when gemini takes his bad mood out on you...

I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

Yea..i get that.. But he shouldn't have tried to spend time with me then, only to insult and hurt me..i didn't make him hang out.

you insult the furbabies you feel the WRATH 😡 😡

Posted by wagtail
you insult the furbabies you feel the WRATH 😡 😡

AMEN.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
Yea..i get that.. But he shouldn't have tried to spend time with me then, only to insult and hurt me..i didn't make him hang out.

He invites you to hang out when he's in a bad mood and then insults you the whole time?

That doesn't sound right 😕

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no...it does not..

Since Gemini Men usually get away with murder in how they treat people and never end up in prison or full accountability for their actions somehow there is one final solution that a Libra Man came up with

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Dude that is seriously disturbing and the worst. But I get your point.

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Since Gemini Men usually get away with murder in how they treat people and never end up in prison or full accountability for their actions somehow there is one final solution that a Libra Man came up with

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You're like a creepy teddy bear that's slightly retarded bro.

Not even defending geminis, but dat face and the fact you chose to link this scene as "weight" behind that statement. LMAO.

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Fair enough

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

Such is the way of life when in a committed relationship.... If you can't handle the bad with the good, maybe you should end the relationship.

I agree with @littlegigabyte, should have given him some space. You knew he was in a bad mood and you could have told him maybe some other time.

Don't get me wrong, I am not discrediting him and his actions. What he did was not right. But, you could have prevented this by saying "No".

And, if his actions are "unforgivable", why is there even a question of whether you "should kick him to the curb" or not.

Posted by Instantkarma
But what I don't get is the need to talk about something immediately. This is where women mess up. When a guy asks you for some space, give it to him. He wanted you around even when he was in a bad mood, that shows he is comfortable to have you around. If he wasnt he would have avoided meeting uo with you.
I wasn't there so I don't know if you nagged him or not. But everything doesn't have to be spelled out,IMO. Time would reveal everything on its own.
And idk, if you wanna kick him to the curb, do it. This is not a major issue. I'm sure he will pick himself up and move on in a month or two.
I made the same mistake yesterday and then I decided to ignore my bf!! Now he is milking it. I'm having him over for brunch this weekend :p. First time I'm having my bf over. Yayyyy!
My bad,OP!

first off I don't "nag" people..i just got up and left. It felt abusive to me. That's not how you talk to someone you care about, no matter what mood you're in. He just projects instead of admitting anything 's wrong.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

Such is the way of life when in a committed relationship.... If you can't handle the bad with the good, maybe you should end the relationship.

I agree with @littlegigabyte, should have given him some space. You knew he was in a bad mood and you could have told him maybe some other time.

Don't get me wrong, I am not discrediting him and his actions. What he did was not right. But, you could have prevented this by saying "No".

And, if his actions are "unforgivable", why is there even a question of whether you "should kick him to the curb" or not.

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I didn't know til we were hanging out, when he started insulting me. Then I got up and left. Have not spoken to him. And he has not apologized. I dont feel like I can fully trust him cuz it was so insulting. I have no problem giving ppl space. The bad and good need to be in balance, not the bad tipping the scales.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

He's more of a pussy cat than your cat!! Tell him you will not be treated like that and ignore him for a whole week and not speak to him...

I used to do this to my ex gem every time he committed an "offence". He was treated to doing "time" in my prison.. One week of solitary confinement without a word said and completely ignored and we both shared the same house!!! This would "repeat" until he learned his damn lesson stop repeat offending!!!

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I have said this before, I guess he hasn't learned his lesson yet. Did it really work?!

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

Sounds like my marriage.... 😢

Posted by littlegigabyte
Lmao he insulted your cat 😆

Gems can be moody as hell.

Best to give us space when we are in a mood. I understand you were trying to help, but don't. When he's in a bad mood, wait until he reaches out to you first. Could be days, weeks even. We need space.

That's hard to do when you live together like we did when we were married.

It gets old when everything that goes on in his life is your fault. 😢

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Posted by Instantkarma
But what I don't get is the need to talk about something immediately. This is where women mess up. When a guy asks you for some space, give it to him. He wanted you around even when he was in a bad mood, that shows he is comfortable to have you around. If he wasnt he would have avoided meeting uo with you.
I wasn't there so I don't know if you nagged him or not. But everything doesn't have to be spelled out,IMO. Time would reveal everything on its own.
And idk, if you wanna kick him to the curb, do it. This is not a major issue. I'm sure he will pick himself up and move on in a month or two.
I made the same mistake yesterday and then I decided to ignore my bf!! Now he is milking it. I'm having him over for brunch this weekend :p. First time I'm having my bf over. Yayyyy!
My bad,OP!

first off I don't "nag" people..i just got up and left. It felt abusive to me. That's not how you talk to someone you care about, no matter what mood you're in. He just projects instead of admitting anything 's wrong.

