My gemini is a femme fatale

yep, i think she enjoys my misery,
she doesn't make the first contact at all anymore, not like before,
i let a week go by without txting her or making any kind of contact and she wouldn't txt me either, so saturday i left her a comment on myspace, just a cute pic and she replayed by saying thank you and that sh loves my new song ( btw...its ....poison by Alice cooper.....yes i did chose it with her in mind)
and that was it, so last night i text her since i was in a good mood just to talk but she says she had a bad day , so i said I'll leave her alone than if she is not in the mood, bye!
so she says im just tired

i decided i wont talk to her any more, screw this....im going to give my affection somewhere else....maybe its my turn to break couple hearts....
i should have know better that she is like that when she told me how she got with her ex boyfriends best friend just to piss him off....
all off this gives me this funny feeling in my eyes and deep down in my chest but oh well....guess i wanted to see the good in her that isn't there...one thing for sure she puts up a good face

lol, I'm not surprised .. however a hug is in order for your distress


(((hugs)))



Next time, Mr. Aries .. listen to your intuition .. it's there for a reason.


Another hug for being so bossy ((hug))

i have to agree with comment # 2 we all are not like that.It's not like us to lead people on. we tend to be very up front.But it's hard for us at times to tell people the truth in fear of hurting them. but good luck, follow ur heart

what hurts the most that when i was flirting and flattering her and being all nice she was all the ears and actually would txting with jokingly where am i hiding if i haven't sent her anything during a day,, she grew accostumed to it and was feeling good and happy, told me that im awesome, the coolest, and if i keep it up i will never get rid of her....all of this made me believe im on the right track so i kept doing what comes to me naturally and did what i do best, flirts flattery and keep her guessing what will come next....
so i saw a window of opportunity and went for it and got blind sided and shut down, and she turned 180 on me on the dime and now im not even worth a txt hello...unless I initiate contact and all she can muster out of her is some bulls*^t answers...she is always tired and sick,......c'mon she has an office job how tired can she be......im kind of sad over that....
i know im going to see her in two weeks at a mutual friend birthday and im not sure how to treat her...should i totally blow her of, or just say hello and than blow her off and have fun with the other girls or act like im cool and dont care and talk to her like it never happened.....

also two weeks ago we were at a birthday party and my ex virgo showed up all drunk and stared to talk to her ( the gemini) and asked her to talk to me because she wants me back!
stupid FUC*KIG virgo! F*UCK!

i dont deserve this and usually i can say screw this yet this time it hurts more than usual....
damn femme fatale....lures me in into her bay just to sink my boat and poison my soul and laugh at my pain........

lol ..

Life is about choices and whatever choice we make is the path we lay for ourselves .. what path do you wish to follow?

One that knows the right direction for you and your dignity that tells you how you are suppose to be treated to keep your pride?

Or, to just gaze down the road, while crying about what you're stuck with out of fear of rejection, rather than what you can accomplish?

for me,if i am interested in a guy,i would HATE it if he ignores me at a party,or anywhere else actually.So to know for sure that she really likes you or not,i would suggest saying hello then act like nothing happened,and then go enjoy yourself,mingle around,see if u can meet new friends at the party. Only talk to her if needed, but at the same time act nonchalant like it doesn't bother you,and nothing is missing either. If she really likes you,she'll try and make contact or even go as far as saying "Are u ignoring me tonight?"

hope that helps

well thanks for all you replies
p-angel...thx for kicking me while im down, lol...sorry i tend to look for the good in a person 😢

you all say act and be your self around her and act like nothing happened.....but is that really me? can i pull it off? this is going to be tough......I still would like to talk to her, i dont want her to be thinking that im mad at her, but she is not making any contact with me for almost a week so it makes me think she doesnt care...
is it possible that you all (girls)want me to act like nothing happened because this is what you would prefer if you were in that girls shoes and that would make you feel less guilty/bad?
come to think of it I kind of do want her to feel bad and guilty...after she took me on this ride....all she had to do is not show interest from the get go and it would be fine but no ,she had to let the snow ball get bigger and bigger....sorry for my stupid analogies, lol

gfox,
when we first start talking to each other i was still with the virgo but things were bad between us already....and she (gemini) had no problem meeting up with me for a drink...it was supposed to be 1 hr but it turned into 3 .....
than after the drink i txt her and told her that she is cool and i'd like to tell her something but i need to close few doors at my end before i can try to attempt opening new doors at this side....
and she say that she understands and that is nice of me.....
c'mon we all know what i was talking about...Y would she feel that she is getting in between me nad the virgo when i made it pretty clear that im not happy with her an di want out?

