Will a Gemini man lose interest in me if

I say I'm busy and we can't see each other ? We've only been talking almost 2 weeks. Just met over the weekend and the chemistry was out of this world. I'm a Taurus and he's actually a May Gemini. Idk if that changes things but I really would love to see him too , but I kind of want to keep it as a chase kind of thing and make him want me more. I just don't want him to think I'm on him and will jump to any opportunity to see him. But at the same time I don't want him to lose interest in me because I told him I'd have to decline. Will this turn him off or keep him coming back for more ?

Depends. Since it's so early into the relationship, I don't think that's a good idea. My Gemini never lost interest in me when I was that way (not on purpose). In fact, it did make him want me more but I guess it just all depends if he likes you enough.

Posted by littlemegabyte
Generally it will keep his interest piqued, unless he meets someone else or decides to move on. Gem men are pretty fickle, especially at the newness stage of this particular situation. They want what they don't have, and can be guilty of not wanting it anymore once they got it lol.

I'm not fickle if I like you and am interested. This is more a quality of the May gems.

My ex was a Gemini and we spent everyday together since our first date, we tried to go days without seeing one another but would always end up seeing one another if only to give each other a hug. We admitted that we just enjoyed each other that much.

In my opinion because they are always on the move and keeping their options open, you just have to stand out, but Gems are pretty direct and straight to the point people, so beating around the bush playing games is not always the best tactic with them.

When I was with my Gem everyday I just made sure I was a joy to be around, he had a blast whenever he was with me even if we were just chilling or lounging around. I was a peaceful place for him, to the point he didn’t want to even go out without me. If he went to the club guess who he wanted on his arm.
Basically I’m saying you don’t need to neglect your Gem to keep them interested, don’t smother him either, just make sure that when he’s with you it’s a date/time he will always remember.

Posted by Lyse
My ex was a Gemini and we spent everyday together since our first date, we tried to go days without seeing one another but would always end up seeing one another if only to give each other a hug. We admitted that we just enjoyed each other that much.

In my opinion because they are always on the move and keeping their options open, you just have to stand out, but Gems are pretty direct and straight to the point people, so beating around the bush playing games is not always the best tactic with them.

When I was with my Gem everyday I just made sure I was a joy to be around, he had a blast whenever he was with me even if we were just chilling or lounging around. I was a peaceful place for him, to the point he didn’t want to even go out without me. If he went to the club guess who he wanted on his arm.
Basically I’m saying you don’t need to neglect your Gem to keep them interested, don’t smother him either, just make sure that when he’s with you it’s a date/time he will always remember.

That's exactly how I was with my Libra. Felt it was the same for them but apparently not good enough or I was too much. 😢

Your situation is different gemguyaz. You had a disagreement and Libra’s don’t handle conflict well, once they no longer care how you feel it’s really hard to get them back to when they did care.
Me and my gem got into it and at one point he wouldn’t even raise his voice at me, but one day I snapped and I went off on him with no filter, I was cursing and just going off. He was cursing back but at that point I was on a roll and he could barely get a word in, he didn’t run he didn’t talk to me for a couple days, he even blocked me on social media, but I was so pissed that I didn’t care. I was fed up anyway. Next thing I knew he would reach out, and I would accept him back as a friend in my eyes, but he wanted more I didn’t, for me at that point the relationship boat had sailed. I don’t hold grudges so we can be cool but I didn’t want him romantically he blew it.

Posted by Lyse
Your situation is different gemguyaz. You had a disagreement and Libra’s don’t handle conflict well, once they no longer care how you feel it’s really hard to get them back to when they did care.
Me and my gem got into it and at one point he wouldn’t even raise his voice at me, but one day I snapped and I went off on him with no filter, I was cursing and just going off. He was cursing back but at that point I was on a roll and he could barely get a word in, he didn’t run he didn’t talk to me for a couple days, he even blocked me on social media, but I was so pissed that I didn’t care. I was fed up anyway. Next thing I knew he would reach out, and I would accept him back as a friend in my eyes, but he wanted more I didn’t, for me at that point the relationship boat had sailed. I don’t hold grudges so we can be cool but I didn’t want him romantically he blew it.

So it's ok for you to go off on him about whatever reason you did, but I'm the bad guy because I did the same thing? That's just hypocritical. And it would seem by what your explaining that he did what my Libra did to me. He mirrored you being shitty, albeit he did it with silence on your part. We can agree to disagree but the point is the good times outweighed the bad which is why it doesn't make any sense.

No there’s nothing wrong with you poppin off on him if his ass deserved it. Trust me I’m not saying that.
What I’m saying is, I’m all about talking about our problems and trying to reach a solution like adults, all that screaming and yelling and cursing is for the birds. If I go there, I have no plans on ever speaking to you again afterwards, because I don’t like people that bring out that side of me, especially if it’s often. The only time I truly curse a person out is if they are “trying” to curse me out first, instead of talking to me like they have some sense or if they have deliberately wronged or crossed me on purpose. In my case with my ex, he had done so much leading up to the argument that I just blew my cap. When I’m done, I’m done. case closed. Because I give so many chances before I’m done and those chances are giving with clear warning from my very own lips that they need to get their shit together or there may not be a next time. I told my gem that he was pushing it, he didn’t listen so yes when I finally snapped and cursed him out I was not open to rebuilding, that ship had sailed for me. However, I’m not a mean person so I can forgive but just because I forgive you doesn’t mean get back together.

And He did not mirror me being shitty, he was being shitty first and I finally snapped and basically told him I’m done and he can kick rocks and have a nice life, because I was tired of his bullshit and I wasn’t going to deal with being treated like an option when I know I deserve to be a priority. I said in a much meaner way because I was pissed at the time, but like I said I was pushed. And like I also said, I was so damn mad that I didn’t care about him cursing, because I was fired up. I didn’t go silent because he was yelling at me, I went silent on him because I was DONE with him. I told him that in the argument, I don’t have anything else to say after that.

oh fuck it, us Geminis can't seem to do anything right.

Posted by gemguyaz34
oh fuck it, us Geminis can't seem to do anything right.

LOL. You are being dramatic.

Early on I would think it would be ok to be "busy" but don't purposely be distant...Gems like attention. I will lose interest QUICK if I'm not getting ample attention that shows the other person is interested.

Posted by Lyse

Posted by gemguyaz34
oh fuck it, us Geminis can't seem to do anything right.

LOL. You are being dramatic.

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Of course, I'm a Gem. You Libra's know how we roll lol

Gems don't lost interest once they have interest. Real interest, not fleeting. The only thing that makes them lose real interest is if they don't see you reciprocate and they think they need to get over you - which they will. I get you want him to chase you but Geminis like equal relationships - its a give and take, push and pull. Don't make him chase too hard. It's okay for the initiation of contact and plans to be 50/50, he will appreciate it. Men need reassurance that they are desired too you know 🙂