I Want Him Back

Okay i went crazy on my Gemini ex and we've been playing this cat and mouse game for 8 years now but now I'm playing alone. He doesn't respond to me anymore because he still thinks I'm playing mind games with him . He asked me 3 times in the past 2 years if I loved him and 3 times I said no. I wanted him to feel the pain of being rejected. But now I see that I'm feeling the pain because I really do love him and I have matured.

I know he loves me but he still thinks I'm taking him for a ride and he ignored my last communication to him. I'm desperate now because I know now how much he loves me but I pushed him away. I always mess up. I messed up big time. I'm even thinking of flying to the country he works and just show up so we talk. I've run out of options. Help! !!!!

LOL what is your sign?

Coming from a Gemini woman if I asked you three times if you loved me and each time you said no i would be done. We don't like rejection. He is also teaching you a lesson by not responding and may have possibly tried to find someone to get over you with.

Lmaooooo literally in the same exact situation, timeline and all, with my ex Gemini. Basically, from my point of view of (about to move halfway across the country potentially to never see him again in about 6 months time) the only thing left to do and I do mean the ONLY THING left to do is ask him out for a coffee(etc.) and tell him exactly how you feel. In that moment. You won't get another chance because unfortunately geminis are extremely hard to pin down, and them pinning down their emotions is waaaay harder. So you have to get them in their emotions, at the moment they give you. You can't tell him over the phone, or any other non face to face communication because it'll give him the time to make up a story or just ignore you as he pleases. Just wait about a solid week or so and call him, and ask him out. From what I hear you'll most likely get a yes from asking a Gemini out, even if it's an ex. Idk how true it is being a Taurus haha my I am definitely Gemini dominant. Btw this is all advice to you is the exact advice I'm giving myself lol, that's why I know it's about the only way left. Good luck love!

I'll state the obvious...

If it has taken 8 years and there is no relationship... he's figured out that you're just wasting his time! He's moved on and so should you!

damn... Thanks everyone for the advice. I've decided to write a short story about our love life for the past 8 years. dialogue and all. To express every action and reaction from both our side. And send him that with Adeles`s All I Ask. Hopefully I will be done before he's Birthday in May. And I get to see him. If not everytime he wants answers from my side he will always have that story to refer to.

What depresses me is that put us in 1 room you will have electricity to light up am entire country. The chemistry and connection is unbearable.

He once said that even in another lifetime we will always find each other. That the minute he goes to the mall, and I am there he already knows. From my side no one had given me butterflies or made me want to be and achieve better in life than him.

We actually look like siblings and everyone who met us thought we were siblings and girls or guys will hit on the both of us thinking we siblings.

Oh well. ... I can't waste another year pining for something that will never happen after this I am so done.

Go see him, you ll find out if you have any chance. I wouldn't waste my time sitting here and write shit. Just go right to his house.Gosh what the hell you think about?
I'm sorry but you have been just so stupid.

Posted by SmartOnTheRocks
damn... Thanks everyone for the advice. I've decided to write a short story about our love life for the past 8 years. dialogue and all. To express every action and reaction from both our side. And send him that with Adeles`s All I Ask. Hopefully I will be done before he's Birthday in May. And I get to see him. If not everytime he wants answers from my side he will always have that story to refer to.

What depresses me is that put us in 1 room you will have electricity to light up am entire country. The chemistry and connection is unbearable.

He once said that even in another lifetime we will always find each other. That the minute he goes to the mall, and I am there he already knows. From my side no one had given me butterflies or made me want to be and achieve better in life than him.

We actually look like siblings and everyone who met us thought we were siblings and girls or guys will hit on the both of us thinking we siblings.

Oh well. ... I can't waste another year pining for something that will never happen after this I am so done.

You could do this but we gems lose interest quickly so he might not read all of it. I had an ex who played games with me like this a d I feel the same way towards him as you seem to feel towards your guy. But referring to your original post, I asked you if you loved me three times and you denied me. Ink about other gems but if it did happen that we worked out i would resent you for that for some time.

i sent him a video of me dancing and singing to sugababes about you now. After the video I said I really really like you. Can we just talk I don't want anything but to talk face to face. And he responded with a quote from my favorite movie .Notting Hill where Julia Roberts says I'm just a girl standing in front of a boy asking him to love her. He said he's coming to my country in May and we will talk then.

I really have my fingers crossed and I'm going to go to the gym to look extra fine.