is doing sex a normal thing in relationship

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gwenphoebe
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Currently, I'm dating with Geminian guy and has been 7 months in relationship. During 7 months, not all good things happen within that period. I have decided to break up with him like 3 times, it is because i feel like he just take me for granted to fuck me up.

We are rare to discuss various topics because he does not really interested to discuss about it but he really excited to talk about sex. for the first 3 months, we were often to meet but then the rest of 4 months we were rare to meet and hanging out like the past months (we were meeting like 1 to 2 times in a month).

He was often said that he was feeling horny and request to do sex with me during that time. But, i did not always want to fulfill his demand. he once said that he does not demand much thing for me except for sex only. every time he wants to meet me, he often request to do sex with him and asking whether i'm having period or not.

I still have a feeling to him but I'm doubting his feeling towards me. what do I need to do to know whether he is still loving with me or not

so what guys do you think for this issue ? any recommendation/suggestion?
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Posted by TokerX
Having sex is normal in and out of a relationship. 😉

Well, at least he's showing some care or that he missed you and is going to miss you. Not too sure about his true feelings though. Because I can remember me doing this with women with whom I wasn't in a relationship. I liked them and I cared about them as long as they were with me, but there was no real love.

What usually scares me away from them is commitement. One of those women came over to me and stayed for like 4 days, I wanted her out after day 1 but I couldn't make her leave. When she finally did leave I never contacted her again. But if I really love a woman I would want her to stay and never go away. So you could try moving in with him for a couplpe of days and see if he wants you to go lol. 😉



Lol... Nice.
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gwenphoebe
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Thanks guys for all the comments
Really appreciated
we used to go to cinema, having lunch and dinner together for the first 3 months and i've been introduced with his cousin as well. i met his cousin because i slept in his home and they're living together.

every time when i did not contact him for a week, he will then decide to text me first and then said he did not want to leave me.

i've ever asked him what does the relationship mean to him and then he asked me back wanna hear what was my answer. he did not say much about that. he just follow what i was saying

i've tried to talk to him if i wanna leave him but he said he still love me and still want this relationship
he used to said then every time he asked for sex did not mean that he didn't love me