just thinking about stuffies o.O

Hmm..i've been wondering about ppl being depressed..and i wonder why.. some of them are depressed because they think their life sucks.. maybe it DOES. But even though the past may have effected them really bad, maybe they can move on> It doesnt really matter in the end so why dwell on it? Hmmm... and some just think their life just plain sucks cus everything seems like s***.. well maybe cus they just dont really appreciate the good things in life. Lets say if you first stepped into this world and you saw all the things that earth delivered. Except for all that pollution cus you JUSt stepped into this NEW WORLD which hasnt been touched with bad shit(you know what i mean) and while you're stepping out..what do you think? That the earth is BEAUTIFUL.. but after awhile we get used to our surroundings and suddenly dont really care for what our earth has delivered. So maybe thats why we dont appreciate the lil things anymore.. hm..who knows.. just pondering o_OLuZ

Wonderful posts! That's the truth too!
We don't appreciate what we have!

Hi again Luz...

I am so glad you are a person who is posting their opinion or ponderings about topics that affect us all as humans. Topics that are relavant to all of us as people, instead of asking shallow questions like...do caps and sag make good partners.

I mean...who knows if they do and who knows if they don't. People can only give their own experiance and if they had a bad one their advice to my finding is generally poor advice.

Thank you for your ponderings, thank you for looking outside of yourself and your world, thank you for caring. I enjoy your posts very much because they are real and they apply to us all our whole lives through...not just during some phase or crush we are having.

Take care of yourself Luz...keep smiling, you are on the right track...
Durrie.

Oops...I got so excieted I forgot to reply to the topic...haha.

Yes Luz...I do agree with you in many ways. The world and life is beautiful when we enter and leave it.

You speak of pollution and how people hate their lives and they think they suck and I see your point here but it's because people like you and I are lucky enough to maintain the right attitude.

Sure...we have our ups and downs but in general we realise that we are individuals but in essance are no differant from the next person and living amonst them and with them makes us just as rich and important as they are.

To add more ponderings to your ponder...I would like to share with you how I deal with dispair when it clutches me.

We all agree that there are certain rules that we all as humans live by. By that I mean we need water and food...fire burns us...water wets us and so on. These rules could if you think of them be likened to mother nature...the ever present forces that rule our life.

Now realise that these forces are out of our control and we live by and are dictated by them so next time you see a what ever it is you see that gets you down...know that you yourself are doing the best you can and leave the rest to mother nature...she is just...she is fair...she is God.

Yeah, I agree.
My motto is do the right thing in all situations and it will certainly come back at you...

But sometimes making hard desicions can really stuff people up, especially when it feels like the decision made did not give you the results you wanted. that's when a lot of people get upset and depressed thinking things don't go their way.

in those situations, i always think that if we realise we did what we could at that time, with the resources we had and the wisdom we had back then, then we should be glad that the outcome is due to us simply doing our best.

It's ALWAYS hard though, this life, this world. hard because sometimes things really hurt. they really affect us. but i guess, if we do the right thing then maybe that hurt was at least worth something of some value.

i really feel the stars and natures forces in my life. that's why i found this newsgroup. and i guess it's because i live so governed by my natural instincts i feel as though nature talks back to me in stars and horoscopes, coincidences and human psychology. sometimes i do post s*** on who is suited to who, but u gotta admit we all have those moments!!
shine on - u guys are v.interesting
😄 aquarius girl