@KittenLaRouge
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kicked out of a man's bed again
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Posted by WhiteChocolate
Posted by KittenLaRouge
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
To be fair...in DXP land, men AND women who sleep around are sluts.
I once thought there was a double standard, but not really.
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but i don't sleep around. i'm happy with one man. but as soon as the sex comes, they change towards me, no matter how long i wait or whatever. they dates stop, the cuddling the kissing the love all stops and then i get called for sex. i don't chase them, they come to me. i'm a cancer moon, i view sex as a way to show someone you love or care about them. it's an emotional experience for me. i don't view it as dirty and bad. i like to bond with someone that way, not just to get my rocks off. i just don't get it.
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
Posted by ramparts
I've told you the answer before. You are a side chick. You don't get main chick luxuries in a side chick position
how am i a side chick. the gemini swears up and down theres no one else?
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Posted by KittenLaRouge
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
To be fair...in DXP land, men AND women who sleep around are sluts.
I once thought there was a double standard, but not really.
but i don't sleep around. i'm happy with one man. but as soon as the sex comes, they change towards me, no matter how long i wait or whatever. they dates stop, the cuddling the kissing the love all stops and then i get called for sex. i don't chase them, they come to me. i'm a cancer moon, i view sex as a way to show someone you love or care about them. it's an emotional experience for me. i don't view it as dirty and bad. i like to bond with someone that way, not just to get my rocks off. i just don't get it.
If they leave after the sex then I guess the sex was crap.
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but they keep calling me for more sex so that's bullcrap. what im saying is the love and caring disappears after the sex.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Posted by KittenLaRouge
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
To be fair...in DXP land, men AND women who sleep around are sluts.
I once thought there was a double standard, but not really.
but i don't sleep around. i'm happy with one man. but as soon as the sex comes, they change towards me, no matter how long i wait or whatever. they dates stop, the cuddling the kissing the love all stops and then i get called for sex. i don't chase them, they come to me. i'm a cancer moon, i view sex as a way to show someone you love or care about them. it's an emotional experience for me. i don't view it as dirty and bad. i like to bond with someone that way, not just to get my rocks off. i just don't get it.
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Your avi gives a much different impression... so do most
of your previous posts.
For whatever reason, you carry yourself like a conquest--
either in the way you dress or your demeanor.
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
No. I'm not a hoe.
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how am i a ho when im dating one man?
Maybe you have a hot body but an eh face nobody wants to wake up to ?!
Posted by Arielle83
No I don't know how that feels. He had to work probably. Don't you have to work the next morning too?
yes we both do. but don't couples sleep and get up to go to work together?
sag, Pisces, Gemini........ do you hate yourself? JK
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
100% sure you're either a man or hydorah now.
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by Arielle83
No I don't know how that feels. He had to work probably. Don't you have to work the next morning too?
yes we both do. but don't couples sleep and get up to go to work together?
Do you snore? Need to cuddle? Talk in your sleep? Fart in your sleep? Light sleeper? Do you have restless leg syndrome?
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I thought the exact same thing. And I'm also wondering about how you choose the guys. Where do you find them and how...and why?
I can empathize, and I know it hurts like hell. I hope you won't continue allowing the Gem to treat you that way, or anyone else henceforth. I'm wondering if you're both on the same page about the relationship. You know what you deserve, and I encourage you to accept no less.
Blessed be.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
Kitty, would you kiss a clogged urinal?
Posted by SassyKiwi
Maybe you have a hot body but an eh face nobody wants to wake up to ?!
Posted by tiziani
Posted by scorpx3
OP, the rule is simple. If you don't like the way a man is treating you, walk away. Don't let it be easy for him to sleep with you in the first place. I see that you are waiting for things to be fine on HIS terms, and that this is a repeated pattern. Don't do that. Learn to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. Find who you are, find what you like, what your hobbies are, what your passions are and what you live for. Then, the right man will come TO YOU.
Is there really that strong a link between learning to love ourselves and the right person coming to us? I'm sceptical about that mantra
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Agreed.
Posted by tiziani
Posted by scorpx3
OP, the rule is simple. If you don't like the way a man is treating you, walk away. Don't let it be easy for him to sleep with you in the first place. I see that you are waiting for things to be fine on HIS terms, and that this is a repeated pattern. Don't do that. Learn to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. Find who you are, find what you like, what your hobbies are, what your passions are and what you live for. Then, the right man will come TO YOU.
