The frustration of dating an Aqua

Okay Gems I am dating an aqua female, and in the beginning it was awesome, we clicked like a lock and key, spent plenty of time together, and intimate moments was so great. Now it seems the communicaton is going sour and I am heading towards a train wreck I am unable to stop. Gems and Aquas love communuication, the difference is I feel the need to get my point across and make Aqua understand. Aqua on the other hand, says what she has to say and wants to leave it at that... while still keeping her same wrong views. I can tell her what I am saying, but she will still attempt to tell me what I REALLY mean. It is like she creates drama, doesn't realize it, then same I am dramatic. Now of course she has withdrawn, and I initially pressed, but now have back off.

Has anyone here ever dated an Aqua and how have you dealt with their need to over analyze and hold onto to stuff instead of letting it go? What should I as a Gem know about aquas?

She is Cancer moon, Aqua mercury and Cap Venus. I am Pisces moon, Gem mercury, Gem Venus.

Posted by inluvgem
Okay Gems I am dating an aqua female, and in the beginning it was awesome, we clicked like a lock and key, spent plenty of time together, and intimate moments was so great. Now it seems the communicaton is going sour and I am heading towards a train wreck I am unable to stop. Gems and Aquas love communuication, the difference is I feel the need to get my point across and make Aqua understand. Aqua on the other hand, says what she has to say and wants to leave it at that... while still keeping her same wrong views. I can tell her what I am saying, but she will still attempt to tell me what I REALLY mean. It is like she creates drama, doesn't realize it, then same I am dramatic. Now of course she has withdrawn, and I initially pressed, but now have back off.

Has anyone here ever dated an Aqua and how have you dealt with their need to over analyze and hold onto to stuff instead of letting it go? What should I as a Gem know about aquas?
She is Cancer moon, Aqua mercury and Cap Venus. I am Pisces moon, Gem mercury, Gem Venus.

I'm an aqua sun
Libra rising
Gem moon

The aqua holds her position to prove a point. What she says isn't necessarily the true feelings and thoughts but rather what she intends.
We arr very very intelligent..we also are open to ANY idea..just as long as its NEW. My Gemini us also on the same page of intelligence.
However, Geminis truly believe they know EVERYTHING. Aquas know they don't. when an aqua tries different ideas to approach situations ans it doesn't work...they reinvent and readapt new ones. Problems arise when Ty he gem insist ans IMPLY our ways is absolutely wrong.

We see the gem explaining for the need to explain. Rather with purpose. Clear purpose.
It seems more of a goal to prove how right they are. And why they're way is best. The aqua will see that ad a sign of weakness and idiotics. We then tend to shut off. If the person we are having a disagreement DISPLAYS ANY SIGN of closed mindness and stubborness..we figure what's the point of expressing ourselves. We know the outcome is only to make the other we en person feel justified. Thoughts of logic and valid sound arguments of the process cone into mind.