So are Gemini cheaters or what?

Just between us.

I know two Gemini men who cheat on their girlfriends frequently (some times with less attractive women). Is that just a guy thing or are the women like that too?

@Superseven: I don't think it's a human thing.

@BikerCh1ck: Congratulations, you should feel proud about yourself. However, I think you should dump that cheating Cancer guy, unless you're fine with just getting some every other month --which begs the question:

Are Gemini fine with being cheated on?

Not all Gems cheat...I never cheat and never would. My Gem friends don't either; we're not scum.

Posted by BikerCh1ck
When I was young I had cheated on someone. It was hurtful because I didn't feel right about myself.
Since then I gave myself the promise that if I am with someone I will not cheat on them. And I kept my word but got in a relationship with a cheating cancer guy. Even though he was a cheater I did not cheat on him.
I didn't even cheat on him even though because of his so frequent cheating he was sleeping with me once every two months.
I just look at myself in the mirror and I am proud about myself. I am not cheating on the next bf that I'll find either. I might make him feel insecure that I might do ( so he won't cheat on me) but I won't do it.

Good for you bikerchick! I've never believed that butter "once a cheater always a cheater." People are human and make mistakes. Sounds like you learned from yours. Cheating hurts. I was in a 9 year relationship with a gemini man. In the very beginning I had reason to suspect he might have stepped out but that was the very beginning and I have no proof so maybe nothing happened. I have no doubt he was faithful when we moved to Western Mass and lived together. I really don't believe gemini are any more likely to cheat than any other zodiac sign.

Totally depends on the person, regardless of sign!!

I cheated ONCE. When I was with my longterm Leo ex. 3 years I didn't even think of another guy and then the last year when I was being denied sex and he didn't really want to go to anything, communicate (despite me telling him I wasn't being satisfied and said I was thinking of other guys) multiple times in that last year, nothing changed.

I drank too much one night, was taken advantage of but it was still my choice to go. It was with another Gemini. I didn't tell my ex but broke up with him right after (my issue was I had already decided I would break up with him when he got back in town and wanted to see him face to face) but right after it happened I broke up with him and never saw other guy again.

I felt AWFUL. I was emotionally and physically sick for weeks. I cried myself to sleep at night, was throwing up, there mere thought of his hurt expression if I told him tore me up.

I would NEVER do it again. If I get those feelings on a regular basis, I cut it off. I have a cancer venus and mars and when I'm in a relationship I demand 100% loyalty. I had a one time mistake, and now that I know how much it hurt me and feeling that other persons pain (even though I didn't tell him) is not something I can ever do again. I would still shoot myself in the foot to take it back. Lesson learned the hard way.

I can only imagine a cheater would not flutter an eye lid if their partner cheated on them. What a senseless foolish game that no one wins. If one needs to cheat and hurt another, just don't get involved in the first place.

Never cheated. Even after the relationship has ended, being with another soon after can be distressing. It depends on the emotions about the past relationship.

I'd prefer to talk to my partner about my feelings than to cheat on her and felt guilty on it later. I'd be more happy to be single than to cheat while on a relationship.