so after she changed her mind about me i kind of told her that one of the reasons i split up with virgo cauze i wanted to see where it would go with her....
so she tells me maybe if i call her she will take me back?
WHAT?!?!?! how dare she say that to me?!?!
she knows i wouldnt go back there ever! man what a slap in the face that was....

knowing my self i think i'll be most comfortable acting like she is a stranger or someone im seeing for the firs time....im pretty sure i already have my answer but im still in a stage of denial?

sorry for ranting

ok, listen..this is my opinion. I think your Virgo ex had some private talk (confided) with this Gem girl that might kinda change her mind or intentions towards you. Maybe as a girl, she understood what the Virgo ex is going through and she felt like she is actually getting in the way of you guys getting back together, even though we all know you don't want to ever!!And as she sides with your ex, she might be thinking that you are the bad guy who dumps people when you found another interesting option.

So, maybe, u can just be cordial and nice, WITHOUT overly anxious as if you are really looking forward to meet her at the party. Then see if she acts the same way towards you. My guess is, if she really has feelings for you, she will want to have a proper conversation. But do not restrict yourself to talking to her alone, you can always mingle around and make friends. She might even feel like you're ignoring her, and no matter how she tries to act cool outside, she'll feel the opposite inside.

As the night progresses (at the party), you can detect how she really feels towards you, if she acts like a jealous Gemini , she will definitely want to bring up the subject of your Virgo ex e.g asks about her, your relationship etc. She will try to sound like she doesn't care and phrases it carefully but once she starts asking, you will know!!

I know it's hard to ignore someone that you like, but as she is content to play a game, you should participate too. It makes it harder for her to resist cause you would be someone who's intriguing and interesting (we all like solving puzzles, don't we?)

only my opinion...

"p-angel...thx for kicking me while im down, lol...sorry i tend to look for the good in a person 😢"


What the hell are you talking about?

Seriously, i guess she WAS actually interested, but somehow after that nice chat with the Virgo ex, things seem to go the opposite way. I dunno about the other Gems, but with my Virgo friends, they really know how to persuade and provoke others, and at the same time getting you to sympathize with them even if it's just over a silly matter. Perhaps Virgo ex found a way to get to the soft side of your Gemini girl and so your Gemini is acting like a friend towards Virgo ex.

Perhaps.....in my opinion again...

CAA

If you still have strong enough feelings for her, just be totally upfront and say we've 'we've got to talk, it's important/date and time.' If she's mature enough and cares enough, then she'll find the time, sense your concern & communicate her own feelings. Then ask your questions.. *keywords here being thoughtfulness & maturity .. *and hopefully she's not falling into any mindgames .. Use your own intuition or judgement; is she going through something or is she indeed losing interest? Is it fixable? Communication and openess are everything, it could make or break a relationship. It takes two. In the end, if you know you've tried and gave it your best shot, then who really has the time to sit on the sidelines forever. Be with someone who respects you, and appreciates you for who you are & "wants" to share their time with you ..

gemfox,

thanks for the support,i totally feel what you're saying too..that is exactly what i would do.But class_act,you could also meet her at the park,like suggested.But you have to be ready for any outcome,good or bad from that point on. Can you handle that?

