Sex Talk

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Mystic Dreamer on Monday, March 2, 2009 and has 24 replies.

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@GEMuine
18 Years

I don't. As talkative as I am, I don't like being talked to a lot. Not during anything sexual, doctor examinations, taxi rides, etc. Lmao. Talking in the bed is sooo not a turn on for me. I just want to cover the guy's mouth. It usually grosses me out. Some 'sex talk' words really make me cringe.

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@GEMuine
18 Years

Telling me I'm beautiful isn't typical for 'sex talk'. Sex talk is usually some dirty, gritty ass foul talk that's supposed to turn people on, but does nothing for me. I'm just not into talking during sex. I think mouths should be busy doing other things lol.

But I'm definitely a Gem. June 10th lol. My Mars is in Cancer though. BLEH. I don't think I have any Cancerian traits. They seem too emotional for me, and I don't agree lol.

The only person who said something in the middle of something intimate that didn't make me want to run was a Cap. All other signs really know how to phuck up a good moment lol.

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@SweetestFatale
19 Years1,000+ Posts

lol my Gem man seems to want to act more than talk and unless im telling him its his or moaning talking usually makes him giggle. sometimes i think I sound silly talking and i try to keep quiet and he tries to get me to talk in rather lovely ways. he once said "the woman is supposed to squeak louder than the bed or you arent doing it right" so maybe the gem men like it more than the women.

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@Perfect Gem Angel
18 Years500+ Posts

Well, I moan, if he knows what he is doing, otherwise, GET OFF ME! ROFLMAO
I scream if he is real good......
And talk is okay, until someone whom you care about calls you something or says something that is over the top at the wrong time, had that happen, went running for the other side of the bed as he is grabbing and apologizes, didnt matter, what was said, can not be taken back, so careful with that, it could back fire too!

And I am NOT calling NO MAN DADDY.....geeeeeeeee

I say, you aint my Daddy! sick sick sick no no!

Now, Love making, I dont say too much, too intense, all emotions and motion, no words are needed......

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@Geminithefox
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

I LOVE dirty talk before,some during,& even after.....
Oh' Wow!!! I love dirty talking especially when my
baby tells me what he's gonna do to me or if he attacks
me by surprize!!! Thats my favorite!
I don't care if it's just hot passionate sex with my guy
or making love,but of course when we are making love,the
talking is more of a romantic nature & my baby does love
the romance!!! But I'm not talking full long sentences or
discussions,oh' no,but some sexy talk is a good thing,
especially before & during as long as it isn't too much,lol...
Why ruin the heat & passion with alot of jabber?

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@Sunshinedaze
12 Years

Lol @Carlos this thread is so old. You must have gone right into the bowels of this beast to find it. In any case i will add my thoughts, why not!

I am not a talker during sex. Not really. I can do it if its required but i think that it takes away from what is happening. I have been thinking on this recently and i think my mars in pisces and my virgo rising effect it. Especially as i find it hard to express my feelings through speech, but really i feel like its just another thing to think about that stops me thinking about each sensation i am experiencing.

However i don't mind when my partner talks to me. It can't be brutal or seedy though. It can send me over the edge if i am almost at orgasm but not quite there.

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@wickedpix
12 Years

No not at all. It's cool beforehand to get things going but I'm all about what he's doing and not what he's saying. I whole lot of talk during sex would be a huge turn off for me.

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@GeminiPixi
12 YearsGemini

If it's a dirty talk then a Gemini will blow your mind . Gemini are so talkitive even in bed . Sometimes I discuss my week plans with my boyfriend while I'm top of him ROFL and he is like begging me to shut the hell up ... Why can't people understand our need to talk is like breathing fresh air 😭

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@xxixxi
13 Years1,000+ Posts

before sex. yes. 🙂 I think, actually, I like the talk before sex better than sex itself lol.. sex could go out the window 😈 as long as the foreplay dirty talk is great..😈 yea..lol
this is an important factor..to me as a gem in sun and merc..if a guy can't arouse me with his tongue..erm..his words..then I doubt he'd so in bed..:s

during sex. hmmmm.. some dirty talk is nice..🙂 but I don't want to hear 'you're so beautiful' or something romantic along that line..I'd rather hear sweet nothings after sex or when my guy and I hang out..during sex..either be a beast with a dirty filthy mouth..or just a silent, but relentless fucking machine.. lol
..but then I'm guilty of talking whatever stuff that comes to my mind..well, used to be guilty of..:p
someone up there wrote 'then I talked about her day plans..whilst top on my guy??' .. that stuff used to happen before..🙂 could happen again I'm sure..🙂

after sex. ..like wrote above..some sweet nothings are good..🙂 dirty talk here has no purpose(??) lol..so bye bye dirty talk post coitus :p if sex was really good, then just let's get some sleep lol..and get up & eat something.. you can tell me that I look beautiful then..lol but then I probably look hideous in fact with all those sweaty, ruffled hair..!! XP

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@myloveyourlove32
12 Years

Hell yes. Say my name, tell me what to do to you, and what not to do of course. I love dirty talk.

Lmfao I completely agree with gem angel, I will NEVER call someone daddy. Gross!