I want to fuck him all the time...

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😈

Damn...Am I a nympho? IDK, he just looks so damn sexy everyday I want to jump on him. I don't OD though, lol...but I find myself unable to fight these urges. He brings out something extra wild inside me...I am already wild, but he goes the extra mile...it's scary. I want to eat him alive with some gravy...

Mr. Gemini...I heart you. 🙂 & all of the rest of you insane fucks!!!! You guys drive me insane, but I love it!!!!

*just venting* 😛

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Lool RealTalk my ex-gf of 4 years was a Virgo and also wanted it badly sometimes was tougher than a day of gym+surf together ahaha because we did it 4/5 times a day wow if u just want to treetrunk him it's fine and enjoy it because I always felt Virgo girls attracted to me but in the long run it just doesn't work because when the passion fades out most virgo girls starts to criticize and judge in a way we just can't accept and will run away from it. That's why I left because I was starting to be more like a Virgo than a Gemini myself -.- ahah but have fun and see this as something not to do to him.
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Well I'm really happy for you RealTalk because when you talk it feels like me and my ex. She was the only one that could turn me on in a fucking ridiculous way and the understanding was great but as time passed she started to criticize everything and also started to give second meanings to what I was saying like if it was somethings with second intentions when I'm a very honest and frank person. Like May31Baby said the cleaning also drived me nuts. So accept this advice that was the major turn off and relationship killer between us: routine. She used to go with me on outdoor activities and events and liked to try new things but three years later she got comfortable and I was fighting alone not to fall into boredom and was really difficult to bring her out of her house only wanted to read and watch tv while we need to meet new people and keep moving.
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Posted by May31Baby
I found that i always said something and they took it to be something else, like something offensive, and they shut down and nothing gets through.



Yup. I'm learning that he just says things sometimes & doesn't mean it how I take it. I do shut down & I ignore him & that really gets under his skin. The thing with that though, most Gems joke a lot & if they do say something out the side of their neck they'd say oh I was joking, & sometimes they're not so that is why I interpret it as such.

Most Virgos don't like to be criticized because WE are our own worst critic & we stay in our heads alot. Don't need anyone else reminding us of what we already know. Cleaning? No, I can't stand a nasty house...I must clean, but to have everything neat & orderly, foh. Ain't shit organized in my drawers or closets, lol. It's total chaos.

And that's also a true statement. At the end of the day literally, we get over it & I can hold a grudge too, but somehow we both forget about it & move on. Double Virgo, Sun/moon, Venus/Merc in Libra, Mars Cancer & Sag rising. 😉
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Posted by nunogil
Well I'm really happy for you RealTalk because when you talk it feels like me and my ex. She was the only one that could turn me on in a fucking ridiculous way and the understanding was great but as time passed she started to criticize everything and also started to give second meanings to what I was saying like if it was somethings with second intentions when I'm a very honest and frank person. Like May31Baby said the cleaning also drived me nuts. So accept this advice that was the major turn off and relationship killer between us: routine. She used to go with me on outdoor activities and events and liked to try new things but three years later she got comfortable and I was fighting alone not to fall into boredom and was really difficult to bring her out of her house only wanted to read and watch tv while we need to meet new people and keep moving.



Oh hell no. I like to go out & party. It's just if my funds are limited or there is no one available to chill, I'd stay in...but I get cabin fever pretty quickly & I need to go.

