
RealTalk
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Posted by May31Baby
I found that i always said something and they took it to be something else, like something offensive, and they shut down and nothing gets through.

Posted by nunogil
Well I'm really happy for you RealTalk because when you talk it feels like me and my ex. She was the only one that could turn me on in a fucking ridiculous way and the understanding was great but as time passed she started to criticize everything and also started to give second meanings to what I was saying like if it was somethings with second intentions when I'm a very honest and frank person. Like May31Baby said the cleaning also drived me nuts. So accept this advice that was the major turn off and relationship killer between us: routine. She used to go with me on outdoor activities and events and liked to try new things but three years later she got comfortable and I was fighting alone not to fall into boredom and was really difficult to bring her out of her house only wanted to read and watch tv while we need to meet new people and keep moving.



Posted by nunogil
Yeah that's awesome u can see thing in that way. I feel she moved on too quickly. They know each other for 2 months and already went on a trip together and know each other parents like she started a relationship where she left ours instead of creating something new is very awkward but I managed to go no contact so we don't speak anymore since she requested it. Probably she will regret this down the road and as a Gemini I can't forgive that she acted like we didn't knew each other after a long-term relationship. Now I'm into a Sag girl which is driving me nuts because has a boyfriend and she's always complaining about him and trying to be with me and it's hard to manage because I'm in an inner conflict between being the first time I'm interested in someone since I broke up with my ex and being completely against ruining other people relationships. AHAH I'm a lucky bastard.

Posted by May31Baby
Yea you guys have the same mars and venus. Its funny because im air with lots of earth, and shes earth with lots of air. We are either best friends or we hate each other haha no middle ground.
But i think its good that you see theres some miscommunication and ty to work on it. And as a gemini, i know i talk out my ass sometimes. Its because i dont think before i talk, i just say what im thinking. Sometimes the thought isnt all the way worked out yet 🙂 and you are right about saying just kidding when i might be half serious, i do that alot. But someone else said something about hidden meanings or reading between the lines. We dont really do that. I dont atleast. I wouldnt say something and have a hidden measage, what im saying is what it is. Try not to look to deeply into what he says cuz chances are he didnt mean it that deeply.
Its good that your relationships working out. This shit isnt like law, its just guide lines. Most of its true though. I think you being aware of the differences between you and working through them is awesome.
One more thing haha. When i was being critical with my fam, i never meant it to be hateful or hurtful. I was only trying to give advise, but if i get too close to a truth... Shut down! Haha but i honestly was never trying to be critical for the sake of it. Is it like that for you?

Posted by nunogil
Yeah I think the same too for example she's doing things with this dude in a two month relationship that we didn't in four years and two months together. Looks like she's trying to live the entire life in a couple of months and running away from something. Probably she thinks the world is going to end tomorrow I don't know. I broke up with her because of the criticism and selfishness but I regretted that decision a few days after and tried to get back together for three months and she didn't accepted me back so I woke up and stopped doing that for someone who didn't valued frankness and is deluded. As much as I would like to have another shot with her I don't think it's going to happen and even if she regrets and talks to me I can't forgive the fact that she acted like I don't exist. How much time u and u'r Gem we're apart?
And I also can't forget that she wasn't honest enough to tell me she's with someone when I directly asked the last time we spoke a month ago. I needed to use other methods. She also should have learned that Gemini man are quite intelligent and hard to trick so I also don't understand the reason behind hiding the relationship when she already meets his entire family.


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Damn...Am I a nympho? IDK, he just looks so damn sexy everyday I want to jump on him. I don't OD though, lol...but I find myself unable to fight these urges. He brings out something extra wild inside me...I am already wild, but he goes the extra mile...it's scary. I want to eat him alive with some gravy...
Mr. Gemini...I heart you. 🙂 & all of the rest of you insane fucks!!!! You guys drive me insane, but I love it!!!!
*just venting* 😛