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My ex could never take responsibility for himself or his actions. He just projected everything onto me.

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Posted by littlegigabyte
Lmao he insulted your cat 😆

Gems can be moody as hell.

Best to give us space when we are in a mood. I understand you were trying to help, but don't. When he's in a bad mood, wait until he reaches out to you first. Could be days, weeks even. We need space.

That's hard to do when you live together like we did when we were married.

It gets old when everything that goes on in his life is your fault. 😢

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I'm sorry that sounds horrible.....I'm afraid its just gonna get worse....unless he acknowledges his need to change.

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Posted by Instantkarma
But what I don't get is the need to talk about something immediately. This is where women mess up. When a guy asks you for some space, give it to him. He wanted you around even when he was in a bad mood, that shows he is comfortable to have you around. If he wasnt he would have avoided meeting uo with you.
I wasn't there so I don't know if you nagged him or not. But everything doesn't have to be spelled out,IMO. Time would reveal everything on its own.
And idk, if you wanna kick him to the curb, do it. This is not a major issue. I'm sure he will pick himself up and move on in a month or two.
I made the same mistake yesterday and then I decided to ignore my bf!! Now he is milking it. I'm having him over for brunch this weekend :p. First time I'm having my bf over. Yayyyy!
My bad,OP!

first off I don't "nag" people..i just got up and left. It felt abusive to me. That's not how you talk to someone you care about, no matter what mood you're in. He just projects instead of admitting anything 's wrong.

My ex could never take responsibility for himself or his actions. He just projected everything onto me.

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sounds like a narcissist.

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Posted by truecap

Posted by littlegigabyte
Lmao he insulted your cat 😆

Gems can be moody as hell.

Best to give us space when we are in a mood. I understand you were trying to help, but don't. When he's in a bad mood, wait until he reaches out to you first. Could be days, weeks even. We need space.

That's hard to do when you live together like we did when we were married.

It gets old when everything that goes on in his life is your fault. 😢

I'm sorry that sounds horrible.....I'm afraid its just gonna get worse....unless he acknowledges his need to change.

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I only spoke up to share that I've been there.

There were more good days than bad...until I started standing up for myself more and he didn't like that. The marriage soon soured until it got to the point where we hated each other.

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Posted by Instantkarma
But what I don't get is the need to talk about something immediately. This is where women mess up. When a guy asks you for some space, give it to him. He wanted you around even when he was in a bad mood, that shows he is comfortable to have you around. If he wasnt he would have avoided meeting uo with you.
I wasn't there so I don't know if you nagged him or not. But everything doesn't have to be spelled out,IMO. Time would reveal everything on its own.
And idk, if you wanna kick him to the curb, do it. This is not a major issue. I'm sure he will pick himself up and move on in a month or two.
I made the same mistake yesterday and then I decided to ignore my bf!! Now he is milking it. I'm having him over for brunch this weekend :p. First time I'm having my bf over. Yayyyy!
My bad,OP!

first off I don't "nag" people..i just got up and left. It felt abusive to me. That's not how you talk to someone you care about, no matter what mood you're in. He just projects instead of admitting anything 's wrong.

My ex could never take responsibility for himself or his actions. He just projected everything onto me.

sounds like a narcissist.

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I honestly believe he is.

Of course, I know not every gemini is like my ex. Some are good as gold! 🙂

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i love dxp ^^

yea it was rude and insulting. You don't attack someone's furbaby dude.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

He probably was really upset.. Baby him.. tell him that you are willing to work out whatever situation it is or whatever he is upset about.. and that you know he is upset and taking his issues out on irrelevant things but you will be there for him when he is willing to talk. Gemini can act almost like children / child like when upset.. I do with my Taurus boyfriend and he gives me a break for a few minutes and then comes back and works it out with me.. and Yes I sort of do Blame everything on him and then once I am calm.. I speak the Truth and work it out, like a grown ass woman should. Haha! You taking it personally, he won't care once he sees you don't care and that is one way to get rid of us for GOOD. Choose your actions Wisely.

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that's good advice thanks. Think hes getting way too much benefit of the doubt from me at this point. Whadya mean he wont care if I take it personally? If I show him.i dont care ill lose him?

