How to apologise to Gemini man using a meme?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by moody_pisces on Sunday, August 23, 2015 and has 7 replies.

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@moody_pisces
11 Years

Hello,
I hope you can help!
I am pisces female and have been speaking to a Gemini man on FB for 3 years.

We have had an argument, where I accused him of not looking at things from others point of view and having little empathy. He responded by saying I was wrong, and I should zoom out (not internalize or interact with the negative thought cloud, look at the bigger picture). There was obviously more to it, but you get the basic idea.
Last night I told him he was misunderstanding me and that I had zoomed out.

This morning I find he has blocked me 😢

So I thought I should ask in here as you know more than I do. I know I was wrong to keep pushing him, but he taken such drastic action. It seems such a waste of 3 years of good times for such a thing. I value his friendship. 😢

The only way I can communicate with him is through a group we co-admin, as he will still see my posts (as will everyone) but will be unable to comment or like it unless he lifts the block.

Any memes or words of advice will be gratefully received.

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@MoonshineLeo
11 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

ive been blocked by a gem too who got his feelings hurt, i think you just need to give them time and they will come around and when he does you can apologize to him

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@moody_pisces
11 Years

thank you for all your responses. I thought Geminis were quite quick to calm after an argument?

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

No memes for that your f'd
Thats one particular sign that puts cancers to shame when it comes to forgiveness

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@moody_pisces
11 Years

ahh, I was hoping that was not the case. I shall just leave him be then. Thanks to you all

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by moody_pisces
Hello,
I hope you can help!
I am pisces female and have been speaking to a Gemini man on FB for 3 years.

We have had an argument, where I accused him of not looking at things from others point of view and having little empathy. He responded by saying I was wrong, and I should zoom out (not internalize or interact with the negative thought cloud, look at the bigger picture). There was obviously more to it, but you get the basic idea.
Last night I told him he was misunderstanding me and that I had zoomed out.

This morning I find he has blocked me 😢

So I thought I should ask in here as you know more than I do. I know I was wrong to keep pushing him, but he taken such drastic action. It seems such a waste of 3 years of good times for such a thing. I value his friendship. 😢

The only way I can communicate with him is through a group we co-admin, as he will still see my posts (as will everyone) but will be unable to comment or like it unless he lifts the block.

Any memes or words of advice will be gratefully received.

Gemini men don't like being called out on their crap. Didn't you know, their point of view is the most important one and they're never wrong?
'Nuff said.

Oh, I'm being catty, here. Don't sweat it, hun. It's only a FB relationship, not real. It's not like it's someone you intereact with in person every day. I wouldn't worry about it. Don't ever feel bad about sticking to your guns on your opinion. Your opinion is yours and it's never wrong. Just like someone else's opinion is never wrong either. We need all viewpoints to have a balanced world.

So, basically, I wouldn't worry about it.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by moody_pisces
Hello,
I hope you can help!
I am pisces female and have been speaking to a Gemini man on FB for 3 years.

We have had an argument, where I accused him of not looking at things from others point of view and having little empathy. He responded by saying I was wrong, and I should zoom out (not internalize or interact with the negative thought cloud, look at the bigger picture). There was obviously more to it, but you get the basic idea.
Last night I told him he was misunderstanding me and that I had zoomed out.

This morning I find he has blocked me 😢

So I thought I should ask in here as you know more than I do. I know I was wrong to keep pushing him, but he taken such drastic action. It seems such a waste of 3 years of good times for such a thing. I value his friendship. 😢

The only way I can communicate with him is through....

Clearly he doesn't value yours. Trying to find all these different ways to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you sounds like a lot of wasted energy. He's a grown man right? So he knows how to communicate. He simply doesn't want to. Keep it movin'.

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