is hurting me hard out of revenge may be, or may be he is selfish with that new girl

Please help, what to do now, I would like to try my best if anything can be done to save our relation ... before I had to move on

Thank you

you didnt reciprocate when he reached out so he rightfully moved on.

hes happy

Id want my boyfriend to respond the same way to his ex if she didnt want to let go. He handled that.

fixed signs sun, moon, and venus tends to have a hard time letting go.

also, think about how he must have felt when you were ignoring him? How much he wanted to save the relationship and you were nonresponsive.

You said you ego got in the way and its still in the way.

HMM Taurus and Gemini do not get along all that well and for the reason you stated who has time for that BS.

Gemini don't think before speaking, very critical, very two faced, and has many females. I have done it before so that is why I am expressing T/G are good friends. Geminie wit hearth may be okay with Taurus but that's a big IFFY.. One is willing to adapt from a rut and the other has no time to fix anything about anyone.

Gemini with earth typo....

Taurus and Gem do not work. I work with one and I can't stand her the majority of the time. Now I just ignore her. She thinks she is the little princess that never does any wrong. Likes to be authoritative and what she says goes, don't you dare challenge her. Though she gets really mad when I get the last word and ignore her lol

They are stubborn and do not like to be called out even when they are WRONG.

Just the thought of a relationship with one makes me vomit. Ugh just ugh. No thanks. ...and I am more than sure they feel the same way overall.

Yup

@ air man- you have earth in your chart right, then yeah you're different. Haha.. just imo due to my first encounter with Gemini that's how it went down.

To each their own life experiences with the famous, infamous Gemini. Yeah you're cool as friends. I did say I would want to meet a Gemini with earth .. so yeah. I am not close minded too much.

Cool air man..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
To each their own life experiences with the famous, infamous Gemini. Yeah you're cool as friends. I did say I would want to meet a Gemini with earth .. so yeah. I am not close minded too much.

I have a lot of earth and water in my chart as well.

so, let me get this straight ... you ignore addressing your issues with this guy to the point that you break up with him without an explanation, and you ignore of his attempts to contact you.

Then one day, you decide that you will give him a chance .... but, he doesn't come running to you.

So, you contact him to let him know that you will give him a crumb ... but, he's already moved on.

But, because you can't handle the truth of what your ignorance did to him .... you make yourself believe (and try to make us believe) that his new happiness with someone else is all a game to get you.

You're so fucking egotistical ... I hope he finds true happiness with a woman who actually cares.

Posted by P-Angel

so, let me get this straight ... you ignore addressing your issues with this guy to the point that you break up with him without an explanation, and you ignore of his attempts to contact you.

Then one day, you decide that you will give him a chance .... but, he doesn't come running to you.

So, you contact him to let him know that you will give him a crumb ... but, he's already moved on.

But, because you can't handle the truth of what your ignorance did to him .... you make yourself believe (and try to make us believe) that his new happiness with someone else is all a game to get you.

You're so fucking egotistical ... I hope he finds true happiness with a woman who actually cares.

Well said.