Virgo fem in love with Gemini

For obvious reasons geminis are by far the most magnetic of all signs. I am currently friends with a gemini. No problems and I dont get the split personality thing (as I am friends with several gems-never seen it). However, I hate that I think about him constantly, I compare others to him, I don't think that I'll ever have a better sex partner and worst of all it's either him or no one...damn you gems. And of course being the virgo girl that I am, everything is cool and detached...whatever. Any input or advice?

Even though I'm suppose to go well with other earth signs and water, all my past relationships have been with air and fire. Could it be that my moon is in aquarius. Maybe someone can give some insights on that.