What's he doing?

My good Gemini friend is going through a rough time. He was forced to go live with his parents again. He's not happy there at all. His Scorpio mother is, his words, crazy. She's controlling and he really hates it.

We talked about being roommates in another city where he could be much happier.
The problem is that, whenever it's time to meet and talk about it, he always have something better to do. Like hangout with his friends or go on a dates.
Yet, when we talk about it, he says he really want to be my roommates. We talk about what we gonna do, where we wanna live, and he says it's something he really wants. But he's very selfish in nature and always pick other people than me. We've been waiting for 2 months now because he just push me aside when it's time to do what could help his future.

How do I get him to stop acting like a teenager and more like an adult?
I know he's a Gemini, I love his childish side very much. But I'm sick of waiting.

Thanks y'all

Obviously sinc he lives at home now he isnt serious nough tk get shit done.
Just saying.
maye tell him that your going to find a new one f h doent hurry. He doesnt hve discipline

Yeah... if he really wanted out of his mother's house,

he would have taken care of this already.

This kind of behaviour, which is NOT exclusive to

Gemini, drives me batty.

Posted by PrincessOfLight
My good Gemini friend is going through a rough time. He was forced to go live with his parents again. He's not happy there at all. His Scorpio mother is, his words, crazy. She's controlling and he really hates it.

We talked about being roommates in another city where he could be much happier.
The problem is that, whenever it's time to meet and talk about it, he always have something better to do. Like hangout with his friends or go on a dates.
Yet, when we talk about it, he says he really want to be my roommates. We talk about what we gonna do, where we wanna live, and he says it's something he really wants. But he's very selfish in nature and always pick other people than me. We've been waiting for 2 months now because he just push me aside when it's time to do what could help his future.

How do I get him to stop acting like a teenager and more like an adult?
I know he's a Gemini, I love his childish side very much. But I'm sick of waiting.

Thanks y'all

Ugh, this reminds me of my Gem ex who moved in with his folks (temporarily) and it's now been 4 years...no end in sight. And oh yeah, he complained about living there all the time his folks drove him nuts, blah , blah, etc...but clearly not enough for him to get his ass out the door! SMH oh well...best to find another roomie since your friend is being rude, disrespectful, and lazy.

Posted by littlemegabyte
When I truly want something, I will get it no matter what. His excuses in addition to the length of time that has passed by just means that he doesn't really want to.

1000% Agree! A Gem's tactic is too often just ignore the situation rather then tell you straight up "no" And sometimes that may be because they themselves are not sure what they want, but I can tell you it def means that it is a "no" for now....