when gemini girl like 2 guys at the same time,

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Whimsy
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First of all, she at least let you know exactly what's going on. You're number two, and no matter how alluring you find her, she never pretended you weren't. So, you know where you stand instead of having to guess. That helps a little.

Sounds like she really does like you, but that doesn't change the fact that you are her "reserve" guy. She's keeping you around until she decides what to do with you. You might stay in the "friend zone". You might end up as a replacement if her other guy leaves. She might develop more feelings for you than she has for him.

The way for you to increase your chances of becoming her number one guy (instead of staying forever in the friend zone) is to stop being such a patsy. She OWNS you right now. Completely. Sometimes Gemini girls like to own men, but even if they love the men they can dominate, they'll NEVER respect them. Stop catering to her (it's hard when you love someone, I know), and start letting her wonder where YOU are for a change. It'll drive her nuts and might force her to come to a decision. Why should she change anything right now? She has two men, which is a pretty good situation for her.