Is It A Personal or a Gem Trait?

Is it natural for us Gem's to want to develop relationships with other and new people than reinforce the ones that we should be close to?

Uh Huh....Or we leverage one relationship with another. Kinda like getting hired for a new gig before you leave or get fired from the other one. Virgos and Pisces do it too though. But, we are notorious for it.

Lmfaoooo

hell yeah it's a Gem trait! We tend to take our older strong relationships for granted, and get very excited about new relationships! It's something new and thrilling for us...

i have a hard time trusting other ppl, due to past experiences, so i tend to reinforce the relationships i already have.

Sounds pretty insecure to me .... in other words, it's a fear of losing something .. why else would something else have to be in place.



So, the person to whom the relationship is with isn't as important as in the Having of Somebody .. anybody, so long as somebody is there.


A security issue.

P-Angel,

Boy, I see why your marriage turned out the way it did. You misdiagnose everything about Gemini's. If you could get pass your rigidity and resentment(s). You would actually learn something about us, P-Angel. Geez...Stop projecting. It's really obvious. If "Certaing" people are insecure it's probablly from something specific that happened to them in thier life. Not because they are a Gemini, goofball. LOL!

If you'd pay close attention, which I know is not the easiest thing for you to do. You would see that we are just busy, mentally. And when we are in a relationship that's strong, we do what we do. Not because of "Security" issues. But because it's just in our "Nature".

Or, it's because the relationship has ceased to keep us intellectually/mentally stimulated. So we fiend for it. Stop trying to push our buttons, P-Angel. You should've learned that by doing that, you'll get that "Evil" twin on your arse. Don't push it. Didn't you learn that from being married to that A-hole? Oh, I guess not.
You do it too. You go to your land of bunnies to substitute one thing for another. I'm glad my Pisces girl's not like you.

Advice: Read Le Petit Prince (The Little Prince). This will put it in perspective for you.

I tend to stick with what I already know. I hate the "getting to know you" phase, really. So if I already have a relationship established with someone, I will fight to the death to keep that one going before I venture off to someone else. Hmm...

Im similar to GEMuine BUT when I find a new aquaintance/lover and i really connect and get along with them im THRILLED and kind of "forget" about my old friends/relationships and focus and put alot of my attention on the new one until we either click more and i introduce them to my old friends etc OR it dies out because I realise im over the exited fase and they really werent as "special" as i thought they would.

Posted by P-Angel
Sounds pretty insecure to me .... in other words, it's a fear of losing something .. why else would something else have to be in place.



So, the person to whom the relationship is with isn't as important as in the Having of Somebody .. anybody, so long as somebody is there.


A security issue.

i could see this as a possibility but needs validation.

i feel its the other way around. its the people around geminis that are in fear of losing someone. gemini's if anything could care less, why? THEY are secure in the sense that they will always be others.

I like to stick with tried-and-true friends, but I'm open to new people. I prefer to go out with an old friend and meet new people together.