Really fussy Gemini woman

I'm a Gemini woman and find it really hard to find someone Ian physically attracted to but then when I do I become infatuated really easily. I manage to hold it together so I don't come across needy but sometimes it backfires and it makes me appear cold. Is this a Gemini trait ? It's really annoying being like this as I tend to get hurt or disappointed really easily.
Any other geminis relate to this or am I just a weirdo!!?

Totally relate to this, and concure it does suck. 😢

I can relate. When you're so picky, it's really exciting to find someone you like and you can go a bit nutty about it.