Yes, as I was saying to May31, I do take some things he says the wrong way, & he tells me he doesn't mean it in that fashion. I have to adjust myself to his personality, especially since we live together, I'm not used to it & it can get really annoying at times but I'm coming along slowly but surely. You know what's funny & how I bust his balls every time? He asks me why I take things so seriously sometimes & I pretend to get upset or bitch at him about something, which I'm only kidding so I say to him...Why do you take what I do so seriously? Lighten up bro...😄
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Ahaha well played RealTalk. It's nice to see that at least u'r wanting to learn about Gemini sign and understand his personality. My ex used to misinterpret most things I said and when I told her she wasn't interpreting it rightly used to criticize saying I was the one who didn't know to express clearly what I wanted when that was precisely what I was doing lol. Most Virgos tend to search hidden messages or intentions in everything instead of just accepting our frankness and honesty. Now she is with a Sagittarius I don't think it is a best match either.
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Yeah a fat ugly whiter than casper Sag eewww it was GIGS syndrome anyway she's going to make 22 and 18th September and we're together for 4 years. Poor guy I'm still a little bit hurt that's all since I'm a Gemini and much better looking ahah I was her first bf so she didn't had how to compare anyway it wasn't just her Virgo sign who damaged the realtionship now I'm moving on and putting my Gemini flirtation in practice 😛
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Yeah that's awesome u can see thing in that way. I feel she moved on too quickly. They know each other for 2 months and already went on a trip together and know each other parents like she started a relationship where she left ours instead of creating something new is very awkward but I managed to go no contact so we don't speak anymore since she requested it. Probably she will regret this down the road and as a Gemini I can't forgive that she acted like we didn't knew each other after a long-term relationship. Now I'm into a Sag girl which is driving me nuts because has a boyfriend and she's always complaining about him and trying to be with me and it's hard to manage because I'm in an inner conflict between being the first time I'm interested in someone since I broke up with my ex and being completely against ruining other people relationships. AHAH I'm a lucky bastard.
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Posted by nunogil
Yeah that's awesome u can see thing in that way. I feel she moved on too quickly. They know each other for 2 months and already went on a trip together and know each other parents like she started a relationship where she left ours instead of creating something new is very awkward but I managed to go no contact so we don't speak anymore since she requested it. Probably she will regret this down the road and as a Gemini I can't forgive that she acted like we didn't knew each other after a long-term relationship. Now I'm into a Sag girl which is driving me nuts because has a boyfriend and she's always complaining about him and trying to be with me and it's hard to manage because I'm in an inner conflict between being the first time I'm interested in someone since I broke up with my ex and being completely against ruining other people relationships. AHAH I'm a lucky bastard.



I honestly believe she moved on too quickly to get OVER YOU. You probably hurt her so she needs someone else to fill the void. I'm not saying your situation is akin to mine, but when my gem & I were on the outs, I dated someone else right away. I wanted to forget him. Leave him behind, but I couldn't. No matter whom I dated, no one was him. Yes, he drives me up the wall...but I wouldn't have it any other way.

How ironic that you're dating a Sag & so is she, lol. She probably will regret it. Sometimes when a Virgo is hurt, we want to totally forget about the person/or thing that did the damage. I bet she isn't even really into this guy. You never know hun...maybe you two can have another shot. 😉 You two more than likely needed space from each other.
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Posted by May31Baby
Yea you guys have the same mars and venus. Its funny because im air with lots of earth, and shes earth with lots of air. We are either best friends or we hate each other haha no middle ground.

But i think its good that you see theres some miscommunication and ty to work on it. And as a gemini, i know i talk out my ass sometimes. Its because i dont think before i talk, i just say what im thinking. Sometimes the thought isnt all the way worked out yet 🙂 and you are right about saying just kidding when i might be half serious, i do that alot. But someone else said something about hidden meanings or reading between the lines. We dont really do that. I dont atleast. I wouldnt say something and have a hidden measage, what im saying is what it is. Try not to look to deeply into what he says cuz chances are he didnt mean it that deeply.

Its good that your relationships working out. This shit isnt like law, its just guide lines. Most of its true though. I think you being aware of the differences between you and working through them is awesome.

One more thing haha. When i was being critical with my fam, i never meant it to be hateful or hurtful. I was only trying to give advise, but if i get too close to a truth... Shut down! Haha but i honestly was never trying to be critical for the sake of it. Is it like that for you?



Awwwww yes! I believe you. His thoughts change from one minute to the other. I can't stay mad at him at all...I can bitch with him, fuss, whatever, but the next hour or so I'm good & want to fuck the hell outta him, hahahaha. Or he just does something silly or I do & we kiss & makeup.

Yeah...I mean, relationships are about compromises. I'm not going to like everything he does, & he's not going to like everything I do. We meet each other half way. If I'm doing something he doesn't like, & feels strongly about it, I will not keep doing it. I will change it. Same for him. Maybe it's the Libra Merc mixed with his Gem merc? *shrugs*

Overall, I could never stay mad at gems. IDK what it is. I can have an argument with them, even on DXP too, but I won't stay mad...I think it's a love/hate thing 😛. You guys are bonkers but it's great. 🙂
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Yeah I think the same too for example she's doing things with this dude in a two month relationship that we didn't in four years and two months together. Looks like she's trying to live the entire life in a couple of months and running away from something. Probably she thinks the world is going to end tomorrow I don't know. I broke up with her because of the criticism and selfishness but I regretted that decision a few days after and tried to get back together for three months and she didn't accepted me back so I woke up and stopped doing that for someone who didn't valued frankness and is deluded. As much as I would like to have another shot with her I don't think it's going to happen and even if she regrets and talks to me I can't forgive the fact that she acted like I don't exist. How much time u and u'r Gem we're apart?