Posted by geegee
Why fight him when he's already upset? You had that coming. Next time let him calm down on his own. You can't be his solution to everything no matter how much you expect him to show you his love, somethings need to be processed alone. The fact that you didn't realize that Prolly annoyed him.

I didn't fight..he wanted to hang out with me, then proceeded to be mean and insulting to me...and then I immediately left and haven't spoken since.

Maybe he was testing the waters to know if you can be used as an emotional tampon.

Posted by Kemetisinme
Maybe he was testing the waters to know if you can be used as an emotional tampon.

I have my own tampons to deal with, I don't need to be his.

Huh. But I don't like what he did to me, I feel he owes me an apology.

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Posted by Kemetisinme
Maybe he was testing the waters to know if you can be used as an emotional tampon.

THIS. Exactly.. and by leaving.. this would definitely Upset the Shit out of me.. I don't care what I said about your cat.. Maybe I was just Angry? Duuuhhh.. I didn't take in that you left.. in this case.. YOUR going to have to Call him back and apologize and let him know that you are willing to talk and you will be there for him no matter What!!

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you must be stoned

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Maybe he was testing the waters to know if you can be used as an emotional tampon.

THIS. Exactly.. and by leaving.. this would definitely Upset the Shit out of me.. I don't care what I said about your cat.. Maybe I was just Angry? Duuuhhh.. I didn't take in that you left.. in this case.. YOUR going to have to Call him back and apologize and let him know that you are willing to talk and you will be there for him no matter What!!

you must be stoned

I will be in about a minute (cannabis) but nope. As stated gems could almost be child like, when upset. She walked away from him, that was WRONG. He will hold it against her, she will be lucky if she gets to talk to him again. She is my DXP friend, so I am telling her straight up.. Yes us Gems can be a mess sometimes but you don't go walking out on us. Huge nono.

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well I appreciate your candor. Haha...but hey its prolly not worth it if he can be that mean, and then abandon me cuz I'm hurt by it. Prolly not a good fit!

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

He probably was really upset.. Baby him.. tell him that you are willing to work out whatever situation it is or whatever he is upset about.. and that you know he is upset and taking his issues out on irrelevant things but you will be there for him when he is willing to talk. Gemini can act almost like children / child like when upset.. I do with my Taurus boyfriend and he gives me a break for a few minutes and then comes back and works it out with me.. and Yes I sort of do Blame everything on him and then once I am calm.. I speak the Truth and work it out, like a grown ass woman should. Haha! You taking it personally, he won't care once he sees you don't care and that is one way to get rid of us for GOOD. Choose your actions Wisely.

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Ain't nobody got time to deal with an adult who acts like a child.

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Posted by Kemetisinme
Maybe he was testing the waters to know if you can be used as an emotional tampon.

THIS. Exactly.. and by leaving.. this would definitely Upset the Shit out of me.. I don't care what I said about your cat.. Maybe I was just Angry? Duuuhhh.. I didn't take in that you left.. in this case.. YOUR going to have to Call him back and apologize and let him know that you are willing to talk and you will be there for him no matter What!!

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She's just supposed to sit there and take it? Hell no.
No one with self respect would take that crap.

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Huh. But I don't like what he did to me, I feel he owes me an apology.

I agree

Posted by geegee
Then just break up with him!! Game over. Problem solved!

I dont expect I'll be hearing from.him., and I'm not calling him.

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

Imo you did the right thing. Give him space until he's ready to shift his focus off of his pity party and recognize the blessing of you in his life.

Then you need to have a conversation with him. Let him know how unacceptable his behavior was.

Set the expectations of what you want and need from him. And what you won't tolerate.

Geminis are SO moody. Still doesn't make it right what he did.

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun....instead he just turned everything I said around and made everything my fault...then he insulted me and my cat which to me is unforgivable. It made no sense, it was just mean.....is this typical, should I kick him to the curb? I actually thought he cared about me...:/

what the hell is the matter with people, is my usual question ....


Every person gets in bad moods. Every time someone comes into dxp (and rl) and starts complaining about how the other person is acting like a person (having moods) .. you basically render yourself looking very stupid, because it implies that you don't have moods, which implies you're not even human.


so, the fuck what ... there's no doubt in anybody's mind that when you get in a bad mood ... that you act like it, and then he is the one who has to put up with your bullshit.


and it's not forgivable to you? What are you? .. some kind of raging asshole? what kind of crazy bitch are you, in that you can't forgive one of your own people for being human, and having a mood?


