Plans(ish)

I met a gem guy last month online and we've typically been meeting up twice a week for dinner/drinks/coffee etc. He joined me and friends after my birthday dinner and I've met a couple of his friends socially too.

My question is he doesn't seem to seek me out, he's coming across as quite blasè with plans. I was away weekend last week so we didnt see each other for like 10 days but we kept in constant communication. So yesterday i said why don't you come over Friday if you dont have plans. And he said....."Sure, I'll let you know". Whaatttttttt...im i reading too much into it?

Yeah, he was like that initially. I'll just finish it today 🙂

I told him to forget "us" earlier and we just had a heart to heart and everything is glorious! 😍

Soo you guys are dating? What’s the scoop 😝

Well we spoke face to face and i told him I felt like he'd changed, and wasn't making enough effort. He agreed and explained things he had on his mind and said he was angry that i suggested not seeing each other and we managed to get clarity on it all. So we're dating and we'll see how it goes .

Today what i noticed were two things: it seems like he is hesitant about being affectionate with me BUT he is totally thinking long term, abiut the future and the plans we'll have. Why is this so hard?! 😃

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Today what i noticed were two things: it seems like he is hesitant about being affectionate with me BUT he is totally thinking long term, abiut the future and the plans we'll have. Why is this so hard?! 😃

Hah! Don’t fall for us trap/crap 😝 Gen love to talk about future, big ideas but it all talk until actions back it up. Go slow, get to know him and maybe let him know you would like a bit more affection or show him since they like to mirror 😉

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what are his other placements?

mercury pisces, taurus venus and virgo rising..also a scorpio moon. He is thinking ahead with plans and the things we'll do but somehow it still feels like there's something not quite connecting. Like out of sight, out of mind.

Typical for there to be a cat/mouse game and a bit of confusion in the early stages. Just take your time and don’t focus on the future so much. It’s all about the journey.