And I also can't forget that she wasn't honest enough to tell me she's with someone when I directly asked the last time we spoke a month ago. I needed to use other methods. She also should have learned that Gemini man are quite intelligent and hard to trick so I also don't understand the reason behind hiding the relationship when she already meets his entire family.
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Posted by nunogil
Yeah I think the same too for example she's doing things with this dude in a two month relationship that we didn't in four years and two months together. Looks like she's trying to live the entire life in a couple of months and running away from something. Probably she thinks the world is going to end tomorrow I don't know. I broke up with her because of the criticism and selfishness but I regretted that decision a few days after and tried to get back together for three months and she didn't accepted me back so I woke up and stopped doing that for someone who didn't valued frankness and is deluded. As much as I would like to have another shot with her I don't think it's going to happen and even if she regrets and talks to me I can't forgive the fact that she acted like I don't exist. How much time u and u'r Gem we're apart?

And I also can't forget that she wasn't honest enough to tell me she's with someone when I directly asked the last time we spoke a month ago. I needed to use other methods. She also should have learned that Gemini man are quite intelligent and hard to trick so I also don't understand the reason behind hiding the relationship when she already meets his entire family.



She's probably trying to prove a worthless point but 3 months? Did you actually tell her with your words that you want it to work? Because if that's the case, you either really hurt her, she can't trust you, or she may very well like this guy. With the Sag guy I was beating my head against the wall. I would tell him things I didn't like & he kept going them. I was fed the fuck up with his shit & I left him & didn't look back. To this day he still wants me. IJS, maybe she tired of some things with you she thought wouldn't change.

The Gem & I were apart for a year. I would have run ins with him, the universe would send me signs about him, & I don't ignore things like that. He would call me...I'd ignore him, I would call him...he'd break dates. I tried to move on...Lord knows I did...but he wouldn't escape my heart. He was just there. Again I'd see signs all the time. I'd hear his name on television, I'd see the first 3 digits of his phone # on the clock, tv, register, license plates, etc. He was a model for a clothing company & during Hurricane Sandy, I received free stuff from that store, someone gave me one of his favorite movies...etc. I don't ignore t
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That's great u both managed to get back together. Well she never discarded the chance of being together down the road but I know I've hurt her she told me that couldn't trust me and that it would take time she's also immature and that's not her fault because she's a little inexperienced and when I broke up with her I did it to see if she would fight for us and she didn't. And about telling her with words.. Yes I told her but she was always running away from me like she was afraid of having a relapse because the few times we met after breaking up she cried and told that still loved me a lot but couldn't stay with me at this point of her life.. whatever. She also told me that being in a relationship with me is like a roller coaster and that needed stability and harmony. I don't judge her, that's how I am.

I also didn't believed in soul mates till I met her because everything was just too natural. And I'm glad u didn't ignored things like that. After we broke up she jumped into me two or three times at places we usually don't frequent doing the exact same things at the exact same time lol.
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Hey realtalk! This sound like my and my gem, minus the relationship. Working on that I think lol. But anywho, he drives me crazy sexually! I had a Scorpio and a Cancer. They was good n all but my gem is the best hands down. He turns me on mentally first. His words alone makes me HOT and I think it's the same vice versa. I find it that we have a lot of phone sex until we see each being that we both have busy schedules. Which I love because when we do finally see each other it's an explosion. I mean like I'm in the house for 30 secs and it's on and popping lol. Sometimes I try to wait so we can talk alil bit but he would get so aggressive and hot that I can't resist lol. He have a really nice body and I do too. So we're just both physically turned on after all these months. I have fallen in love with him and I scared!! Lol. He asked me other day if I was falling in love with him and I couldnt answer the question. It was so randomn. Then he was like I'm joking even though I know he's not. I think he's know I love him and I think I know he's loves me but we just don't say it lol. It's weird.