And further, you attempt to make him guilty in not caring about you ... yet, we all know that you're an asshole to him, everytime you're feeling like an ass.


it's so difficult having to deal with ridiculous humans, I'm telling you.

Posted by boxcarmirnta

I knew he was in a bad mood, I tried to get him to talk about it...

It made no sense, it was just mean.....

What actually makes no sense and is just mean is the fact that you knew he was in a foul mood .. but, you pushed him into talking about it anyway.

A person who actually cares would have backed away from him and let his mood fade away.

But, since you aren't that considerate person ... you get in face instead, and attempt to push him into talking to you about it.

You sound like a bad girlfriend .. my hope is that he realizes that you don't actually care about him, and so he kicks you to the curb, so he will be free to go find a person who actually cares about his well being, and is adult enough to let him have his feelings

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I tried to get him to

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i didn't make him

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Yes, actually you did try to make him

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..i just got up and left.

No you didn't. Now you're lying.

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I tried to get him to talk about it...i was really happy, tried to joke and have fun...

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then I immediately left and haven't spoken since.

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and then abandon me

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He didn't abandon you ... you walked out on him

You talk out of both sides of your mouth.


You sound like you are dead set on being a victim and just refuse to take responsibility for your own actions. When someone points something out to you that is inconsistent .. you just come back with another lie.

Posted by truecap

She's just supposed to sit there and take it?

I've read this whole thread, and nobody said those words, Cap.

so, that means you're putting words in someone's mouth and then attempting to hold them accountable for those words they didn't say.

If you're not lying, and someone did actually say that .... quote it.


I'll wait, to see how honest you actually are.

Posted by boxcarmirnta

I dont expect I'll be hearing from.him., and I'm not calling him.

I hope like hell he has enough sense to never contact you again. You've treated him horribly in this instance. And since you appear to not have any self awareness, it's highly likely that you've been treating him this bad all along.

So, the best thing for him to do for himself is to forget you exist, so he can move along to someone who cares about him.

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Posted by truecap

She's just supposed to sit there and take it?

I've read this whole thread, and nobody said those words, Cap.

so, that means you're putting words in someone's mouth and then attempting to hold them accountable for those words they didn't say.

If you're not lying, and someone did actually say that .... quote it.


I'll wait, to see how honest you actually are.

Right here P.
GemStoned said she was wrong to leave. So, the only other option was to sit there and take his insults.

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Posted by Kemetisinme
.. and by leaving.. this would definitely Upset the Shit out of me.. I don't care what I said about your cat.. Maybe I was just Angry? Duuuhhh.. I didn't take in that you left.. in this case.. YOUR going to have to Call him back and apologize and let him know that you are willing to talk and you will be there for him no matter What!!

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I lived with a gemini man for 18 years. I know very well, that sharp tongue, mean and hurtful words and how he blamed me for everything. If you stay, you get more of the hurtful words. If you speak, it escalates. The only thing to do in that situation is to walk away until he calmed down. And every time he came back to his senses he would apologize.It gets old really, really fast.

According to Gemstoned (gemini candle), one should sit there and take it and allow them to act like a child. I disagree. One shouldn't have to sit there and take that abuse.

I screwed up the quote. It's on page 3.

Posted by boxcarmirnta

It felt abusive to me. That's not how you talk to someone you care about, no matter what mood you're in. He just projects instead of admitting anything 's wrong.

Like you are projecting here because you refuse to admit that getting in a person's face who is in a foul mood is the wrong thing to do?

And you feel abusive to him ... and that's not acceptable for you to do to someone you care about.

This phrase, "walk away until he calmed down"

does not say "sitting there taking it"

those two phrases have two entirely different meanings


You are projecting, truecap, as you always do when Gemini men are the topic. You were so fucked over by yours, and I'm not doubting how horrible that was for you to endure. Just as it's hard for every person to endure getting screwed over.

But, this isn't about you ... you're speaking from a very subjective viewpoint and projecting onto an entirely different situation. And we have proof of what I'm saying by the response here.


She was counselled to remain composed, while removing themselves from the proximity, so that the man can get through his upset without being further provoked ...... she is not being counselled to sit there on the couch next to him, while he screams at her and she's not allowed to have a voice.


But, that's how you took it to mean ..... ONLY because you are projecting your personal feelings, because you are seemingly incapable of being impartial.

When people are arguing, it's literally impossible to sit there and say nothing.

Humans are humans .. and they are going to act like it.

If your partner is upset at you, you are going to defend yourself, you are going to try and reason with them, you are going to become upset yourself, you are going to even say things you don't mean .....

