WHY IS EVERYONE JEALOUS OF THE GEMINI? (Page 2)

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Being a Gem myself, I feel that i have always been hated on. I have the looks, the charm, the intelligence, sweetness, and down to earthness that people are attracted to you. You see, we may be attractive, but not stuck up. People make us act that way on occasion because they don't accept it. People that usually hate on us are Leos, Scorpios, and Aries. Hey yall, don't hate cause you don't have the confidence. Go and get some, ok. I love attention and it doesn't look like i will change my status. I am also nonchalant, so don't think i give a damn about what you think either! Also, if you do some research, you will see that we are your journalist, writer, and actresses. Enough said!
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I'm a scorpio and I think it's a complete waste of time to be jealous of anyone. The way I see the world, there will always be someone who's more talented, more intelligent, more whatever...at every turn. So to waste time with a fruitless emotion such as jealousy is to deny myself my right to happiness in the world. I would rather appreciate someone else's good qualities and strive to improve myself than sink into despair thinking "I'll never be as ____ as that person". I just won't let anyone have that kind of power over me. Plus, I have the confidence to know that I am capable of anything I set my mind on achieving.
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(65.92.115.31) I'm truly agree with you...
i don't know,it just happened on a gemini friend of mine last few years ago. Probably not all gemini but just in my case...
i'd met this gemini friend before,everytime she did something wrong she's more likely to blame it on others and run away from responsiblity,a coward girl i can say....she always likes to pin pointing on people bads (in order to get attention from other people,think that she's better than those who she's criticized)sometimes could be very hurtful(too much) and always think that she's kind of most perfect or very good like(cheating on her ownself,sorf of like this).
Can't imagine that a gemini can be far more too critical as well.(for this friend only,sorry)
i dont think it's the case that we are jealous at gemini or me jealous of her but in this case it's kind of the other way round.She scares people to be better than her or think she's not really good. She's kind of competitive typical.She can be quite cunning when jealous of you,anyone of you ever meet such kind of gemini? She'll try to think of any possible way to get in your good standing place.B'cos she likes attention and sometimes i just lets her be in her highness(otherwise she'll argue with you for nonsense,talk you into her ways,always want people to be in just her ways).
There's also 1 thing true about this gemini friend, she always like to get good things without any effort but just with some sweet talks.She's always taking things for granted.Everything has to come easy for her, otherwise she'll feel unplease about you.Lots of dishosnesty has been found in her as well in the way to get things she wants.She's not really generous,you are right about this point... her generousity seems to have intentions.

Okay stop to be too critical, but i'm saying this just in my case of that friend i met, not to offend u all.A longtime ago...just recalling it to share with you all. Wonder If anyone of you have meet this kind of gemini before?

So my point here is sometimes it's not us who really jealous of gemini.B'cos she's nothing for me to jealous of her.

Well,
To all the gemini CHEERS!
Don't get me wrong.
As i know everyone is not the same.....
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68.116,
You put that very well! Excellent answer!

I have a stressful job...but, I love it. Part of the reason I love it so much is due to the people I work with. I have worked with people before who were jealous of others, catty, sneakily competitive, etc. It causes the atmosphere to be negatively charged with distrust.

The group I work with now appreciate that each of us is different, and that we each have our strengths and weaknesses. This acceptance and appreciation for each other makes us a very strong team and also makes work lots of fun!! What a difference the 'charge' in the atmosphere makes!
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216, thank you for the compliment! (I'm "68")

I am glad to hear that you are now in a positively charged environment. Jealousy, while a natural emotion and one that can come over a person without their control, is something that only can affect our actions insofar as we allow it to. Jealousy unbridled and allowed to overwhelm a person, is toxic and poisonous to the soul.
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tupeline
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i had the impression too that at least the first two post were written by the same person, same style of writing and same strange views 😉
i don't hate geminis, i'm not jealous of them and they are fun to be with.
you just can't generalize ppl because of their starsign. there are a few gems who i think are too wishy-washy, and the reason for behaving like this is mostly immaturity. there are other geminis that i really like.
so no need to shout, mysterious unregistered gems :-)
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Hi Unregistered x2

I soo agree with you about the gemini-jealousy thing - I get it too and it really annoys me because Im not boastful about my achievements - its just that my talent and intteligence inevitably shines through. I have an aries friend who is competitive, but i love her - shes very dynamic and go-getting and great company which inspires me.

