why, why, why gem males?

Today is my gem males friend b-day. If you caught my thread on said gem, then you may can understand? fire is close to my ass, so I don't have time to repeat myself....uuuggggggh! Anyway, I sent Mr. Gem a text today and wished him a happy B-day. Thank fuker didnt even say thank you. At the end of May, I had texted him to say what's up? his returned replied that he was coming home. It was to my surprise that he was coming home due to the fact, according to him, he would'nt be home until sometime in june. For all you male gem's, it the I'm out of town scenerio thing going on, which actually is a plus for any guy with me. Anyway,my question is? what the hell you u all expect from the fiery fly? In response to his reply, I had told him that I was in Florida. Again no response to that! And of course I had added a little humor...........I told him I was waiting for him to wimp out his super powers......I usually call him my little grasshopper and he would respond with lol.....I got nothing.....WTF—? He is so lucky its his b-day because I try to be humble and it hard for me at times, but I feel like whimpin that ass mentally and be done with it— I know its not right, but he is pushing it!!! Is this what he want's— or is he gentle waving his hand bye bye? I hate to admitt at my age, I'm not use to the hand only because I'm usually the one to say its done!!!! Gem's help me out on this one? especially for I leap and don't look and blow it! He's really a good guy but seems to be scattered or insecured. I think its really sad and frankly I'm really feeling sorry for him and don't know why?

please excuse the typos........I'm trying to watch the game....yeah!

Thanks for the reply m&mgem!

I've gotten over my tizzie fit already. At this point, I don't think it would really work out with this gem guy. It was my humor and his laugh that keep me interested. I thought mayby I may have offened him with my jokes. One thing I do know for sure, I really think he is insecured about his weight, and he just can't keep up with me. He lives in Maryland. We only meet once. He was a nervous reck! He just turned 35 and married once very young. He has one child from the marriage. He was engaged about 2 1/2 years ago and girlfriend ran off with the 5karats. Anyway, we are on yahoo together and he's on every single day and all night. Sometimes when I log on, I'll speak and he'll respond with " I'm about to work out or I am working out or I'm paying bills. I usually leave it at that and go on about my business. I spend a lot of time myself being busy and he seems to don't like it. He is always telling me when he off and running, and I would always tell him to have fun. But when he finds out I'm off and running, either he gives me a smart remark or he just won't respond. Well lately I've been quite busy and he is aware of it and has stop speaking altogether. So I don't think I will be started any conversations with him at all. It's not that serious. I feel at this point that I will not be able to really be myself "wild and crazy" rational but civil with him. I'm pretty comfortable where I sit, so its his lost. He's not my first Gem nor he will be my last. Usually we have a connection which is not so pressed. NO bolts and chains, good understanding even if we don't talk about the relationship in general. So as far as I'm concern.

This is one damaged Gem who is stuck in a world I have no time for.....gotta go!

Thanks again M&Mgem! you are representing Gems who are just sooooo adorable and sweet...

Yeah EGem.....the bi-och ran off with the loot after she woke up one morning and told him that she was not in love with him anymore....

I believe she took more that.....He apprears to be lost! I really feel sorry for him.

I still love you gems anyway! Funny I say this; my daughter is a Gem and she drives me crazy. Her attention span is off the charts....she is always saying "oops my bad" but she is really cute....

would you all agree that this gem really needs a firey fly to bring him back to life or forget about it! If he can be this boring and cant even start a fight to get it out, what use is he anyway! I'm talking to a aqu guy and another aries right now. Both are my cup of tea.....I just hope they are using their baggage for clothes only and save the drama........chezzzzz

good eye Eg..............and you might be right!!! he's bored and boring! doing a lot of thinking and aint doing a damn thing.....He's gotta be mixed up with something else because GEMS are not BORING!!!!They just don't give a shezit and keep it moving. I think my Gem got his head stuck in a yak bottle that bi-och put him. Thats the world I rather not join. Oh welllll...