Any person who insinuates that they are error free during a relationship is deluded .... severely.

You, truecap, are not exception. For all the times your Gemini was a dickhead to you .. you were one to him at times also.


And there's no way I'm ever going to believe that this Gemini, who was so livid that he lost his temper ... that this woman was sitting there laughing and joking, smiling, trying to have fun.


Because people don't behave that way ... people are going to behave in accordance with the emotional spikes.

psychology101



Just as, there's no doubt in my mind that everytime your ex-Gemini was an asshole .. that you just sat there, happily, trying to joke around with him ... because that's what she said.

She said that when he went off on her, she was trying joke around with him. Do you REALLLY believe that he attacked her, and she was sitting there cracking jokes?


be real, ffs

Posted by P-Angel

This phrase, "walk away until he calmed down"

does not say "sitting there taking it"

those two phrases have two entirely different meanings


You are projecting, truecap, as you always do when Gemini men are the topic. You were so fucked over by yours, and I'm not doubting how horrible that was for you to endure. Just as it's hard for every person to endure getting screwed over.

But, this isn't about you ... you're speaking from a very subjective viewpoint and projecting onto an entirely different situation. And we have proof of what I'm saying by the response here.


She was counselled to remain composed, while removing themselves from the proximity, so that the man can get through his upset without being further provoked ...... she is not being counselled to sit there on the couch next to him, while he screams at her and she's not allowed to have a voice.


But, that's how you took it to mean ..... ONLY because you are projecting your personal feelings, because you are seemingly incapable of being impartial.

Yes, I agree all the other gems said to walk away until he calmed down. I agreed with that. That's how I handled it.

Except, Gemstoned. She said specifically that if they left, that would upset her. That's who I was addressing and pointing out to her that someone shouldn't have to stay there and listen to that rant.

P you are misconstruing the conversation.

I could be projecting, but I on't think so in this case. I've been on the other end of that gemini rant and I know how it feels. You're damned whatever you do, damned whatever you don't as far as they're concerned.

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Just as, there's no doubt in my mind that everytime your ex-Gemini was an asshole .. that you just sat there, happily, trying to joke around with him ... because that's what she said.

She said that when he went off on her, she was trying joke around with him. Do you REALLLY believe that he attacked her, and she was sitting there cracking jokes?


be real, ffs

No I didn't joke around with him. I would definitely stand up for myself and things would escalate. BADLY. I finally learned to walk out of the room and allow him to calm down.

The way I interpretted, he was in a bad mood. So, she tried to cheer him up, just as many people do. He wasn't yelling at her at that point. He obviously didn't appreciate being cheered up and instead of asking her to stop, he started ranting on her, blaming her for whatever put him in his mood. I didn't get the impression that after he started ranting that she kept on cracking jokes and smiling. She tried to calm him and that didn't work, so she left, as many people would do.

And obviously, I could be wrong in my interpretation, just as you could be wrong in yours.

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Gemstoned. She said specifically that .......

I was addressing and pointing out to her that someone shouldn't have to stay there and listen to that rant.

I'm not misconstruing the situation, though ... and I know exactly what was said.

I think you are misconstruing what she said ... in your mind, you believe that she said, "

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...... and pointing out to her that someone shouldn't have to stay there and listen to that rant.

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But, it doesn't matter ..... you are bent on believing everything a Gemini does has nefarious intent ... and have proven in dxp time and again, that you refuse to grow past it. You obviously have a desire to fiercely own your misery.

so, then I'll digress and let you fully embrace this possession of yours, so you can relish in it

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Posted by truecap

Gemstoned. She said specifically that .......

I was addressing and pointing out to her that someone shouldn't have to stay there and listen to that rant.

I'm not misconstruing the situation, though ... and I know exactly what was said.

I think you are misconstruing what she said ... in your mind, you believe that she said, "

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...... and pointing out to her that someone shouldn't have to stay there and listen to that rant.

But, it doesn't matter ..... you are bent on believing everything a Gemini does has nefarious intent ... and have proven in dxp time and again, that you refuse to grow past it. You obviously have a desire to fiercely own your misery.

so, then I'll digress and let you fully embrace this possession of yours, so you can relish in it

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Nah, I can see the positive side of geminis now. There's some out there as good as gold! And I've even given credit on this site to some of those on DXP (GeeGee, Littlemegabyte and several others) who helped me turn attitude that around. And I know, all geminis don't have nefarious intentions. That would be ridiculous to think that way.

Just because I can be realistic about the negative qualities, that doesn't mean that is all I see.

Every sign has good and bad traits.