thanks everyone
i have to say that the gemini turned at me 1 week before or was it 2 dont remember any more before she had a talk with my drunk ex virgo at the bar....
but than i found out they had each other numbers and all this time i thought they didnt since they only saw each other few times.....i wouldnt be surprised if the virgo had something to do with it
if she did she is going to be so so so sorry.... i will not stand for malicious back stabbing

and the gemin last few weeks we had so little contact that im starting not to care as much anymore...maybe its just this week since i suffered another blow to my ego by my sagitt ex but that was my fault...i will make a post about that in sagitt board
i made little effort to contact her last two weeks and she didnt go out of her way to contact me too, fuck it.....i wont be tossed to the side and sit on my ass till she wakes up and realizes that a good guy is about to walk away
i might have a talk with her tomorrow at the party if i feel some chemistry but if she is going to be aloof she can kiss my ass....i dont want to play this stupid game...high school was long time ago

and im not going to break down and confess my drunken love to her....lol...i dontdo that i can handle my buzz pretty well,lol
and tomorrow is sweeties day and before the party we all are meeting up at a friends home ...so the 2 girls who are celebrating their bday will get a 1 orange rose from me and a gag gift one will get barbi home cleaning kit and the other one ( single one) a live frog as her prince charming lol...she is going to freak out lol lol i will make her close her eyes b4 i put it in her hand lol
and rest of the girls will get Hershey's kiss for sweetest day and the gemini hmmmm maybe a sour candy? lol what u think?

Holy shit this dude lol, when I'm buzzed I'm one fast typing mother fucker minimum of typological errors, buzzed ass mother fucker got problems with the mutable signs lol.

ugg ugg ugg ugg uuggg ugg ugg shit lol.

3 of my best friends are ARIES. And I can tell you that they go along extremely well with Gemini 😉

HELLO EVERYONE! I've been reading this post & I have to agree that i have a feeling your virgo must have got in contact & kept in touch with the gemini girl...Now i think you have a good gemini girl considering the fact she kept her competitve side at a low & didn't try to make moves on you. A bad gemmie would do this! so that right there i believe tells you she's a keeper 😉 I'd try to get as much information as i could being you reguarding the whole situtation. However if you did find this to be true about your virgo girl, you might want to keep her away from the gemini girl bc we don't appreciate being manipulated, or persuated. She'll just walk away.

Your right about that gemini fox! hello sweetie!..being chased down is a big no no .. LOL! At least until you have our full attention, then lay on the good lovin! haha ..Hope everyone is doing well!

"so after she changed her mind about me i kind of told her that one of the reasons i split up with virgo cauze i wanted to see where it would go with her...."

in my opinion, i think thats where you messed up at

You should never leave someone for someone else because karma is a bitch

and i wouldn't really want someone who would do that because who is to say that they won't do the same thing to you, which may have pushed her away even more

who knows

But being that, that was only ONE of the reasons, if the person deserves to be left then keep on steppin

i figured that if i told her that one of the reasons i broke up with my ex is to try with her would make her feel better about this since im not just looking for a booty call and cheat with the current gf , i was going to break up with the virgo anyway, i dont have to have a back up girl to fall on when im ending a relation ship, i have no problem going solo for a while

but it looks like more and more that the virgo had something to do with it, just this weekend we went to a big bday party and we drove ina limo, there was this girl in there i never seen before and she was all flirty with me and i could tell she was into me, so my ex virgo ( im pretty sure she doesnt know her and if she does not well at all) becomes her best friend for a night i could see then whispering and later that nigh this girls changes her attitude towards me and starts bothering me why i dont want this virgo back that he is beautiful and stuff like that, crap i couldnt even get a phone # out of her because she says that i dated the virgo and she can do that...this virgo ex went as far as draging me out side and making me toalk to her about intimate stuff and if im looking at her right now i dont want to have sex with her? so i said a firm NO so she goes and makes out with this girl and some dude....and im supposed to get back with that? i just wanted to grab her by her stupid head and shove her into a cab a run her off home, damn cow was ruining my buzz and my night...by the end off nigth i was crabby and in the limo on the way back she was trying to be a smart ass with me.....BIG FUCKING MISTAKE, just because im drunk does not meant i cant dish it out, so it was on let me just tell yo i wasnt the one crying at the end of it, lol

once i get some solid proof that this virgo is making things difficult for me its going to be war, i will come out guns blazing and she will be sorry she was born, i will destroy her what left of her self confidence which she has very little off to begin with
im really pissed of now i just dont have proof, but i will get it soon enough