Is there really that strong a link between learning to love ourselves and the right person coming to us? I'm sceptical about that mantra
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I question this too.....
The only useful thing I got out of this thread is the fact that having sex for a Cancer Moon is an emotional and bonding experience, which explains a lot actually.
*takes lazy notes*
I think it's weird to stay around after you fuck. Idk I'm pretty hoeish tho.
Anyways, there is no valid excuse for their behavior. Nope, in reality it doesn't matter how long you wait to screw. Nope, it doesn't matter that you act like a lady. At the end of the day these guys are pieces of shit. I would sit them down and have a conversation about how their treatment makes you feel. If they seem indifferent or don't seem interested in talking then I'd suggest you bounce.
Men are like busses and train. There's another one already waiting.
Also, its good to not put emotion into sex. Something so valuable shouldn't be associated with something so disgusting.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
To hell with them. You need someone who can treat you with love and respect. They sound like they just want to tap and go like you are some ho. Searching for older guys doesn't usually help as they can be just as bad as the younger dudes. As for the slut thing. You're only a slut if you think you are. Who gives a damn what they think about you? You don't or do you?
Sorry to hear this. How soon are you sleeping with these guys?
Posted by tiziani
I have the leg thing a little bit at night as well, sleeping on one side.I think it's blood circulation issues. Probably why the doctor suggested paracetamol but I wouldn't go down that route as it'll just lead to a tolerance for it.
Also, you got be careful with taking that regularly and your kidneys, not a good combo - trust me.
Irritates me that guys do that to women. Take respectable women and treat them like harlots.
Posted by GreyWiz
the best part is when you watch her sleeping with a satisfied smile on her face. you just stare at this sleeping beauty and see her looking so serene and peaceful. you smile knowing that you completely conquered and dominated this female and fucked her so good that she went to sleep just to dream about you doing her over and over...............the hunger and thirst never ends...........
thats really nice grey. have you ever treated a woman like garbage that you slept with>?
Posted by Magenta_Azure
I think it's weird to stay around after you fuck. Idk I'm pretty hoeish tho.Anyways, there is no valid excuse for their behavior. Nope, in reality it doesn't matter how long you wait to screw. Nope, it doesn't matter that you act like a lady. At the end of the day these guys are pieces of shit. I would sit them down and have a conversation about how their treatment makes you feel. If they seem indifferent or don't seem interested in talking then I'd suggest you bounce.
Men are like busses and train. There's another one already waiting.
really you dont cuddle. but the rest of what you said i agree with
Posted by Magenta_Azure
Also, its good to not put emotion into sex. Something so valuable shouldn't be associated with something so disgusting.
disgusting?
Posted by Aquistorm
Irritates me that guys do that to women. Take respectable women and treat them like harlots.
thank you
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Sorry to hear this. How soon are you sleeping with these guys?
month to 2 months
Posted by ramparts
Was he bad in bed?
not the first night, he was great. but then he got real sloppy, little to no foreplay no kissing just screwing. is this the gemini split personality? i mean really i dont know who his is anymore its like a whole different person has emerged
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by Arielle83
No I don't know how that feels. He had to work probably. Don't you have to work the next morning too?
yes we both do. but don't couples sleep and get up to go to work together?
Do you snore? Need to cuddle? Talk in your sleep? Fart in your sleep? Light sleeper? Do you have restless leg syndrome?
I am a fart machine when I sleep.
I'm all of the above. I'm basically describing myself.
It don't matter as long as the D or V is good.
The restless leg syndrome is real. I have to take Panadol and have 3 buckets to knock myself out. I can't sleep on my stomach cuz I'll twitch. It's a side sleep thing.
What does the restless legs things actually feel like? I like I might have developed it.
Like you feel that sensation of falling asleep but your leg just twitches. And you're awake. Takes forever to sleep.
I thought it was bs. Turns out my mom has it.
I sleep on my side with one leg over the other.
I also can't have coffee or much sugar cuz that exacerbates it.
Doc told me to take paracetamol, but weed is better cuz I actually fall right asleep.
Do you get a dull pain in the legs as well?
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Had it while pregnant with both kids. It feels TWITCHY.....and yes, like a dull pain, but not a true pain, and not one you can pin point. It's just a vague discomfort that makes you NEED to MOVE your legs, but you're trying to sleep.
