@AnnaPhototaker
13 Years
The whole backstabbing thing.
you're surprised?
Go back to some of your previous posts, it's always good to reflect.
A good friend will always stab you in the front. ?? Oscar Wilde
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Long story short: I introduced a Gemini friend to a friend of mine and, while it was only for work reason, they started flirting and they're now supposedly in love. "Supposedly" because they've never met, only been talking on the phone and text. The girl invited him a few times to parties but my Gemini friend is shy and has social anxiety, stress, get nervous a lot and always find excuses not to meet her in social situation.
Anyways, this Gemini friend and I have known each other for a few years and he told me many times that I'm one of the few persons he truly trusts, but lately he's been a bad friend to me, and mostly because of that girl.
They got in an argument last week and my Gemini friend asked for help. He wanted to reach her but couldn't, she was ignoring him and asked for this girl's home number. At first I refused, as I didn't want her to be mad at me for sharing something she should be the one sharing herself, and I told my friend I'd talk to her and give him the number after I did so. But my Gemini friend didn't wanna wait, he harassed me until I gave him the home number. The girl ended up upset at me. (at first because after that she was happy I did and they talked about the argument and everything was ok)
But when I told Gemini about her being mad at me, he said he didn't care, that it had to be done for him to talk to her.
We then got in a fight, about how you don't treat friends the way he did, he apologized. Said that when he's in love he gets dumber.
Last night, I got a text from that girl saying that my Gemini friend was saying things about me, and she wanted to know if they were true.
She said he called me a liar, a game player and said he doesn't care anymore about me because I'm always negative about them being together or act heartbroken because my Gemini friend and I had plans to travel and he said he didn't wanna travel with me anymore because of her.
It's true that I told him how upset I am, because I'm a Cap (ascendent Gemini) and I speak my mind but never in a pity or whining way. I even told him that I respected his decision and wouldn't force him to come on trips with me.
And the negative about them being together, well. In the past, he fell quickly for girls same way he fell for her, and he regretted it, and told me to tell him he's making a mistake so he doesn't end up heartbroken again and that's what I did. Being a good friend and telling him but "she's different" (Like all the other girls)
Anyway