Weird Gemini - making the effort not to stare?

So guys, long story, sit and enjoy 🙂

4 months ago this new guys started in the office and could not stop staring at me. I played along, even though I had a boyfriend.

Some weeks ago we went (office people) for drinks and we sat side by side. I still had a boyfriend at the time so all I could do was play along with his jokes, stare back and make sure I was 'extra' nice to him.

Office behavior was 'normal' till last week when I noticed he is making the effort of not staring at me. We spoke a couple of times and all seemed normal.. today his effort was absurd to avoid my eyes... he turned his whole head to avoid it...
The strange behavior started before he knew I had broken up, so I just dont understand.

Am I old news or is this a game?

Any advice?
Thanks!

Posted by exxtasyx
Lol it's a game! He likes youuuuu

She's only going to know if she reciprocates his actions, but if she already has a bf she likely won't at least for now. It's a game alright, we flirt with everyone. 😉

Now that I am free I am doing my best hehe let's see how the game goes 🙂
All advices are welcome!

Posted by CiaraJ
Now that I am free I am doing my best hehe let's see how the game goes 🙂
All advices are welcome!

What is your sign?

I am a Capri with Gemini Moon

Well, today he confirmed to me he did not know I had broken up.

I made a 'move' and innocently asked him to come along with a few coworkers and have lunch.

He was pretty flirty all day long - again - 🙂 You gemini guys are quite addictive. I think he's seeing someone at the moment but he says 'he's having fun only'.
I dont want to make a 'second' move and ask him for a drink or whatever - do you think he will?



And BTW, I did not break up because of him - I met him in the middle of the thing actually.

Posted by CiaraJ
Well, today he confirmed to me he did not know I had broken up.

I made a 'move' and innocently asked him to come along with a few coworkers and have lunch.

He was pretty flirty all day long - again - 🙂 You gemini guys are quite addictive. I think he's seeing someone at the moment but he says 'he's having fun only'.
I dont want to make a 'second' move and ask him for a drink or whatever - do you think he will?



And BTW, I did not break up because of him - I met him in the middle of the thing actually.

No need to rush. Keep it light and see what he does.

You guys rock! 🙂

Of course! We're Geminis 😉

Hey guys,

Just wondering if now that he knows I am free and it and it's recent, if he could feel 'respectful' towards my break up.

Would a Gem wait for my openess and wait to be 'embraced' in order not to be rejected?

He'll have patience if he likes you enough. Just don't keep him waiting forever.

Being honest I would say yes to whatever he suggested.
I am just worried he will wait for me to get closer in order to make a move so he doesnt look 'too rushy'.

Alright, he's definately mirroring my behavior.
If I dont look back once, he will avoid my eyes 'til I make eye contact again.
It's all pretty exciting but I am afraid of scaring him.