Posted by M00Nchild
I can empathize, and I know it hurts like hell. I hope you won't continue allowing the Gem to treat you that way, or anyone else henceforth. I'm wondering if you're both on the same page about the relationship. You know what you deserve, and I encourage you to accept no less.
Blessed be.
thank you it does hurt... to have to scoop any self esteem you have left off the floor and bounce. hurts like hell.
Posted by GreyWiz
never. though i think you should also work on your issues. why even stay with him. where is your dignity?
i told him were are done. i cannot explain how low i felt walking to my car at 2 am in the cold last night by myself. Never again.
Posted by GreyWiz
leaving after sex is so heartless and crude............I love to cuddle and whisper very perverted things in her ear and run my hands through her hair and explore her more slowly and lovingly.
a woman has so many layers......i can get lost in her forever...............
maybe he wasn't into me like that?
Posted by HappyCapper
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by Arielle83
No I don't know how that feels. He had to work probably. Don't you have to work the next morning too?
yes we both do. but don't couples sleep and get up to go to work together?
Do you snore? Need to cuddle? Talk in your sleep? Fart in your sleep? Light sleeper? Do you have restless leg syndrome?
I thought the exact same thing. And I'm also wondering about how you choose the guys. Where do you find them and how...and why?
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work. i work a lot and dont like to go out alot
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
The question is why do you think its ok to keep doing that to yourself? He has a choice in whether or not he wants you to stay., but you have a choice in being that person he disrespects. If its casual then guess what he has no reason to keep you there. Hold these men to a higher standard, just because they throw around the word "love" doesnt mean that its true. If you keep letting them back in, you just reinforce their behavior. Liking sex isnt a reason to just say hey I will give it up to you because we reached the intended amount of dates, if it really is so highly valued to you then make them earn that shit. He can make you feel like garbage but its up to you to decide how long and if you continue to be made to feel that way. You have a lot to offer, start projecting that, really projecting it.
Posted by ramparts
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by ramparts
Was he bad in bed?
not the first night, he was great. but then he got real sloppy, little to no foreplay no kissing just screwing. is this the gemini split personality? i mean really i dont know who his is anymore its like a whole different person has emerged
Never slept with a gem. I made out with one once and he had horrible breath
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lol. maybe im a side chick and don't know it. i mean i could easily show up at his house anytime. i also told hey if i am let me know i wont be mad and he said no no no
Posted by elguapolibra
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
The question is why do you think its ok to keep doing that to yourself? He has a choice in whether or not he wants you to stay., but you have a choice in being that person he disrespects. If its casual then guess what he has no reason to keep you there. Hold these men to a higher standard, just because they throw around the word "love" doesnt mean that its true. If you keep letting them back in, you just reinforce their behavior. Liking sex isnt a reason to just say hey I will give it up to you because we reached the intended amount of dates, if it really is so highly valued to you then make them earn that shit. He can make you feel like garbage but its up to you to decide how long and if you continue to be made to feel that way. You have a lot to offer, start projecting that, really projecting it.
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thank you
Posted by MrFirebird
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Maybe you have a hot body but an eh face nobody wants to wake up to ?!
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by KittenLaRouge
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
Kitty, would you kiss a clogged urinal?
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Posted by Aquistorm
Irritates me that guys do that to women. Take respectable women and treat them like harlots.
It goes both ways... men and women both do it
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by KittenLaRouge
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
Kitty, would you kiss a clogged urinal?
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Waiting for an answer, kitty.
Pretty sure most of these clowns recycle other men's condoms.
Posted by MrFirebird
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Posted by KittenLaRouge
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
Kitty, would you kiss a clogged urinal?
Waiting for an answer, kitty.
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Ever use used toilet paper??
That's what it amounts to.
Shouldn't be a surprise if you get kicked out of the bed.
Posted by SassyKiwi
Maybe you have a hot body but an eh face nobody wants to wake up to ?!
I'm thinking this
If I could give another side to this,
sometimes I have trouble sleeping next to people. Its like I cant get comfortbale. Or if i have a busy day.
So I have left a guys bed at 3am, I have asked them to leave, and I have slept on couches, spade beds.
I dont mean anything personal by it. I just have a routine about my sleeping habits.
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i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.