I also agree with you about pisces - I had one date with a pisces man - how shallow he was - we clicked personality-wise but he rejected me because as he put it 'your not 5'8, slim and headturning' - Im actually pretty-damn-foxy-looking and i get loads of attention from men wherever I am.

My cousin (also pisces) and I dont speak - I had years of her self-indulgent crap and conversation which revolved around her. ex.she would talk at length about men that fancied her etc, then if i related a story about a man fancying me, she would say that i was insecure because i had to tell her about it - one rule for her, one for everyone else. I also hate the mindgames that pisces women play - the subtle put down - they pretend to be putting themselves down about something, but its something theyve noticed about you and are making a pointed remark.. grrr

PS. the hateful message replies on here, just validate what you were saying about geminis being hated :-)
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I'm a gemini and I'm a person that doesn't like to be in the spotlight. I have the guts, but I rather not want the glory. My friend that is a capricorn always make me feel bad. If a good thing happens to me, she would always point out the negative side of the subject, instead of saying the positives of it. We've had our ups and downs many times, and I would like to end our friendship since she's always making me feel horrible. Even though I always help her. It's a lose-lose situation for me, no benefits at all.

Also, I have a friend that is an Aries. The funny thing about her is that she always wants to compete with me, and I just let her win all the time because its pointless. More over, she likes to copy what I do. If all of the sudden I mention to her about something she doesn't know, she would go home and study a whole hour about it.

And I don't know about my friend that is a Libra... she tends to boss me around alot. >.< But we get along well.
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My friend that is a capricorn always make me feel bad. If a good thing happens to me, she would always point out the negative side of the subject, instead of saying the positives of it. We've had our ups and downs many times, and I would like to end our friendship since she's always making me feel horrible. Even though I always help her. It's a lose-lose situation for me, no benefits at all.


Damn them Cappy's LMAO don't get me started on them..
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YOU GUYS LIVE IN A FANTASY WORLD, NOONE HATES , PEOPLE JUST HATE THE TREATMENT THEY GET FROM YOU GUYS... NOONE IS JEALOUS , U GUYS ARE JUST COMPETTIVE AND WANT TO BE ON TOP AND PEOPLE RESPOND TO THAT... NOONE EVEN TALKS ABOUT YA'LL FORREAL ,ACCEPT FOR THE BAD TREATMENT THEY HAVE RECIEVED, BUT IF IT'S UP TO YA'LL , U GUYS ARE INNOCENT INNOCENT INNOCENT...., BETWEEN SCORPS AND LEO 'S U GUYS ARE OUTWEIGHED.....
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NOONE IS HARDLY JEALOUS OF YOU GUYS , WHAT A DISTORTED REALITY.. HA HA HA .. I LIKE U GUYS , HATE THE MOOD SWINGS , BUT ON THE REAL , PEOPLE DISLIKE U GUYS BECAUSE U GUYS BRING IT ON YOURSELF. U GUYS AREN'T CONSIDERED TO BE THE SEXIST OR ANYTHING AND EVERYONE CAN'T BE JEALIUS ,IT MUST BE U GUYS. IF ANYTHING I CAN SAY THAT ABOUT THE SCORPS, NOW PEOPLE USUALLY ARE JEALOUS OF THEM BECAUSE THEY CANNOT FIGURE THEM OUT! THAT SPARKLE AND GLOW. I THINK =HATING AND JEALOUSY ARE THE WRONG WORDS TO USE.
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I AGREE...and what is up with Pisces? I'm a Gem female and every Pisces male I've been attracted to or has been attracted to me has gone all kerrr-azy on me? and I agree--I seem to get a lot of women in competition with me (especially crazy Leo women and had a former friend who was a Pisces and she was weirdly jealous and competitive with me).

Geminis get a bad rap--we talk too much, we lie, we are too outspoken, blah blah....ALL signs have bad and good traits...but I agree, us Gems get hated on a lot.

I agree--Gems are very much in touch with reality and we are very logical people who call it like they see it and I agree with the first statement on the board, I'll dump your ass too if you give me any grief--I won't put up with a lot of crap from men and I'm 34 and have a few yrs under my belt ha!!

Yeah for Gems 🙂 Rock on!